Prostate massage

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by belfagar

Can someone fill me in on this. I'm quite curious?

I guess I should also say pardon the pun.

Ever rubbed the spot between the anus and testicles? That's the P-spot. With the right partner a man can have this stimulated through the anus from the inside. The orgasm is quite intense and sometimes can happen without the penis being touched.

When homophobes say stuff like "I don't see how a guy can take it in the ass" those in the know will snicker at their loss.

I kinda miss the no-hand cumming thing.. oh well.

[belfagar]

I have always fantasized about it. but too afraid. and a no hands orgasm sounds kinda cool. can ya tell me how to do that.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by belfagar

I have always fantasized about it. but too afraid. and a no hands orgasm sounds kinda cool. can ya tell me how to do that.

Well.. you need to have the prostate stimulated from inside, so either a dildo or a partner with a penis or a strap-on.. fingers won't quite reach I'm afraid (pesky anatomy). It's essentially the same as stimulating the female G-Spot, a consistently building speed and pressure (you know..sex). It won't happen every time, and each person is different, but when it happens :o

Every time it happened to me I was completely surprised when it happened. I was just enjoying some sexy fun and then *BINGO*.. the build up is different and faster than any other way.

[belfagar]

I'm kinda alone on this. My partner probably isnt going to want to do any of that for me so i gotta figure something else out.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by belfagar

I'm kinda alone on this. My partner probably isnt going to want to do any of that for me so i gotta figure something else out.

When you are alone and about to orgasm, press on the spot at the back base of your testicles. That will give you a little understanding. Also, if you can manage it, a little dildo play could help. Personally, I'm not fond of dildoes - I'm pretty small framed, and rubber doesn't have enough "give" to make it as comfortable as the flesh version.

[belfagar]

If it was a toy, How big would it have to be. If it feels that good i would like to experience it.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by belfagar

If it was a toy, How big would it have to be. If it feels that good i would like to experience it.

Ahh good question!!

I bet as a guy you will probably try to go for something big - guys really have a thing for the big ones. I would say start small, 5" and thin should be more than enough. You may find this is ideal, you may want to go larger, but unless you are a mutant with a superhumanly long anal cavity, 5 - 6" will be more than enough.

Oh and use lube .. none of that KY crap they sell next to the condoms either. May as well just use spit. This is your bottom, and it will want to resist something going in, you want to make that as easy as you can. Play around with it.. get some porn you like... soon everything will fall into place.

You may want to get one with a suction cup base and squat on it rather than use your hands to direct it. I found in my few times wandering into dildo land that it was a little distracting having to push it in and out.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Well.. you need to have the prostate stimulated from inside, so either a dildo or a partner with a penis or a strap-on.. fingers won't quite reach I'm afraid (pesky anatomy). It's essentially the same as stimulating the female G-Spot, a consistently building speed and pressure (you know..sex). It won't happen every time, and each person is different, but when it happens :o

Every time it happened to me I was completely surprised when it happened. I was just enjoying some sexy fun and then *BINGO*.. the build up is different and faster than any other way.

"Fingers don't quite reach"
I am a little confused here. My doctor seems to have no trouble reaching and "massaging" my prostate.

[miss_kandy]

i too agree randolph. my fingers quite easily reach and stimulate it quite a treat... as does my 'g-spot' vibe!
but Bionca's insights and advice was very good reading. Thank you!!

[Rocío]

¡Thank you Bionca!

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by randolph

"Fingers don't quite reach"
I am a little confused here. My doctor seems to have no trouble reaching and "massaging" my prostate.

I have found that you can reach it, but the amount of stimulation is hard to get with fingers if you want a no hands on the cock orgasm. I won't say it can't happen, but IMO it's just easier with other stuff being used. I also tend to squirm alot, so maybe I just wiggle out of reach *shrug*

[moonwalkermoon]

Originally Posted by belfagar

I have always fantasized about it. but too afraid. and a no hands orgasm sounds kinda cool. can ya tell me how to do that.

While stroking your penis try to push your middle finger into your anus as far a you can, the other fingers stretched, and at the same time sort of pull your anus towards your tummy. It helps if you lift your butt a little bit.

Helped me sometimes.

[danonymous]

Have to say, theres no doubt that stimulating the prostate, and even just the anus, while cumming, is something every guy should experience, the orgasms intensity will take you by surprise.

[Seeks_LB_fun]

descriptions and advice in this thread are very good. however i still have a question. though i have experiented with anal play using both toys and fingers, i have not had an orgasm of such elation described. when i use my 6" dildo i produce alot of precum, my cock practically leaks the stuff (which is very fine by me as i prefer taste of precum ) but i do not have a mind bending orgasm or any tinglyness. my question by the way is when touching where the prostate is located (using fingers) does it feel different to the rest of the anus to touch, or must i just rely on when it 'just feels good'? now i might just have another go now gettin horny just thinking bout it

[aries]

I know that tantric massage involves massaging the prostate. It is something that I have not experienced, but look forward to, as I understand that the orgasm is totally different, and am also told that a man can orgasm that way, and then ejaculate.... and have two different feelings.

Thanks Bionca for your insight.

A.

[EdwardSinclair]

This thread has been forgotten, but I had a go at it this weekend, and I reached this climax. I have posted lengthy descriptions about it in another thread, as I was so excited about it!

Thanks bionca for all your info on this stuff, you really must start small, that's what I was doing wrong previously. Now I'm part of "those in the know"...

[tifosi44]

My Masseur is an expert at giving a fantastic Prostate Massage and hand job. He uses a lubed latex glove and it is performed very slowly, as well as the hand job. He uses two fingers, starting with only one of course, but slides them in as far as possible, until he is able to feel the prostate. With me on my back and legs spread with knees up, he does a come hither stroking, with fingers curving towards tummy or cock. The sensation builds and I cum so strongly that I can't open my eyes for 5 minutes afterwards :-)
Hope this helps?

[oskar]

Once I got a prostate massage by a TS escort and it was fantastic. But usually it doesn`t turn me on being fucked.

[katercarlo]

years ago, when i lived in another city, i had my massage every week. it was a serious full body massage, performed by a massage therapist in a parlor.

this massage included a serious prostate massage for health. the massage therapist covered his index finger with a kind of rubber and lubricated my asshole. now he would insert his finger into me, searched the prostate point inside of me and massaged it a few minutes.

i enjoyed this massage very much, even though i never had an orgasm meanwhile! afterwards the therapist continued the body massage without ever touching my penis!

but i remember, that i used to feel horny after that massage and used to masturbate to climax as soon as i could!

[9yneGuy]

Originally Posted by danonymous

Have to say, theres no doubt that stimulating the prostate, and even just the anus, while cumming, is something every guy should experience, the orgasms intensity will take you by surprise.

I agree, I came intensely and a lot more when I was fucking myself. It's great.

[tslust]

I love getting my prostate stimulated.

[Seeks_LB_fun]

i have now tried it and succeded...i think. i didnt actually orgasm while masaging my prostate but the feelings were good. and i did cum afterwards