Does liking shemales make you gay?

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Justme

Bionca has explained things pretty well, but I might as well add my two cents.

To me, it started out of pure curiosity. I was like 16, just got the internet, had to look at porn you know. I came across the word "shemale" and got curious. I had a pretty good idea what to expect but you never know. I looked at the site, had a very beautiful lady..picture was loading (on dial up) she had awesome boobs too...then BAM, a huge hard cock.

I was like OH SHIT and closed it out. Later on however (like most teens I'm sure) I began to wonder about sex with another guy. Thing is though, I wasn't and still am not attracted to the male body. What I mean is I don't look at a guy and say "Wow, he's cute!" like I do with women. To this day I still don't...no, I'm not in denial or anything, I consider myself as bi as one can get and don't mind admitting I like cock. I just don't like the male body, I dig femininity. Smooth skin, hardly any or no hair at all; not huge muscles, sweat and body hair (I know, it's a generalization and there are very feminine boys out there, but bare with me). That being said, tgirls are my escape, they are the perfect way for me to have what I love. A feminine body but yet the extra tool that's always fun.

It's not all about sex either though. I believe it was someone on this site that mentioned tgirls know all about men, they grew up in the locker room with us! So, on an intellectual level I feel they really understand guys a bit better than a gg...which is sometimes good, sometimes bad, but that's part of the adventure. I just feel I can relate a little more with a tgirl...and after all, relationships are based around that very thing. Don't get me wrong, I still date ggs like always, mainly because there isn't an abundance of tgirls in my area, but one day I hope to experience something with 'a girl with a boys toy.'

- Ok there's my two cents, hope it made sense

I agree with this so much, I haven't been here long, but all I ever see Showmelove post are flames. It isn't my place to tell you to leave if you don't like it here, but you might find yourself a little better off if you did. Honestly, I don't think anyone here is *too* interested in hearing why we shouldn't like tgirls, we're here to discuss why we like them .

Hope you get a chance to experience love with a nice transsexual woman. If you have the drive inside you, then you must act on it. Easy for me to say because I've already done it (and live in a place where it's much easier to actually FIND transsexual women), but do it, pal!

It's very rare now that I'm with a gg - it happens but I seem to find myself in a situation where I ask myself: "Hmmm - and why was it I did this?" When I'm with a transsexual lover I'm truly "at home". Maybe you will feel the same way!

Peace!

Hank

[indian_shemale_lover]

For me the process started with a fetish for anal sex. In MF porn I mean. Then kinda got bored of it, so decided to try kinkier stuff-A2M and rimming. One heavenly day while looking at some rimming pics I glanced upon a shemale being rimmed. With that cock of hers erect in full glory and the guy with a raging hard on too, something clicked in my head. Its been two glorious years of whacking off to erect ladyboy cocks. My fetish is to one day lick of my anal juices off my shemale lover's cock and to look deep into her eyes while doing it.....
Sigh when will the day come?

[practicename]

I started looking at shemales when some friends played a prank on me and left shemale porn on my computer. I saw the images and pretended to be in disguist but really enjoyed the images. My love for shemales is a mix of what everyone else has already said.

On a non sexual level, shemales use to be male, so they have some of the tougher characteristics of males - yet also the grace and sensetivity of women. Intellectually knowing what men want to is a HUGE bonus.

I also cannot deny I like cock. I've been hit on by some gay men, one of them very feminine, but have turned all of them down. I live in an area that probably has little to no shemales. My ultimate dream, even though I'm with a gg, is to find a shemale to be with.

So as the cliche goes, I love shemales cause they are the best of both worlds.

[jimnaseum]

There are some simpler reasons guys go for "shemales" too.
Like the internet makes it so easy.
Like if you're old and single, you want more "flavor" than when you were young and horny.
With the divorce rate at 80% in the US now, and workdays for men and women at 10-12 hours, traditional romance is real work.
There are much worse sex lives than being "gay"
Even Rick Blaine and Ilsa Lund had a stormy romance.
There are no ordinary sex lives.

[TracyCoxx]

For me it was 2 things that initially got me lusting over shemale porn. Before that, like a lot of guys I was hooked on watching lesbian porn. When I ran across shemales it seemed like a natural. If one of the girls in a lesbian couple had a dick, then they could really have sex. I tossed aside pictures of guys sucking shemale cocks and looked for the ones where real girls and/or shemales were sucking off shemales or especially shemales fucking girls.

The 2nd thing is I like to crossdress, and I liked to fantasize that I am a shemale making love to a woman. Like my sig says... I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body.