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| BOYS: I like to play with her cock a lot. |
   
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259 | 79.20% |
| BOYS: I only like to play with her cock a little or not at all. |
  
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44 | 13.46% |
| GIRLS: I want him to play with my cock a lot. |
  
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5 | 1.53% |
| GIRLS: I prefer him playing with my cock only a little or not at all. |
  
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19 | 5.81% |
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#1
02-03-2009
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Problem of what to do with my cock in bed.
I always have an issue in bed over my junk, and what do do with it.
I know most of hte guys on here just love to get thier hands on it and lavish attention on the girl cock, but I really don't like a guy doing that. Esspecially sucking it, I mean blowjobs feel good, but I feel uncomfortable with a guy sucking me. Really all i like is either me or him rubbing it n squesing my balls a bit (preferably thru my panties) when I'm sucking him, or getting anal. I only need a bit of rubbing my cock head to make me cum if i have a cock prodding into my prostate, so I don't need a vigourous handjob from a guy when i'm taking it up the ass. I really don't like getting blowjobs (tho I don't feel same way if we do 69, thats fine, as long as the guy is better hung (which is always, lol) and on top), or handjobs on thier own (a reach around is fine) and definatly not giving anal. I guess it feels more girly like that, but on hte other hand, I like a guy fondling my bits when we are kissing n stuff, I just really don't like it being centre of attention, like were going oh look, let's play with the dick-girl's dick. Problem is I find a lot of guys feel the opposite, they want to get my cock out and play with it a lot, which I suppose is pretty obvious, if they didn't like dick, the may as well go out with GG's n save the trouble of dating a neurotic dick concious tranny, but I guess in bed i'd like them to enjoy my cock a bit more subtly, enjoy it along with the rest of my body rather than concentrate on it alone, Anyway, i really wana hear about how other girls want guys to do or not do with thier cock during sex, and what boys want to do with our cocks in bed. love ot hear what people do if thier sexual partner has a differnt idea of what to do with the girl's cock I always feel weird telling guys I don't want him to suck me off. Sorry for such a jumbled post, hope it makes sense, lol I decided to add a poll to see if what girls n guys want matches up. 
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#2
02-03-2009
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no apology necessary
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Your description of what you want sounds like real lovemaking -- the best kind of sex. I look forward to the day soon when I'm with a girl like you and can be precisely the lover she wants, the way she wants.
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#4
02-03-2009
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I think the most logical thing to do is before you're about to do the deed, tell the person you're with how you'd like for them to treat your body.
If that's really you in your avatar then I'd say anyone lucky enough to get that close to you wouldn't mind a few restrictions. :D
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#5
02-03-2009
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I was the same way i hated having my cock jerked or sucked, I always hated it guess i always had vigina envy, I always told the guy i was with that area was hands off, I only allowed my boyfriend to have at it only once and that was the night before i left for Thailand for my SRS. You just have to explain it to them and if they can't accept it then he is not right for you
 Jennifer
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#7
02-04-2009
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well, even with only a few replies, pol is going how I thought it would. most of the boys want to play with our cocks a lot, n all the girls so far dont want that.
oh well i guess its no different than problem boys n genetic girls have, blah, wish I was a lesbian.
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#10
02-05-2009
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New option for girls
You should've probably put cock touching at all. so far i've only been sexually active with three men (dated others but no sex) and one of them was so obsessed with my cock that we ended up breaking up. i HATE
  it when anyone even wants to see my cock little lone feel it. so i can't wait to get rid of it just Jen did.i am strictly a bottom dweller. P.S. congrats on the successful surgery Jen. 
