Prostate massage

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by belfagar

Nice response. I will definatly take your advice. Any other tips? any other ways to compliment an orgasm?

Well... the human body is wonderfully designed to compliment an orgasm. Interestingly, I found that the places where people are most often ticklish (armpits, sides, feet) are also highly erotic. Rather than light quick touching like a tickle, steady pressing and massage can enhance the pleasure of all types of sex.

Any eay way to see is to find a dowl rod or a broomstick and run the arch of your foot over it during masterbation. It's also something that is easy to explore with a sex-partner and is common for both men and women. I'm also really fond of having my nipples pinched..but only right before I clymax.

[belfagar]

You got a lot to say huh? I like that. wow

[Bionca]

Well.. at one point was just as ragngly horney as any of you guys, and I sure dd play around with my sexuality. It probably helped that I briefly identified as a gay man and dove bottom first into exploring my sexuality.

[belfagar]

Surely to god you must have an appetite. Erotic?

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by belfagar

Surely to god you must have an appetite. Erotic?

Absolutely, I love sex. The thing is, with Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) the drive for sex becomes different. Men go from 0 to 60 in a second thanks to testosterone.

For me (I have no idea how it is for others), it's a slow simmer. I'm always kinda turned on, but if nothing happens for days or weeks, I'm good. I don't have that drive to "get off". It's hard to explain, I don't quite understand it, and I lived through it. Sex becomes less about physical sensations and more about mental/emotional stimulation. The physical is still important, but purely physical stimulation isn't enough, or it needs to be done over time.

For example, with my ex.. we would start being sexual as soon as we came home from work or school. Not overtly sexual, but subtly sexual. Rubbing my arm when talking to me, nibbling my neck while I'm cooking dinner, giving him an "accidental" peek at my breast while I bend down, running my foot against his leg while watching TV, placing his hand in the small of my back. By the time we went to bed I couldn't wait (often we didn't even make it to bed).

On the other hand, someone whipping out an erection just isn't so hot for me. I really can't crank it up that fast anymore. I know what to do with it, and pleasuring a partner is pretty hot on its own, but usually I just need a little more to get the motor running.

[belfagar]

Do you \ can you masturbate? Since you don't have a partner how do you take care of buisness ?

[Bionca]

In the past year, maybe 5 times. I'll finger myself anally or use a shower massage. It isn't the same as having a fella, but it works in a pinch. It just takes a really long time to get to the point of clymax.

[sesame]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Absolutely, I love sex. The thing is, with Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) the drive for sex becomes different. Men go from 0 to 60 in a second thanks to testosterone.

For me (I have no idea how it is for others), it's a slow simmer. I'm always kinda turned on, but if nothing happens for days or weeks, I'm good. I don't have that drive to "get off". It's hard to explain, I don't quite understand it, and I lived through it. Sex becomes less about physical sensations and more about mental/emotional stimulation. The physical is still important, but purely physical stimulation isn't enough, or it needs to be done over time.

For example, with my ex.. we would start being sexual as soon as we came home from work or school. Not overtly sexual, but subtly sexual. Rubbing my arm when talking to me, nibbling my neck while I'm cooking dinner, giving him an "accidental" peek at my breast while I bend down, running my foot against his leg while watching TV, placing his hand in the small of my back. By the time we went to bed I couldn't wait (often we didn't even make it to bed).

On the other hand, someone whipping out an erection just isn't so hot for me. I really can't crank it up that fast anymore. I know what to do with it, and pleasuring a partner is pretty hot on its own, but usually I just need a little more to get the motor running.

I find your description of slow eroticism quite enchanting and its certainly better than a stupid Fug*! It goes way deeper emotionally.
It burns like an ember!
And radiates a desirable warmth.
I think it improves a relation too.

[jimnaseum]

HA HA HA. I called a pharmacy once and asked how much their "prostate massager" was. After 10 minutes, the guy came back on and said "What??!!!"

[CreativeMind]

Originally Posted by Bionca

For example, with my ex...we would start being sexual as soon as we came home from work or school. Not overtly sexual, but subtly sexual. Rubbing my arm when talking to me, nibbling my neck while I'm cooking dinner, giving him an "accidental" peek at my breast while I bend down, running my foot against his leg while watching TV, placing his hand in the small of my back. By the time we went to bed I couldn't wait (often we didn't even make it to bed).

Is it just me or does anyone else have the sudden need to go take a cold shower?
Once again Bionca strikes and reminds everyone how special she is! :D

I happened to me without the penis being touched while anal sex. And i can say that i have never feel an orgasm like that.

I can't explain the pleasure and it was a perfect experience for me.
Normally, i don't like anal sex but if i m horny enough i can do it.

But Orgasm without touching penis feels so different experience and u feel a wonderful pleasure inside of u. You feel the pleasure slowly slowly and when the pleasure is on top you feel like something blow into u and your penis squirt your love juice.

I hope i can live that thing again.