First Dates

[Kirsty Scott]

Originally Posted by Bionca

In my experience, the best first dates have been high on interacting and low on impressing. Like a good first date would be having some coffee and and conversation or taking a walk and window shopping.

The worst dates have been where we went on an expensive dinner and a show. The absolute #1 WORST date ever was going to a dance club - seriously, avoid that one - no chance to talk and "meat market" atmosphere don't lend well to a first date.

Then again, my idea of a perfect date is ordering some delivery, watching a B-grade horror movie, playing some video games, and talking about comic books. Pretty lame huh?

That's exactly the point of this thread girl ..... thank you.

It's all very well when a guy someone makes a great effort to impress a date ..... but does it show much about their character .... do you get to know them ....?

Often such a date is purely trying to anticipate what the other person may be impressed by ...... and doesn't give an insight into what spending time with them would really be like.

I so agree with you about Dance clubs .... not in the slightest bit conducive for conversation ..... a whole night spitting in each other's ears ....may as well stay in bed for that ....

The purpose of this question is basically trying to find out what makes each other tick ..... so no, your answer is most definitely not "lame" ..... it shows what you are like .....

By the way .... would a grade A horror film just spoil the date for you Bionca?

Kirsty
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