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#12
02-13-2009
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I'm going to complicate things a little.. since that's what I do lol
There are two typs of guys who dats us. The ones who know before they meet us (like on a TS dating site or escort ad or craigslise etc.) and the guys who don't know when they meet us, but get past it and do it. In either case the penis becomes the point of attention for the guy. Guy#1 wants to see it, touch it, and feel it. Guy #2 wants to pretend it isn't there, wants it hidden, avoids even accidental contact/exposure. Neither of these scenarios is ideal for me (and probably most). For me the cock is almost as sexual as my big toe. That is to say, I'm a sexual being from head to toe, but none of it is any more/less sexual than the rest. The penis simply is... I can gain pleasure from it, but it's just not really that important. OTOH - guy #2 makes me feel like I should be ashamed of my body and my history. Freaking out because the bits popped outta the panties during a throw-down screwing does not make me feel sexy or particularly safe. Having to be extra aware of the position of my junk is a bother during sex. There isn't an easy answer, and probably the best thing is to go with guy #1, have him gobble it down a bit and then instruct him in the various ways your body receives pleasure. Only the thickest, most unworthy, selfish goober of a man won't get what you are doing and eagerly follow your lead.
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#13
02-13-2009
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Interesting results
I have definitely met a fewt-girls who didn't enjoy having their cock played with, they felt self-conscious, but the majority of ladyboys I have met really enjoyed having their cock played with, sucked etc.
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02-13-2009
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#16
02-14-2009
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I don't consider it a crime to enjoy her sexual organs - I am aware, however, that for quite a few trans-girls the penis is "something not to focus on". They still scream their orgasms out, though, and when they slowly realize, that their penis is NOT a sign of their masculinity they tend to loosen up a little bit. I kid you not! Transsexuality happens between the ears and not between the legs. And there's no need to mistake a penis for an unworthy masculine attribute. It can be just as feminine as well. Ponder this... her penis can make her even more of a woman... H
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#17
02-25-2009
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ya i agree with hank, i dont feel like a girls dick makes her masculine in any way. So is the reason you dont like your dick played with, because it makes you feel masculine? (directed to Anna, Bionca, and any other tgirl)
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#18
02-25-2009
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Not sure i can put this in words but i'll give it a try, To start with i never felt masculine in whole life, Yes when i was born i had a penis and the DR declared me to be male but i always felt female, So having a penis and having it played with never made me feel masculine the reason i hated having one and having it touched made me feel even more like a freak it didn't belong there, I never should have had a penis to start with and the sight of it just reminded me that some where someone screwed up big time because i was a girl not a boy, So for me it was more of it didn't belong there and i shouldn't have had one to start with. Ok i probaly have everyone even more confused now
 Jennifer
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#19
03-14-2010
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I love sucking dick and eating pussy, but when I'm with a GG I don't pull off her pants off and go straight at her pussy. So, I wouldn't go straight for your giblets. I think it's just the guys your with. IMHO
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#20
03-14-2010
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Anna, luv, you have giblets?
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#21
08-30-2010
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Just let me suck you dry, I like sucking more than fucking.
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#22
09-06-2010
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 cock. I run my tongue across the tip and look into his eyes, "So, what do you want me to do next?"
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09-06-2010
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09-06-2010
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09-06-2010
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Just because I'm telling you this story doesn't mean that I'm alive at the end of it. If a law is unjust, a man is not only right to disobey it, he is obligated to do so. DEO VINDICE
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09-06-2010
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I need to get a plane ticket to cum see you. DAMN
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#28
09-06-2010
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I just love wearing my 6" heels.
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#29
09-09-2010
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i love it when a guy sucks me of while im sleeping and I get to wake to it
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#30
09-27-2010
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#32
10-18-2010
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As a male, I think most men interested in t-girls would want to play with it, since, as you put it, why not just go GG otherwise? But, men into only GG probably want to do anal from time to time too - but if the girl doesn't want to, that's that. It's your body, and you shouldn't have to do what you don't want to do. That's not what sex should be like. Besides, its not like he's making some big sacrifice - there's a lot more fun to be had in bed with you than that
 Although maybe from time to time you can allow the guy to play with it, sort of as a favor, and put up with the discomfort. Of course, that is still completely up to you, but it might be a nice thing to do from time to time, just like a GG might allow the occassional anal.
