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Originally Posted by new believer
2) I'm just a pretty average gal, while the ladies this site is devoted to are professionally pretty. "Bionca"
Great to know you do have a sense of pride in yourself. I guess I erred in combining two 'observations' of/from you. The first is that you have in the past, been always shyly 'defensive' about not being 'enough' woman for your dates ( I admit to being angered by the idiots who have let you down). And second, in believing you where becoming 'defensive' again, I mis-interpeted your coment above as 'just' an average girl, as in "the assumption I made was 'pretty' dumb". 'Pretty' foolish of me.
I was 'pretty' dumbfounded that you only thought of yourself as average. Get what I'm trying to say?
For the record, I am hoping you will now consider yourself to be ABOVE average looking. Look at all the folks out here wishing to SEE more of you. From the picture of your avatar alone, you are a beautiful woman.
Now if the folks out here in 'peep land' could only convince Fran to go back to her earlier avatar,(or even a new one)us perverts would sleep more enjoyably also. HEAR THAT FRAN?
P S I do not consider either of you porn stars, I know better.
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I'm just not so focused on how I look. I like how I look, and I appreciate that some people find me attractive. I surely don't think I'm ugly (I'd be having a fit in some DR's office still if I thought that). The thing is, it is still hard to accept compliments... just a thing I guess. I think that is more common among Trans*women than lots of folks think. I mean spending 18 (ish) + years having a mental/emotional battle with your body takes a toll. Then to get that sorted only to find that the better you look, the more complicated some stuff gets.
If some random guy likes how I look and asks me out eventually I have to say something about what's happening in the undies. Attraction easily turns into accusations of deception which becomes potentially unsafe. The strange thing is, the better I looked, the less shit I took on a daily basis - folks just assume I'm a regular (cute) gal and go on. OTOH the more I looked like a (cute) regular old gal, the more guys would hit on me opening up situations where safety became an issue.
For this reason, and I'm generally just kinda shy, I tend to down play compliments or change the subject, or just make jokes about it. So, yeah I guess can look good, but that was just luck of the draw really.