Why don't you already have a transsexual girlfriend?

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by smc

I'm truly sorry for your pain, but it doesn't change that your percentage is clearly impossible to justify. If you said the percentage was of the g-girls with whom you had sought relationships, or something more particular to you, you might have a case.

Such dismissiveness and generalization only feeds pain. It does little to alleviate it.

Whatever.....the point is that I am through with g-girls, to hell with them.

[Demonic shemale licker]

My problem is that i'm still a closeted bisexual man, and if i ever come out i can only imagine all the fuzz that i would get from my family and some of my friends, I would be outcasted by some of my friends while others wouldn't have a problem with it, but the idea that some of them would look at me as if i was some sort of freak hurts me, the area where i live doesn't help out either. God damn it! The ignorance of some of the people here erks me! As for my family it was bad enough the looks and comments i got when i came out to a portion of them as an atheist, they would say things like "You like men!", or "It's bad enough that you like men, but you like transexuals too?!!" I come from a hypocritical/conservative christian/hispanic family that just will throw me to the lions if they ever find out. My mom would probably be heartbroken, i can only imagine what would go through her head " my son is godless and is a homosexual". Sometime i just want to cry at the ills of my current predicament and the ills of the world. At other times i just want to yell out to the world about my sexuality and feelings, but i feel so trapped. My only consolation is my will to become more independent.

[racquel]

Originally Posted by Trogdor

Whatever.....the point is that I am through with g-girls, to hell with them.

Please tell me you're not expecting the transgender community to be more sane than what you've encountered with genetic women.

We've taken a lot of shit from a lot of people and even the relatively stable transsexuals (if they exist) probably won't trust your intentions even if you are the 1 in 10,000 people who want more than sex.

And here's a quick fact for you:

Women tend to have estrogen levels of about 40 pg/ml most of the month and peak at 200-400 pg/ml. That gives them plenty mood swings. Taking hormone injections, my estrogen is in the 1,000 to 1,500 pg/ml range. So it takes a lot of restraint for me not to be 4X crazier than a chick with PMS.

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by racquel

Please tell me you're not expecting the transgender community to be more sane than what you've encountered with genetic women.

We've taken a lot of shit from a lot of people and even the relatively stable transsexuals (if they exist) probably won't trust your intentions even if you are the 1 in 10,000 people who want more than sex.

And here's a quick fact for you:

Women tend to have estrogen levels of about 40 pg/ml most of the month and peak at 200-400 pg/ml. That gives them plenty mood swings. Taking hormone injections, my estrogen is in the 1,000 to 1,500 pg/ml range. So it takes a lot of restraint for me not to be 4X crazier than a chick with PMS.

I've been treated a milllion times better by transgirls than I have by g-girls. One ts girl in Seattle I know said, "nothing wrong with going that way, one option does not work for you, go with the other".

It's just plain logic.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Trogdor

I've been treated a milllion times better by transgirls than I have by g-girls. One ts girl in Seattle I know said, "nothing wrong with going that way, one option does not work for you, go with the other".

It's just plain logic.

Your generalizations -- whether stated explicitly or implicitly -- are growing tiresome. Your experience does not translate into data that can be applied to an entire class or group.

[Demonic shemale licker]

Hey, c'mon my peeps, lets get back more on topic, i'm hoping this will get us
to a more positive light, i was just thinking yesterday that perhaps one other reason why i haven't pursued my dream is because i would just be 2 shy to do it, for example a couple days ago i saw a cute looking tgirl pass me by, but when our eyes met i immediately turned my face and blushed. The scary part for me is that i think she was able to tell by me doing that action that i like tgirls! I just wish i were as brave as some of the people here when it comes to these type of things.

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by Demonic shemale licker

Hey, c'mon my peeps, lets get back more on topic, i'm hoping this will get us
to a more positive light, i was just thinking yesterday that perhaps one other reason why i haven't pursued my dream is because i would just be 2 shy to do it, for example a couple days ago i saw a cute looking tgirl pass me by, but when our eyes met i immediately turned my face and blushed. The scary part for me is that i think she was able to tell by me doing that action that i like tgirls! I just wish i were as brave as some of the people here when it comes to these type of things.

Here's what to do.

See the girl, take a deep breath and go for it. That shyness thing won't fly with girls. It's only 'cute' and 'charming' on those cheesy 1980's movies where the geek tries to get the girl/boy.

Imagine you are at the home plate, it's near the end of the 9th inning, bases at loaded and it's your turn at bat. Just focus on making that winning hit, don't worry about the other folks ready to catch that ball you hit, just hit the damned thing and go from there.

[Demonic shemale licker]

If only it were that easy, my post from a day ago highlights some of the problems i might have if i go this route.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by racquel

Please tell me you're not expecting the transgender community to be more sane than what you've encountered with genetic women.

We've taken a lot of shit from a lot of people and even the relatively stable transsexuals (if they exist).....
So it takes a lot of restraint for me not to be 4X crazier than a chick with PMS.

I once met a normal, relatively stable transsexual....once,


....just once.