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#33
10-21-2010
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Simply accept it? I do not mean that in an easy and dismissive way. After having met a transwoman and being a frequent visitor to this forum I have realized that the way I look at transwomen is different from the way many others view them. I no longer think of them as women who were once men. I think of them simply as women whom you discover?after having looked or scrolled down the page?to have a penis. That they were born male rarely enters my thoughts. The more I think about it, the more I search the endless halls of this forum, the more I view these individuals as women, without reference to what they were born as. It?s a chick?she has a penis?I like that?End of story.
It occurs to me that many transwomen do themselves a disservice by focusing too much on their genitalia in a negative fashion. This is not to demean those who have issues but rather to state that perhaps you could try to view yourself not as a woman with something lacking, but a woman who happens to have been born with a penis. You have a penis, yes, yet you are also a woman. And too readily focusing too much negative attention on your genitalia in such a way, I cannot help but think, gives credence (if obliquely) to the idea?which all of us as members of this forum ought despise?that gender is dictated by the primary sexual characteristics. I believe history bears this out, if one is willing to look beyond the boundaries of the white, Christian hegemony. Some would call it a third sex. That is not to discredit those women who every day have to deal with the pain of a body that cruelly refuses to conform to what she knows is in her head, regardless of those moments when the society around her damns her as somehow abominable. Space must, of necessity and compassion for fellow human beings, be made to accommodate those transsexual women who cannot manage the presence of male genitalia between their legs and make the conscious, well-thought out decision to excise the member in question which causes them such grief. (And yes, I know I just said male genitalia, but you?ll have to excuse me if language hasn?t caught up to reality. Jumping vocabulary hoops is no joke.) I imagine it must be like living with a perpetually open wound whom any fool is allowed to rub salt into. But there are cultures where individuals similar to those whom we call transsexual are viewed as acceptable, as a third sex. They may be ambivalent, as is the case with the fa'afafine of Samoa (which may be a recent development due to the spread of western monotheism), but overall they view it as a third sex and that?s that?everyone can continue to tuck into dinner and engage their fa?afafine cousin in conversation. So what to do with your penis? Accept it. Love it. Jove knows the men on this site all lavish attention on theirs and bow down?in sundry ways?before those of women such as yourself. You said it yourself: if the men here wanted pussy instead of cock they would have a much easier time of it with a gg, many of whom?woe upon men like me who are more interested in transwomen at the moment?flood the streets of our world. And, really, is all that stress doing you much good? It?d be easier for you to turn round to your partner and ask him to worship your body. Chances are he or she (or both? or more than both? some people have all the fun) will be all too ready and willing to supply you with veneration. Last edited by Enoch Root; 10-21-2010 at 07:49 PM.
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#34
10-22-2010
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love to play with cock
I love to play with cock in bed and balls as well there is nothing more wonderful than loving a beauitful cock. That is when a man falls in love knowing that the bond between his girl and him is complete.
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#35
10-24-2010
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If I will ever meet a tgirl and be with her in bed, I think I would be more interested in her boobs and asspussy, than cock. If she likes playing with her cock, why not, it's part of her body and sex is about giving pleasure to both partners.
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#36
11-08-2010
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I must admit, this is one of the better subjects I have read here. It really made me think.
I just assumed that a good amount of attention should be paid to the she-cock, or should I say the same amount that I would pay to the pussy of a GG. I guess I never really understood that YOU (the t-girl) might feel more masculine because of that. In a way it does present a conundrum for me, as I am quite oral. Both with TS's and GG's. If any of you special ladies read this, I hope you reconsider...lol The attention to your cock does NOT make to more masculine. If I wanted masculine, I would be gay, which I am far from. (no disrespect to those that are, just not my cup o tea) In addition, in an earlier post, a girl mentioned that she hated topping, because of the same reason. In my opinion even THAT should not make you feel masculine, no more than the GG's that have topped me using a strapon! Fear not ladies... you ARE Ladies Just sayin'
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