Bareback

[Melissa Pink]

Jodi is correct. If she is barebacking with you she is barebacking with other partners. I enjoy sex and occasionally have sex with multiple partners in the course of on evening. Regardless, I get tested regularly and always use condoms for anal sex no matter who badly my partner(s) want to buttfuck me condomless.

As stated, lately I've been using flavored condoms for giving head. Don't think that it detracts from your pleasure. If anything if a gurl knows what she is doing getting a blowjob while your wearing a condom will enable you to enjoy her skills before you blow your load. If you must have unprotected sex get tested for HIV and STD's and insist your partner do the same. Being tested isn't a guarentee that you and your partner are clean but it's much better than "sailing into unknown waters" where there are sure to be hidden hazards beneath the surface!

[darklord666]

I think you are taking a MASSIVE risk here.

It?s worth using protection with a partner you have been dating for only a few months but to go bareback with an escort is bordering on the suicidal. There must be a limit to where excitement will take us.

If you want to continue enjoying ?very intense sex moment[s]? I suggest that you get tested, get a condom and get yourself a new escort; one that doesn?t go bareback with any client for any amount of money.

[MooLuver]

She must care for you...I dont see a problem with it.

[smc]

Originally Posted by MooLuver

She must care for you...I dont see a problem with it.

What's that expression? Oh, yeah: words to die by.

[michael39]

How many of you actually use condoms for oral sex? Aren't the risks less with oral sex than anal or vaginal sex? Do you swallow?

I'm curious. I've given a few blowjobs without condoms. Never swallowed or had cum in my mouth. But lately I've been worrying that I'm putting myself at risk.

I'd like to hear more about what people consider safe and not safe.

[KittyKaiti]

Originally Posted by michael39

How many of you actually use condoms for oral sex? Aren't the risks less with oral sex than anal or vaginal sex? Do you swallow?

I'm curious. I've given a few blowjobs without condoms. Never swallowed or had cum in my mouth. But lately I've been worrying that I'm putting myself at risk.

I'd like to hear more about what people consider safe and not safe.

You can acquire HIV through unprotected oral sex should you have any of the following issues in your mouth:

a) Bleeding Gums
b) Cold sores, canker sores, herpes, syphilis sores
c) Chapped lips/broken lips, chapped splits/open wounds
d) Bite wounds to tongue, inner cheeks, lips
e) Tongue Piercings/Lip rings

[Enoch Root]

Originally Posted by michael39

How many of you actually use condoms for oral sex? Aren't the risks less with oral sex than anal or vaginal sex? Do you swallow?

I'm curious. I've given a few blowjobs without condoms. Never swallowed or had cum in my mouth. But lately I've been worrying that I'm putting myself at risk.

I'd like to hear more about what people consider safe and not safe.

Unless I misremember my biology you have had semen in your mouth. Small amounts of it to be sure but you have had semen in your mouth. Trace amounts of it are often ejaculated along with the precum--whatever the real name for that might be.

[KittyKaiti]

Originally Posted by Enoch Root

Unless I misremember my biology you have had semen in your mouth. Small amounts of it to be sure but you have had semen in your mouth. Trace amounts of it are often ejaculated along with the precum--whatever the real name for that might be.

Yes he would have pre-ejaculate in his mouth, which is basically prostate fluids and he can acquire HIV and everything else from that.

[Melissa Pink]

Originally Posted by michael39

How many of you actually use condoms for oral sex? Aren't the risks less with oral sex than anal or vaginal sex? Do you swallow?

I'm curious. I've given a few blowjobs without condoms. Never swallowed or had cum in my mouth. But lately I've been worrying that I'm putting myself at risk.

I'd like to hear more about what people consider safe and not safe.

Theoretically the risks of oral sex are less than with receptive anal sex. The mechanics of taking a cock in your ass increase the likelihood of tearing the mucous membranes in your rectum which can enable bacteria that causes STD's and the the HIV virus from entering your system.

Giving a partner head without protection isn't without risk of acquiring STD's or HIV. As others have stated if you have cuts on your lips or gums or a recently pierced tongue you may be at risk.

Lately, I've been carrying flavored Lifestyle condoms in my purse. I've only had one guy protest when I unwrapped a condom and began to slide it on his cock before I went down on him. I reassured him and told him that he would still enjoy it. When I use a condom during oral I miss my partner cumming in my mouth but it todays world a gurl can't be too careful. I really enjoy giving head and using a condom enables me to do so without wondering if it was a bad idea to go down on a stranger that I meet in a club or at a party.

I'm currently reserving unprotected oral sex for my friend Cedric

[Sophie Sparkles]

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  I know exactaly what you mean! I've not had the feeling when it came to barebacking, but it is the feeling I get a lot of the time about dressing up in general. It's like all I want to do, and so I do, but then I get annoyed at myself. I really don't see any harm in it though, and it can be a lot of fun when I just let it be. If it's the same for you, then you should try not to worry either! I don't know if the barebacking is safe, but I hope to find out that it can be. I'd just love to be filled up and over flowing with hot cum while being dressed up all pretty!
  

[Enoch Root]

Originally Posted by smc

What's that expression? Oh, yeah: words to die by.

Hilarious indeed though you did not intend a joke.