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[sesame]

im married im bi and my wife is cool with it are u ok with married guys or do u like haveing a person all to your self

Ah, so your wife is really big hearted! But will you also be cool with it, if she maintains physical relation with a dozen other guys?

[sesame]

Originally Posted by sesame

Ah, so your wife is really big hearted! But will you also be cool with it, if she maintains physical relation with a dozen other guys?

I believe that a proper love affair only happens between two persons at a time. More than two is a crowd. Its only good for physical fun... or not.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by sesame

I believe that a proper love affair only happens between two persons at a time. More than two is a crowd. Its only good for physical fun... or not.

I have known quite a few relationships that worked very well (including mine) where the partners had other people involved with both or on the side, but openly. The key is respect and honesty.. just like every other relationship.

[sesame]

Love affair needs concentration. How can you focus if your attention is divided into many? You have but one heart, how can you give it to a multitude?

[sesame]

Anyways, you are wiser than me in so many aspects...
May be I am not even fit to utter a word in defiance of you.
Yeah, Miss Manners, stardom is really intoxicating.
Enjoy your High.

[sesame]

Hey Hanks,
If I go against Busy Miss B, how do you think she will react?

Will she chew me like a Gum, or blow me like a bubble?

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by sesame

Hey Hanks,
If I go against Busy Miss B, how do you think she will react?

Will she chew me like a Gum, or blow me like a bubble?

Oooooo... I think she'll be STERN but fair!

And regarding swinging, I actually have some experience in that field - very good experiences actually. I used to be married back in Denmark to a cisgendered woman - actually quite a little hottie :-) We enjoyed a polyamorous lifestyle and made some wonderful friends.

I'll spare you the juicy details but I do second Bionca that it's about respect, honesty, love and enjoying one's partners full pleasure. Jealousy was never an issue.

We're divorced now for reasons unrelated to our lifestyle.

Bionca - regarding the "fag" guy, yes, I'm sure you're absolutely right. It was his fantasy and it didn't work for him irl. Still no reason for him to act the way he did. I remember years ago I had a gay-fantasy - so I did it and it didn't work. And that's what I told the guy. No need to be melodramatic or insulting about it. Besides, he should have realized that most transsexual women are probably rather well prepared for the facts of life and the path they have so courageously taken.