Telling your partner of your love for shemales

[kizzykan]

My wife knows all about my love of all things TS. She has posed for me in photo shoots wearing a strap-on under her panties, naked, etc. She thinks it's cute. She is Bi and has a girl lover (she would be considered the "femme"). Anyway, try to tell her about it - in this day and age, most women will be okay with it - if they like/love you enough, that is - make sure to woo her with a fine dinner, wine and gifts before telling her!

[agedwards63]

Girls don't react well to competition for their magic pussies

[WudLuv2try]

I've not been covering up the trails behind my internet use, and my wife soon tracked me down to this website.

Of course she doesnt know my user ID, but she knows I'm downloading pictures from this site, and she was puzzled.

So she asked me one day,

"Are you gay? Do you want to be fucked in the ass?"

And I said,

"May be, never tried so I don't know. Can I try?"

And she said,

"No way! It's dangerous, you know?"

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Now, I think there's a slice of hope in that. She didn't freak out, she didn't say,

"You do it and I'll kill you."

She was just... worried about the safety issue, which means if I can take care of that, then may be there's a chance.

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Some time after the first conversation, she asked me again,

"Why do you like TS?"

And I said I don't know. And she asked,

"Is it because you want to have sex with other people besides me, and you feel less guilty if you had sex with another male, rather than a female?"

And I said,

"Would it make you less angry if I had sex with a TS?"

And she said,

"No. I'll still be angry."

And I said,

"Honey, I'm just curious, that's all."

And that's where we stand right now.

[km1]

Good luck WudLuv, hope it all works out for you. I really have no advice (not that you ask for any) as I'm not married and do not have a serious girlfriend.

[WudLuv2try]

Thanks, km1!

I wasn't going to ask, but I had to.

Seeing you're not married and don't have serious girlfriend, have you... ?

[Daveybouy69]

Looks like this topic came up a while back but its still relevant for a few (many?) of us, myself included.

With my own situation it is unlikely that my wife would be receptive to my attraction to transsexuals, mostly due to her upbringing and partially due to just her own nature. In fact it would most likely be the beginning of the end of our marriage if I brought it up.

While I would love to be open with my wife about it she wouldn't be able to take it - it doesn't mean that she doesn't love me or vice-versa.

The only thing I can say on this is that you have to use your own common sense, as people have pointed out before everyone's situation is different.

[franalexes]

The starting point would be understanding some basic point. Man will tell a woman he loves her to get sex. Woman will give sex to get love. Somewhere in there is a balance and most don't understand it.
So lets say that guys are sex oriented and women are love oriented. The contrast may start to appear.
I had never heard the 90% figure before but it seems about right.
Is anyone an expert on what someone else thinks?

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by agedwards63

Girls don't react well to competition for their magic pussies

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[chrero]

No, she wouldn?t understand it. She would accept (I believe) a "normal" gay orientation, but not my longing for shemales.

[ila]

She's not my partner yet, but my lady knows of my love for transgender women. She wholeheartedly approves because she is a beautiful sweet transgender lady.

[Jayshawn!]

Dont do it unless you have to i wouldnt reccomend it

[O'Sully TS Hopeful]

Originally Posted by ila

She's not my partner yet, but my lady knows of my love for transgender women. She wholeheartedly approves because she is a beautiful sweet transgender lady.

And I'm so happy to be the lucky lady. In fact, I'm thankful for everyday I think about you. And I obviously more than approve.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by O'Sully TS Hopeful

And I'm so happy to be the lucky lady. In fact, I'm thankful for everyday I think about you. And I obviously more than approve.

I sincerely wish the both of you lots of happiness.

[ila]

Originally Posted by O'Sully TS Hopeful

And I'm so happy to be the lucky lady. In fact, I'm thankful for everyday I think about you. And I obviously more than approve.

And I'm so thankful for you.

Originally Posted by ila

She's not my partner yet, but my lady knows of my love for transgender women. She wholeheartedly approves because she is a beautiful sweet transgender lady.

I'm very happy for you my friend!

[ila]

Originally Posted by aw9725

I'm very happy for you my friend!

Thankyou. I am very happy and very thankful to have met such a sweet wonderful lady.