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Originally Posted by tlover

Hope I've spelt that right. You will have to forgive my ignorance on this subject, it's all new to me.
I was thinking if i ever met a tgirl how would thay like to be referred to treated etc.
We all have to be politically correct now i know.
Maybe gizmo, elio, or hank can help me here.
For instance when talking about them i know thay don't like to be called shemales (I love this term think it implies a whole new sex) i think they prefer the word tgirl or transgender? i don't know.
When you introduce them to someone do you say this is my girlfriend/partner/tgirl?
Do you treat then as a girl or something completely different, separate, special?
Do you openly discuss her differance or keep stum?
Also i need to know more aobut tgirls in general.
Do thay like to be thought of as girls, or perhaps some think of themselves as that special 3rd sex?
Do thay all want to become total girls eventually, or are some happy to keep their cock and tits etc?.
I sound really thick now, mabey this was a wrong idea, but i could do with some more knowledge some Tgirl Etiquette, i wouldn't want to appear totally ignorant if i met one.
Apologies to guy's with tgirlfriends hope i haven't been offensive in my language and ignorance.

The most of shemales are very satisfied when you treat them exactly like girls. They are very happy receiving flowers, scents and others typical presents for women. This is a nice way of underlining their femininity and generally they are very grateful. I've known many ladyboys who have their bedroom full of flowers, doll and peluches.
You can talk about their transexuality only if are they to begin. Some shemales are very auto-ironical and talk about this subject in a witty way; others t-girls don't like this. So, in the uncertainity, is better to avoid allusions and remarks.
The language is important !! Say always "she" and not "he"; "her" and not "his" etc. An oversight can be unpleasant. And use often the feminine name that the ladyboy had chosen for herself. Ladyboys love the sound of their feminine name. The name they've chosen is the symbol of their personality.