Poll: what if you were "cured" from love for shemales?

[shemalelover83]

It's not a disease, so i don't want to be cured.

[SweetCharmer]

it's so stupid that people would think it as a disease

[Leeya]

Hi everyone...

Its a but messed up, but I had to write it somewhere..

Love for shemales is not a disease, but obviously Shemale Sex Lover was not speaking literally about the cure (thats why you may find " signs around the word cured). We are who we are, love for t-girls is part of our preference collection, its ours. Someone has it at it extremes, for others its only a delight.

But that's from our point of view, we've been there, you know... For outsiders we might look odd and wierd in loving shemales, so getting rid of love for t-girls is nothing but cure in the eyes of others.

Would I want to be cured?.. YES I would... and I have a few reasons why.

For the past 5 years my life has been revolving around t-girls. But in a very frustrating way. I have NOT had sex with t-girls. I have NOT been together or talked to a t-girl. How was my life revolving aroud them then?.. I'll tell you. Everyday, every hour I am thinking about t-girls... When I am at work, I think about them... When I am with friends or my fiance, I think about them... When Im alone, I am on internet browsing them... Waiting and then when my frustration reaches max level I cool off masturbating on them... And then I get so sad and disappointed in myself... And everytime I say to myself that I will not masturbate on t-girls, nor will I think of them again...

But the next day, it comes back... I can't fight it... This urge... Wanting ti see one... And unfortunately, wanting to be one... That's another huge part... For over 5 years I want to be a shemale too... Thats crazy and sick. ... I have been trying to fix it for years now... I did everything I could... But I can't fight it... It always comes back, no matter what I do.

I am working part-time at a very nice place, studying in a great university.. I love a girl so much, and she loves me back so much too... But Im not happy... Im not... Because of this affection.. This want, need or whatever you call it... I have everything a normal person would dream about, but one- happiness. I have trapped myself with friends and people around me, who would be soo sad if they will find out about this...

I would love to be cured, but its not gonna happen. But I guess its life

Whatever is done, is done for the best )

Thanks

[knight]

I don't see my love of shemales as something that needs to be cured, I like the fact that I can see their beauty.

[ocinteeni]

Originally Posted by Leeya

When Im alone, I am on internet browsing them... Waiting and then when my frustration reaches max level I cool off masturbating on them... And then I get so sad and disappointed in myself... And everytime I say to myself that I will not masturbate on t-girls, nor will I think of them again...

But the next day, it comes back... I can't fight it... This urge...

wow, that is my exact story. And i have to agree with you i would like it to go away because I have what i feel is a normal life and this desire really doesn't fit into it. I have friends that i have grown up with since kindergarten and i am really close with my family. My family, friends, and people around me i feel would be disappointed. So i guess that is why i would want to be cured, or feel comfortable enough that I could be honest with people about what i really like.

[kijm60]

I don't think that there is anything inherently wrong or anything to be ashamed of by finding these girls attractive or sexually arousing. I myself do - and have for a while - but I still identify myself as a heterosexual and give it no second thought. Be happy with who you are, regardless of what turns you on... there's too many terrible things that can happen to you in this world to be ashamed of something as petty as this.

[belfagar]

I would never want to be "cured". There is nothing wrong to fix anyways. I like shit the way it is.
NO changes for me thanx.

[SHEMALE_SEEKER]

There is no sickness to cure.

[bar1918]

Originally Posted by ocinteeni

wow, that is my exact story. And i have to agree with you i would like it to go away because I have what i feel is a normal life and this desire really doesn't fit into it. I have friends that i have grown up with since kindergarten and i am really close with my family. My family, friends, and people around me i feel would be disappointed. So i guess that is why i would want to be cured, or feel comfortable enough that I could be honest with people about what i really like.

to be honest id agree with this too. I first saw shemales on the internet when i was about 19-20, up til then id never once thought about anything with a ts or a guy, and was perfectly happy with girlfriends. Then someone sent me a link to a picture of barbie woods as a 'joke' and it turned me on...and ive been looking at tgirl porn ever since. Would i be happier if id never gotten into it? i honestly think so. And if i was given the option to push a button and delete it all from my brain i really would