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Originally Posted by tslust
Okay, you asked for it. Firstly, I don't know how many times I've said that I can't stand guys who cheat on their wives. It's a matter of trust and sex is all about trust. If a guy is going to break his sacred vows and trust with his wife, how can I ever trust him to be honest with me. If he's so willing to throw his commitments to his wife away, then what would stop him from doing the same with me. Which is why I don't play with married guys.
"see the transsexuals for sex"   I get a little tired of guys seeing me as a sex toy. Don't get me wrong, a little NSA fun can be nice, butt I'm at the point where I want something more. I want a guy who can see me as a person, an actual living breathing human being. While I like mind-blowing sex, I also enjoy having an actual conversation and having a fun time with a guy. Many guys (by no means all) are only interested in sex, they don't want any kind of relationship. Whereas they usually at least take a GG out for a dinner and show, and at least pretend to talk, with her while trying to steer the conversation towards the beedroom. They think I'll just automatically melt into their arms with that terrific thong-cracking line, "Hey, I've got a big cock." So, all I ask is a little consideration. Remember, just as with GGs, a little charm can take you a long way.
Further more, you shouldn't "see transsexuals for sex". That is a very terrible thing to say. Now I know there are a number of "working girls", butt still they deserve some respect too. I know that I'm probably just some sort of porn fetich to you (that's what I take away from you're statement). I you meet with a transsexual, it shoul be because you are attracted to her. If that leads to sex, then that's nice, butt sex should not be the only reason you want to see a girl like me.
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Thank you for your post. I trust that you feel better now having got that off your chest.
Whilst I respect your right of reply and opinion ( which I did invite after all), your post is rather self obsessed.
Whilst my initial response to this thread does seem rather blunt and cold hearted, I am confused how you manage to interpret this as my having no respect for TS girls whom I choose to pay for sex. How do you know what level of respect I hold for someone - you base this assertion on a very brief statement.
You clearly do not approve of my behavior and choices. Fair enough, but please do not judge the full depth of my personality based on my sexual preferences alone.
I am not Proud of cheating on my wife, but hey, this real life not a work of romantic fiction and relationships fail - for a variety of reasons and it is very easy and rather lazy to single me out for lacking moral fibre. Check the statistics and see how many marriages fail. We have had 22 happy & good years together and both now realize that we want different things in our lives.
I wish you well with your life and search for a loving respectful life Partner, basically we all are looking for the same thing.