[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by aw9725

Trans women are women. How can you possibly be “gay” for being attracted to them? If you don’t “get” this, you should read some of the biographies of the models you like. Or some of the postings on this forum. Or look up “gender identity” on the Internet.

I don’t know why this is so hard to understand. Also the “gay/straight” issue shouldn’t matter either--if you are attracted to someone, does it really matter what’s “down there”? However, I understand what many of you are going through because I questioned it myself--was I suddenly “gay”? After a great deal of consideration and reading other people’s posts on forums like this, I concluded that I wasn’t. But if I had decided that I was gay, I would still be “OK” with myself. So, much of it comes back to how you view yourself and who you are attracted to.

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Questions for the guys: Would you suddenly be “gay” if you found out any of the women below had a penis? How would you feel if you met someone you really were attracted to and discovered her “secret”--would you stop liking her--or would you be OK with it? How would you make love to her if you have only been with cis women? These are essentially the questions I asked myself when I first discovered I liked “tgirls.” Kate Walsh is a very special case as she did in fact play a trans woman on CSI. I wrote about that experience in another post.

Nice post. Worrying about whether you are gay or not seems rather trivial and it only seems like a gimmick by others to make themselves important somehow; as if your purported "gayness" somehow directly affects them in a negative manner.

I think Kate Beckinsale and Jennifer Aniston would look awesome with some "extra" between their legs.