How and where to meet a shemale

[smc]

There is a Sticky thread on this topic: "How and where to meet a shemale." Your thread has been merged there. I suggest you look through that thread.

[tsfever]

If any one is traveling to Sao Paulo Brasil, a Great place to meet a latina TS is at a club called "Love Story" in the "Centro" Neighborhood... you can also try any little bar within a 5 block radius of there.

[JodieTs]

How do you actually get to meet a transsexual woman?

Most Transsexual women meet partners who know our history.
Maybe they knew us before we transitioned.
Maybe they ?read? us
Maybe through work, where gossip outed us.
Though we mostly meet though trans friendly spaces:
be it a tg forum /chat room,
trans club/bar,
or from a group of friends and friends of friends...where the suitor had the heads-up on our past,
or they used to date a friend of ours who is also a Transsexual woman...
And so on.

My man said the easiest way to date a Transsexual woman, is to interact with us on trans boards.
Post on areas of common interest. Avoid sex topics.
See if you click.
Assess which Transsexual women are slightly deranged
and which are very deranged
(Accept that to a degree we are all bonkers)
And private message anyone you find interesting.
Later, suggest phone / social contact.
If later, things move on to friendship and then romance,cool.
My man wooed me for six months after our first meeting before I relented.


Oh, be prepared to put lots of time and ? or $:
Think flights, hotels, food, car rental
Because of our rarity, you will probably have to put a lot of effort into travel and resulting costs.
My man lives 1400 miles from me,
Yep, he had to go that far just to meet for an afternoon, to see if we would be friends. He combined the trip with some work stuff.

[pretty_ladyboy]

^
very well said Jodiets... thats the things you must avoid, know, improve, portray, and keep in heart if you want to meet us.

and also the tsdating site i love that site too... too bad admin blocked ts from asia because they are only allowing ts located in US i think.

its very hard to find a guy who can risk everything for you... a guy who can sacrifice things just to be with you... maybe that guy is just a part of fairytale stories

[Trogdor]

How about Michigan? Finding a cutie, or a place to meet cuties over here makes finding a needle in a haystack look like child's play.

And ALL the dating sites have given me piss-poor results and so-called 'matches'. Dating Sites are made out of epic failure.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Trogdor

How about Michigan? Finding a cutie, or a place to meet cuties over here makes finding a needle in a haystack look like child's play.

And ALL the dating sites have given me piss-poor results and so-called 'matches'. Dating Sites are made out of epic failure.

Well. the truth is this:
If we look totally like any other woman, you will not know we are Ts
{cuties are only a small % of Ts women}

I never get taken to be anything other than a Day-1 woman,
which makes me totally invisible to potentially interested men.
I'm in a long tern relationship so that fact does not bother me either way. But if I was single I still wouldn't care. I want people to like me for the person I am, not because I have a penis.
A penis is a rubbish reason to date. Sure, its funny when I walk through my lounge, naked, on the wat to my shower, waving my penis up and down, making:woo woo woo noises.
It's even funny the second or third time...
But after then, you really need a lot more to base a relationship on.

Long term relationships....well a lot of my friends met their partners when they didn't quite look the way they do now. Didn't quite pass. Early days. Still some / a lot of their male past apparent.
Their male partners dated them for who they were not for the external appearance.
Would you date a recent transitioned trans woman if she occasionally had a 5? clock shadow...


Finally, I only know a few trans friends who go on trans dating sites.
They are there to EXCLUSIVELY date other trans....

The rest of us don't need to
or more importantly, don't want to meet a man who we perceive to be fixated about that part of our bodies we loath...

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Well. the truth is this:
If we look totally like any other woman, you will not know we are Ts
{cuties are only a small % of Ts women}

I never get taken to be anything other than a Day-1 woman,
which makes me totally invisible to potentially interested men.
I'm in a long tern relationship so that fact does not bother me either way. But if I was single I still wouldn't care. I want people to like me for the person I am, not because I have a penis.
A penis is a rubbish reason to date. Sure, its funny when I walk through my lounge, naked, on the wat to my shower, waving my penis up and down, making:woo woo woo noises.
It's even funny the second or third time...
But after then, you really need a lot more to base a relationship on.

Long term relationships....well a lot of my friends met their partners when they didn't quite look the way they do now. Didn't quite pass. Early days. Still some / a lot of their male past apparent.
Their male partners dated them for who they were not for the external appearance.
Would you date a recent transitioned trans woman if she occasionally had a 5? clock shadow...


Finally, I only know a few trans friends who go on trans dating sites.
They are there to EXCLUSIVELY date other trans....

The rest of us don't need to
or more importantly, don't want to meet a man who we perceive to be fixated about that part of our bodies we loath...

sorry, did not know wanting to be with an attractive person in arelationship was so evil and horrible. Did not realize how selfish I am.