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Originally Posted by Bionca
Pregnancy can be a thing for trans women. My 7 year relationship broke up because my guy got a woman pregnant and decided that being a husband and father was what he really wanted (expecting to keep me on the side as his secret). It was a huge blow. It's really the thing I can't do and will never be able to do.
This also gets used against us lots. By guys who date us (We can't be serious because I want kids), and by non-trans women (You'll never be a *real* woman because you don't bleed once a month).
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Doing something like that shows how much of a man he really was...which is to say not very much of one. For me, a relationship should be based on love, and if you love that person you don't let anything get in the way of that love. You love that person unconditionally.
That was a pretty weak argument on his part. Babies can be adopted and not all women can get pregnant. I don't know. Throwing away 7 years for that just doesn't make any sense to me. And to show that much disrespect to you? It just boggles the mind!
