Are We an Ignored Minority?

[tgsexual]

Originally Posted by newdude

I feel like I'd just be dumping my own weirdness on her.

I didn't really notice that before, but it's a very good point.

When we first spend time with and get close to a transwoman we're usually going through a dramatic phase of self-discovery and it's normal, but dangerous to want to run every idea past out new friend.

Some of this will sound childish to her and other things she'll have little idea about, because she not likely to see things from the same perspective as a transwoman desiring man.

It's better to spend more time on making her feel special; dealing with the psychological investigations amongst a community of like minds who've been through it.