Lovely Bionca,
I can't imagine the hurt that you felt. Then again, the guy sounds out like he cheated on you, behind your back and you certainly deserve a man of better ethics and character.
The pregnancy not only can be a thing for trans women. but for all women in general. I am sure that after seven years, you trusted your man and obviously he knew the situation.
Heck, I was dumped after sixteen years of marriage for becoming ill, but that is another story.
Jon
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Originally Posted by Bionca
Pregnancy can be a thing for trans women. My 7 year relationship broke up because my guy got a woman pregnant and decided that being a husband and father was what he really wanted (expecting to keep me on the side as his secret). It was a huge blow. It's really the thing I can't do and will never be able to do.
This also gets used against us lots. By guys who date us (We can't be serious because I want kids), and by non-trans women (You'll never be a *real* woman because you don't bleed once a month).
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