Early Experiences - What turned you on?

[Boner]

This is a great idea for a thread! Thanks for starting it, Andy, and I'm really looking forward to seeing what you and everyone else has to say on the subject.

So yesterday I revealed that opera singers were an early source of excitement for me. They are the original divas and their beauty and glamour are still a source of pleasure. As much as I like nudity and hardcore, seeing a pretty woman all dolled up and wearing sexy costumes really puts the lead in my pencil. I attached a few pictures of the ladies who did for me back in the day and a couple more current ones.

The first couple are of Maria Ewing, one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. That issue Opera News with her on the cover still does it for me.

The next two are Beverly Sills looking very sexy in her Thaïs costume.

Then we have British bombshell Lesley Garrett. I didn't discover her until later but think she's totally hot

[Boner]

I know I've bored everyone with my revelations but what I'm really curious about is how we all came to like the special ladies we do. I know it my tastes in porn switched as soon as I saw Gia Darling but it took me a while to admit to myself I liked seeing cocks. I used to try blocking them out when looking at tgirl porn.

Then I saw Tonya and her awesome tool. It was all over then.

I'm wondering if others here went through a similar process.

[cumshooter69]

Tonya also sealed the deal for me. I would have loved to have been one of her kept lovers to be used by her everyday.

[Boner]

Originally Posted by cumshooter69

Tonya also sealed the deal for me. I would have loved to have been one of her kept lovers to be used by her everyday.

Tonta was not the first transwoman I was attracted to but, like I said, she was the first model I saw that had me really enjoying the sight of a penis. I mean did like seeing the others but it was more "I don't care if she has a dick" than "I really like seeing her cock".

I'd like to hear if others had a similar experience. I mean if you told the twenty year old me that the forty year old me would be into seeing a penis I'd have told you that you were nuts because I'm straight. I still consider myself straight because I'm not into guys but when it comes to porn I don't care if I ever see another vagina. Tonya was a huge part of that shift.

Anyway, here's a couple more of Tonya and her delicious cock

[Boner]

I figured out that the first non-genetic female I ever pleasured myself to was Tootsie from the movie of the same name. I knew it was actor Dustin Hoffman playing the role but that red sequined dress got me all hot and bothered back in the day. I can't say I ever wanted to wear women's clothing but sexy outfits have always been a huge turn on for me.

[a9127]

Some interesting posts so far. Thanks for reminding me about "Tootsie" I had forgotten about that one, Boner. While not necessarily things that turned me on, the following are some of my earliest memories and helped shape who I am today.

Probably the first time I ever heard the term “transsexual” was in regards to Christine Jorgensen. She underwent SRS (back then it was called, somewhat callously, a “sex change” operation). This took place in 1952 almost 30 years before I was born so I’m trying to remember how I first learned of Christine. I believe it may have been in a high-school Sociology or Psychology class. Or I might have heard my parents talking about it.

“The World Acording to Garp.” John Lithgow as Roberta Muldoon. A 6’4” former football player no less. I did not see the movie until much later (probably early to mid-nineties). While not sexually attracted to Roberta, I liked her. She was one of the first transgender characters that I remember that was portrayed as a real person. In the movie Roberta becomes close friends with Garp (Robin Williams). Roberta could easily have been one of my teammates!

“The Crying Game” a sad movie, although with excellent performances. Jaye Davidson plays Forest Whitaker’s transgender girlfriend, Dil. I remember Jaye mainly as “Ra” from “Stargate.” My favorite pic of Jaye is this one. Very hot.

Described as “the worst movie ever made.” “Myra Breckinridge” from 1970, starred Raquel Welch as “Myron” who undergoes SRS. Based on a novel by Gore Vidal, I remember reading somewhere that Vidal condemned the movie and wanted nothing to do with it. I have only seen it once. It was at a friend’s house in the late 80’s. While his parents were gone we watched a VHS tape (anyone remember those?). Supposedly rated “X.” For a bunch of horny kids the main attractions were Raquel Welch and a very young Farrah Fawcett. I hesitated to even include it here as it looks like it was probably offensive to the LGBT community. I do so only because it was one of my earliest memories of a transsexual character in a movie.

