Umm I guess that I need to say this.

[cham]

I'm really sorry this happened and wish you all luck.

Cham

[The Conquistador]

I'm sorry to hear that! Some people are twisted and will pull that kind of shit. I hope nothing bad results from this and that the guy was just being a douchebag. I will be praying for you.

Add me to the list. I am very sorry to hear about what happened. Hope you are OK. Ila is right, this creep could be charged with assault.

[tslust]

I thank everyone for their sympathy. I talked to the cops after it happened. They told me that they probably wouldn't be able to get the guy on a rape charge, because it was (except for the end) an act of mutual consent. Possible indecent, or even aggrivated, assault. They took my statement and I still had some of his semen on my thong.

To my surprise, they were kind and considerate. Although they weren't exactly accepting; at least I didn't have a desk sergeant tell me that I got what I deserved.

About 1 in every 5 people have some kind of STD. That's only 20%, so I guess that the numbers are on my side. I feel better already, not really.

I guess that life goes on. Talking about it seems to help, kinda.

[transjen]

Sorry to hear all this went down, i hope your test come back neg
Jennifer

[smc]

Of course, I wish for the best possible test results.

This sort of behavior by men shames me as a man. Just as no means no, so too must the "ground rules" be respected in a sexual encounter.

I am glad, tslust, that (as you write) "talking about it seems to help," even if only "kinda." I also thank you for sharing this with the Forum. If it serves to remind only one other member here of the importance of remembering that "consent" is more than "yes" but has multiple layers, you have done a great service to us all.

[tslust]

I saw the doctor, today. He took blood and urine samples. The reasults should come back in 7-10 days. The doctor talked to me about the chances of infection. He told me that I probably didn't have anything to worry about. He also said that I should get tested again at two months and once more at six months; because sometimes, if a test is performed soon after exposure, the test might give a false negative.