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Originally Posted by Talvenada
HANK,
Does it have anything to do w/ what I've heard of as trans women will go way beyond their genetic sisters to please a man? In other words a gen girl will go at %'s of 50-50 to 75-25 to get a man, while a trans girl will go 100-0: a total sacrifice of self toward a relationship goal. It seems logical, but my sample is very small. In your travels, have you encountered that at all?
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On that I can only speculate... there may be some truth to it, how ever, I really don't know and cannot say that I have ever really had that impression.
That said, however, the brutal rules of supply and demand probably also have relevans here... and I do surely know from many trans-friends that finding a sincere man is not easy at all. For sex, yes, for relationship, no.
But what you are referring to could actually also be said about genetic women in Asia - in general the woman/man interaction is a bit more traditional here - and not only for the worse. Still, I'm yet to meet a transsexual woman here who doesn't proclaim that she is only interested in relationship with a Western man. The reason I get is the way Western men treat women - hmmm... As I've never been in a relationship with a Western transsexual woman I cannot really answer...
Let me speculate a little further along your line of thought... IF it is so that trans-women go further in their attempts to please a man than bio-women, then it COULD have to do with trans-women having a strong need to "prove" the are women - or to FEEL they are women. I dunno - I'm on thin ice here.
Peace!
H