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Originally Posted by TheSkronkDonkey
P.S. I know those last couple of sentences probably sound dopey, but I mean 'em. Being honest with oneself is probably the hardest thing to do, but it's also the most important step. Anything else is possible after that!
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I never really considered not being OUT - damn, I'd just discovered a new part of my self and I was in LOVE with my first transsexual woman! It was DYNAMITE! So of course I needed to share this with friends and family, and they all took it well. They took it more than well - maybe they did not understand my attraction, but they certainly have completely accepted me for my choice.
But I guess I never gave them a choice to think other wise. I blurted it out: My girlfriend is transsexual and she's a goddess. She has opened new sides of and in me and I love her dearly.
I mean, what can you say to that? I didn't come with hat in my hand asking for their approval, I took their approval for granted and received it.
Of course I'm not naiive, and of course I'm aware of the potential troubles such a DANGEROUS thing can bring... I'm also aware that many choose to live in the shadow of other peoples' mind-set. But that's a shame, nobody shouldn't!
Transsexuality deserves utter respect! It's a beautiful way of self-expression, and I'm PROUD to have been loved (still am) by the fabulous and wonderful transsexual women who have shaped my life so much for the last three years.
I'm not unique in that regard - any one here can do the same. Don't let the vanilla-guys who mock you for your choice change your mind-set. Change their's in stead! Be persistant and be above all PROUD! Because you are right, and they are wrong.
The fruits you reap for being true to yourself (and your transsexual girl) are so much greater than the few, unimportant kicks you may get in your path. And trust me, it ain't really hard at all!
Peace!
Hank