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Old 08-16-2008
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Originally Posted by ts_lover View Post
Ever thought about how it would be if you were one of the shemales? When you wear the female clothes, got your tits and get fucked, or fuck a girl, or a shemale? It makes me hot when i think about it. Being in female clothes and "play" the shemale/girl.

What about you?
Your fascination is very normal - it's called "trans-fetischism". In your case blended in with "trans-lesbianism". I kid you not. And it's fine and funky.

As I've stated in another thread here I actually started out flirting with the idea - I always felt a bit akward about it in the sense that it was NOT what I really wanted, though. I felt that something substantial was missing.

And what for me was missing, of course, was a transsexual lover :-)

Once I realized that, everything became clear. Strangely I sort of forgot a bit about all this until I moved to where it's at and engaged in my first relationship with a transsexual woman.

Personally, I've never since then had any particular drive towards dressing up - maybe in some VERY gayish situations, but dressing as a woman with a fab evening make-up would make me feel out of my tree... :-) And trust me, I've had my chances... half of my lovers here are make-up artists...

I've been in this fascinating scenario for about three years now, and I've never regretted a second. I've learned that the "fear of being called gay" is very strong among certain socalled trans-lovers. I've also learned that on the other hand some trans-lovers do indeed have an urge within themselves - maybe that's part of what makes them dig it all! Maybe that's even part of me. I wonder...

Your posting has made me think!

Thank you!

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