Why don't you already have a transsexual girlfriend?

[hankhavelock]

There is much talk about the troubles of having a trans-gf here at this forum. So why not take it up in a thread?

My point is and remains: No, there are NO troubles! Not as long as you are committed and from the start decide not to let family, priests and a metaphorical George Bush stand in your way of doing the right thing.

Just do it! How hard can it be?

Trust me, I know, because I've done it and I'm doing it and I will never stop doing it.

So what's actually and really and truly holding you back, guys?

And are these things holding you back more important than what you really wish in your lives?

H

[just102]

where I live

finding them is like finding aliens or sasquach or the Loch Ness Monster

especially passable gurls

[cockluva]

The absolute lack of transsexuals where i live.

[red56white]

Originally Posted by cockluva

The absolute lack of transsexuals where i live.

they are impossible to meet unless you pay them!
All i want is a steady girl
I love what you are showing and you know it would fit nicely in my mouth.

[smc]

Originally Posted by red56white

they are impossible to meet unless you pay them!

What an insult!

[ila]

But I do have a beautiful, wonderful, intelligent girlfriend with whom I'm very much in love.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by red56white

they are impossible to meet unless you pay them!
All i want is a steady girl
I love what you are showing and you know it would fit nicely in my mouth.

There are many transwomen that are members here that are in relationships for love(or friendship) and not for money, so to say that it is impossible to meet any unless you pay is not true at all!

And they are far more than just a piece of flesh to fit in your mouth. To be frank, that could be the real reason you are finding it so difficult to find a transwoman that wants to be with you.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by red56white

they are impossible to meet unless you pay them!
All i want is a steady girl
I love what you are showing and you know it would fit nicely in my mouth.

Let's see - I don't "meet" people for money. I also don't wear a sign around my neck stating my status - so people who I encounter going through my day probably don't realize that I'm trans.

It can be difficult since most guys who are into trans women want us to be 100% undetectable, but that limits their awareness of us in everyday life.

Being trans is not cheep - so obviously, some gals are going to charge for their time (particularly with guys who are married and won't be able to provide anything really serious).

[cham]

I have a ladyboy girlfriend in Bangkok and when I met her it felt like the most natural thing in the world to be with her. I went to cinemas, restaurants, temples, etc with her and it just felt right.

Her being 'passable' was not a criterion. We wanted to be together and that was the criterion.

Cham

[Enoch Root]

Originally Posted by Bionca

It can be difficult since most guys who are into trans women want us to be 100% undetectable, but that limits their awareness of us in everyday life.

Cosmic scale irony.



I would be eternally grateful to whatever generous soul pointed me in the right direction, given the utter dearth of of any kind of transsexual community in Puerto Rico.

[kamsutra]

Originally Posted by cockluva

The absolute lack of transsexuals where i live.

Same here baby. Though you will find lots of gays and CDs and Lesbos but no T-Girls

[travieso99]

Originally Posted by cockluva

The absolute lack of transsexuals where i live.

i love the trans and i like married with ladyboy but in venezuela dont have ladyboy for married only fucking by money

[Bisatinlover]

Good point!

I have many Ladyboy friends as well as a steady bisexual gg friend that travels with me to the Philippines for some really fantastic adventures. All the fantasies I (we) have ever had have been fulfilled in the past few years that we have been going there.

As per Hank's post just go ahead and do it rather than dreaming about it. As soon as you have your first experience you will start planning your second one. I know and wonder why I wasted all those years doing nothing about it before I took the big step.

I myself live in London and have made friends with quite a few tgirls. Sadly getting to the relationship stage has been very difficult. I almost lead 2 lives which I'm getting sick of. It's only a matter of time before i confess all to friends and family. They know of my foot fetish but saying i like tgirls maybe a bit much, but then in order for me to be truly happy i must tell everyone so i can move into this area which I love so much.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by solesman

I myself live in London and have made friends with quite a few tgirls. Sadly getting to the relationship stage has been very difficult. I almost lead 2 lives which I'm getting sick of. It's only a matter of time before i confess all to friends and family. They know of my foot fetish but saying i like tgirls maybe a bit much, but then in order for me to be truly happy i must tell everyone so i can move into this area which I love so much.

Out of the closet and get ahead in your life, my man! Nobody really thanks you not to!

Best wishes!

H

[jolo]

I have a transexual girlfriend, but only in my dreams !!

Jon

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

There is much talk about the troubles of having a trans-gf here at this forum. So why not take it up in a thread?

My point is and remains: No, there are NO troubles! Not as long as you are committed and from the start decide not to let family, priests and a metaphorical George Bush stand in your way of doing the right thing.

Just do it! How hard can it be?

Trust me, I know, because I've done it and I'm doing it and I will never stop doing it.

So what's actually and really and truly holding you back, guys?

And are these things holding you back more important than what you really wish in your lives?

H

[angelmichael]

I haven't know any wet

[Recrudescence]

For the same reason I'm not in a relationship with anyone, I prefer being single.

[jolo]

For me in Colorado, I have no idea where I can be fortunate enough to find a lovely TS to be with.

Jon

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by jolo

For me in Colorado, I have no idea where I can be fortunate enough to find a lovely TS to be with.

I hear there are huge numbers of "cutie shemales" in Leonx, Michigan
I highly recommend you move there.

I know someone there who I can put you in touch with.
He has a "shemale cutie" detector, or so I am led to believe!

[smc]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

I hear there are huge numbers of "cutie shemales" in Leonx, Michigan
I highly recommend you move there.

I know someone there who I can put you in touch with.
He has a "shemale cutie" detector, or so I am led to believe!

It's Lenox.

Of course, with global climate change Colorodo may eventually get a coastline, which -- as we know from the Lenox sage -- will result in thousands of shemales suddenly living there.