Trans women are women. How can you possibly be “gay” for being attracted to them? If you don’t “get” this, you should read some of the biographies of the models you like. Or some of the postings on this forum. Or look up “gender identity” on the Internet.

I don’t know why this is so hard to understand. Also the “gay/straight” issue shouldn’t matter either--if you are attracted to someone, does it really matter what’s “down there”? However, I understand what many of you are going through because I questioned it myself--was I suddenly “gay”? After a great deal of consideration and reading other people’s posts on forums like this, I concluded that I wasn’t. But if I had decided that I was gay, I would still be “OK” with myself. So, much of it comes back to how you view yourself and who you are attracted to. If you like someone who has a hard, muscular body, or a hairy chest, and they must have a cock, then yes maybe you are gay. If you like all types, and have had sex with both men and women, then you are most likely bi. For myself, I like a very feminine face and body--most female bodybuilders and trans men do not “do it” for me.

Everyone on this forum knows that I would die for Kelly Shore. Also, a few months ago, I listed about 20-30 well known “tgirls” that I really like. And many of you know I was a judge for the 2009 “Tranny Awards.” Just for fun I thought I’d post some pics of a few of my favorite cis women. Don’t think they need any introduction! I would include a picture of my “ex” but I don’t need any legal problems…

Questions for the guys: Would you suddenly be “gay” if you found out any of the women below had a penis? How would you feel if you met someone you really were attracted to and discovered her “secret”--would you stop liking her--or would you be OK with it? How would you make love to her if you have only been with cis women? These are essentially the questions I asked myself when I first discovered I liked “tgirls.” Kate Walsh is a very special case as she did in fact play a trans woman on CSI. I wrote about that experience in another post.