Dating a transsexual woman.

[a9127]

Glad to see some of the older posters are active again. Looks like some of the posts are getting better. Maybe I'll stay afterall. But there is still a "skewed" perspective on dating (and general disrespect toward transwomen) as far as I'm concerned. You DO know it works "both ways."

You may "fantasize about" a blonde 25 year old "ladyboy" with a 9" cock and no sexual inhibitions ready to jump into bed with you on the first date but ask yourself seriously, what do you really have to offer her? Not much as it appears in some of your profile pics, avatars, and user names. Do you really think you are "god's gift to women?"

And a "pic of your dick"? Why??? To show off how "big" you are? Are you tying to impress me? Other guys? And don't tell me what a "tough guy" you are or that you own 291 guns or know "Krav Maga." Or participate in UFC. I know a thing or two about that stuff. A lot more than you do. I wish I'd never started that "Self Defense" thread. It turned into a "pissing contest" with one member even accusing me of being a "liberal commie" and threatenting to shoot me in the face. "Liberal Commie?" Me?

And yes I will shoot back (or first). Sorry... Nothing personal. I just don't take well to being threatened. The "tough guy act" ain't gonna work with me. And most people will think you are just a troll or an asshole. And the ones who used to start arguments. My God! Smc was very restrained compared to the way I would have been.

But "pics of your dick." Most women I know don't wish to recieve stuff like that. Especially early in a relationship. I've never sent any woman I've been interested in a "pic of my dick." My wife had a younger friend (really beautiful girl by the way but just divorced and "desperate" according to my wife) who sent a "tits" picture to a guy she just met. She never heard from him again.

As my wife once commented on the "personal" ads on TLB:

"They all are looking for someone "hot" but no one seems to realize they have to offer something themselves. I'm married to Andy but if I were single I would want to know something interesting about that person. What do you like to DO. What are you interested in? What do you look like? Can you make me laugh? Would you make me feel special? Where would we go on a first date? Why there? What do you do for a living?

There's a lot of things that truly matter. And they have nothing to do with cock size. I think what some of you are really looking for is an "escort" or "one night stand." There's lots of opportunities for that. But better make sure you can afford to pay fo it."

So I think you would be better off getting involved with LGBT and even Gay Pride events and workshops. Volunteer. Go to a bar that is known for having a gay and transgender clientele. Introduce yourself like you would to any woman. You'll get rejected sometimes but then... all it takes is the right one. You (and she) will be a lot better off and have the beginnings of a true relationship on which to build. Who knows you might even get lucky that night.

My post is not addressed to anyone in particular. Just based on things I've read for 10+ years on TLB. If we could only get rid of that shit and those users I think we'd have a pretty good site. I'd love to continue as a member. But not like it's been. Who knows. Maybe even some of the "old timers" will come back.