Problem of what to do with my cock in bed.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I'm going to complicate things a little.. since that's what I do lol

There are two typs of guys who dats us. The ones who know before they meet us (like on a TS dating site or escort ad or craigslise etc.) and the guys who don't know when they meet us, but get past it and do it.

In either case the penis becomes the point of attention for the guy. Guy#1 wants to see it, touch it, and feel it. Guy #2 wants to pretend it isn't there, wants it hidden, avoids even accidental contact/exposure.

Neither of these scenarios is ideal for me (and probably most). For me the cock is almost as sexual as my big toe. That is to say, I'm a sexual being from head to toe, but none of it is any more/less sexual than the rest. The penis simply is... I can gain pleasure from it, but it's just not really that important.

OTOH - guy #2 makes me feel like I should be ashamed of my body and my history. Freaking out because the bits popped outta the panties during a throw-down screwing does not make me feel sexy or particularly safe. Having to be extra aware of the position of my junk is a bother during sex.

There isn't an easy answer, and probably the best thing is to go with guy #1, have him gobble it down a bit and then instruct him in the various ways your body receives pleasure. Only the thickest, most unworthy, selfish goober of a man won't get what you are doing and eagerly follow your lead.

I guess I fall in your first category, and yes, I enjoy my woman's penis - just as I used to enjoy my woman's vagina.

I don't consider it a crime to enjoy her sexual organs - I am aware, however, that for quite a few trans-girls the penis is "something not to focus on". They still scream their orgasms out, though, and when they slowly realize, that their penis is NOT a sign of their masculinity they tend to loosen up a little bit. I kid you not!

Transsexuality happens between the ears and not between the legs. And there's no need to mistake a penis for an unworthy masculine attribute. It can be just as feminine as well.

Ponder this... her penis can make her even more of a woman...

H