How and where to meet a shemale

[chrisy76]

Hi there, does anyone know where i should look to find a true TS/ladyboy who does not lie? I want to bring one here to visit me in UK for 3 months...i have been fooled by many TS over 3 years losing lots of money, now i don't know what to do

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by chrisy76

Hi there, does anyone know where i should look to find a true TS/ladyboy who does not lie? I want to bring one here to visit me in UK for 3 months...i have been fooled by many TS over 3 years losing lots of money, now i don't know what to do

Hiya
This is in answer to both this and your similar PM to me.

As you have found out, most are scams to take your money.
The few trans women {ladyboy is just plain offensive} in SE Asia
who may be prepared to visit you would be unlikely to get into the uk.

Basically UK immigration have severe restriction for non EU visitors.
Even more so where there is a huge income average difference between
the uk and Thailand, or Philippines or Malaysia or wherever.
Basically because of the high risk of people coming over to work.

So UK immigration need proof of both a job/career over there,
one that a person would be highly unlikely to throw away just for a visit to the uk.
Also they need a bank account with substantial savings
and proof of how this person is going to support themselves when over in the uk.

So if you can find a very solvent trans woman,
of independent means and wealth,
then yes they would be able to come over to you.

But this person would possibly travel internationally for business and holidays anyway
so I've no idea why they would want to stay with you for 3 months
What happens to their business and their employees and their company's customer base during this time?

Unless you are looking to "obtain" an impoverished,
maybe-desperate person ripe for you to exploit probably sexually.
{A serious mismatch of power here}

From what I've seen you write here and in PM,
you basically creep me out.
Just look at what you've written.
You want the person as an object for 3 months,
for the price of a plane ticket!

I hope no one trusts their pets or children with you.
shudders

[chrisy76]

yeah i can see what you mean Jodie...i don't mean it like that. Really looking to date a TS and bring one over so we can have a nice relationship. As i don't have the courage to meet girls i find myself comfortable with asian TS.
I went in blind first 2 years asking webcam TS more fool me as i lost so much money hoping that TS would travel to embassy. Now hoping to find proper one via dating site and an add on OLX. More normality response i have had. But as i found out from an agency last year and you mention the visa requirements are so difficult for them. Can you tell me Jodie what i should do? I don't want others to think the same way you understood me. Thank you

[JodieTs]

Ok accepting your points on face value
It is still a very unequal relationship
They would only come over to see you in the hope of a better life
{think desperation}
Your reasons are wanting them is for a generic desire
rather than a desire for a specific person
this too is fucked up

Its like me wanting to date chrisy76 coz you live in Manchester
rather than
I want to date chrisy76 who happens to live in Manchester

Now do you see the general problem?

Ok a harsh reality for you
Either way, you will not be able to import a Thai or Philippine Transsexual female, for the reasons in my last post.

Any company or organisation claiming to offer you this service are lying and trying to steal your money.

[loing]

i love what you've posted Jodie in this thread , its help clarify a few things in my mind..thanks