You are welcome!!
I understand that it can be a tough one to call! I have had bad experiences in the past, right when I started joining communities, but my current partner (my wife) is way more open about these things than even I am, so I have not found a problem with her thus far! It did take some adjusting though...
So even if the person you are with doesn't accept it, later you will find one who does... because if someone loves you they must accept you the way you are!
If you settle for less your life will suck daily, because of the secrets you keep from each other, filling a huge hole or gap between you, that eventually gets so huge that you can't cross over without falling into a deep abyss, and you may end up hurting that person you love instead, because even hidden things have a way to surface in the end!
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Benjamin Franklin: Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for that is the stuff life is made of.
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