Again, some years before I was born, several episodes of “All In The Family” featured Lori Shannon (a real life female impersonator) as “Beverly LaSalle” a woman Archie rescues in his cab and forms an uneasy friendship with. Beverly was also one of the first characters I can recall that was portrayed as a person and not a parody, although with humor. I was very young when I saw these episodes in repeats and if you have seen them you know Beverly tragically is murdered trying to stop a robbery. I cried over this at the time. Last summer I watched the episode on cable with my wife and we both cried! I had forgotten that Edith is so shaken she renounces her faith in God. Also the implication is that Beverly may have been killed because she was transgender. A very powerful and moving episode. Sadly Lori passed away in 1984. RIP

[a9127]

There never was any one model that “caught my attention.” The pictures and anecdotes from my above post are just some of the earliest examples of transwomen that I was aware of. This was from a very young age. I also was aware that some “guys” liked each other the way most “guys and girls” did (I was still young enough that whatever it was they “did” I wasn’t exactly sure… ). The first “t-girl” porn pics I ever saw were from the earliest days of the Internet when I was a little older. Among the first names I can recall were Camila Saenz, Victoria Holyns, and Tara Emory. But that was years later. I've whacked off to all the pics below (notice a trend? ). Looking back, I never thought it was “weird” or “strange,” ever. It was just the way they were.

My first “girlfriend” would have to have been a little girl that I used to walk home from school with. She was in second grade and I was in third. All we ever did was hold hands and she is the first girl I ever kissed. This would have been the Fall of 1988.

We moved back to Michigan and I never saw her again. My dad had received a big promotion and we lived in a very “upscale” neighborhood. Very different from where we had lived previously. At first it was difficult “fitting in.” Incidentally, this is the neighborhood where I watched “Myra Breckinridge” with my friends (wonder if I can find it on Netflix? ) During that time I went through a major growth spurt which worked out really well for football. Suddenly I was getting a lot of recognition. By then I had figured out how things “worked” and had made out with several girls. No, we didn't do that… but most of the other stuff.

Then something happened that would totally change my life. When I was 11 or 12 I became friends with a boy who lived down the street from us. He was very feminine acting, super smart, and very cute. He really did look like a girl.

At first we were just friends. I didn’t think much about it either way. A lot of the kids used to make fun of him and for the most part I was able to put a stop to it. The “rumor” at school was that he was gay. His dad also worked in the auto industry and they were pretty well off. Our families were friends. What I remember most about him initially is that I felt the way I did around girls. I had never had feelings like that for another “guy” but there was just something... I still was attracted to girls however. Anyway I decided not to worry about it. We liked each other (a lot) and that was that. No, I never felt I was “gay” and it didn’t matter to me anyhow.

I’ve already written about her elsewhere on TLB and you can find the story of that summer on my WordPress site. Her name was “Stephen” which she later changed to “Stephanie.” She was the first girl I was ever really in love with. She now lives in New York. We dated through high-school and parted friends. We kept in touch for a while. I consider our relationship the primary reason why I am the way I am. I’ve been married twice since then and had many girlfriends. Being attracted to a “girl with a cock” is totally normal. So is being gay, although the two don’t necessarily go together.

[1_Talent_Scout]

Originally Posted by Boner

I know I've bored everyone with my revelations but what I'm really curious about is how we all came to like the special ladies we do. I know it my tastes in porn switched as soon as I saw Gia Darling but it took me a while to admit to myself I liked seeing cocks. I used to try blocking them out when looking at tgirl porn.

Then I saw Tonya and her awesome tool. It was all over then.

I'm wondering if others here went through a similar process.

I think my taste switched, when I realised that in the vast majority of cases; the traditional idea of a "female/girl" turns me on, but they don't know how to fuck in bed.
Sex is almost always viewed from the lens of the guy.
But as a guy it's kina boring not having an equal in the bedroom.
It does happen, but I find tgirls much more sexually in tune with their desires and drives and...just everything.

[Boner]

Originally Posted by 1_Talent_Scout

I think my taste switched, when I realised that in the vast majority of cases; the traditional idea of a "female/girl" turns me on, but they don't know how to fuck in bed.
Sex is almost always viewed from the lens of the guy.
But as a guy it's kina boring not having an equal in the bedroom.
It does happen, but I find tgirls much more sexually in tune with their desires and drives and...just everything.

I think many of us transexual admirers enjoy the thought of a lady that can give as good as she gets...and then some!