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Originally Posted by british_boy
Thank you Bionca and BMN, you're very sweet and encouraging. I was nervous about posying this story in the first instance, because a majority of people here are just looking for thrills - interesting that both replies were from girls!  But anyway, I'm glad I showed the non-porno, down to earth side of things. It still amazes me that (judging by some of the polls here) some people here still see trans-girls as somehow second class - a walk on the wild side before they run back to what they consider to be "real girls". Perhaps I can help to change one or two guys' perspective on this... |
Hello
A very good post. I hope your dream comes true in 2010 getting her to the UK. Never mind what other people think or say about it. It's yours and her life. Not theirs. Also think what would have happened if you posted your story on lb69 or asiants or T world from Frankie. Just envy or guys warning you please don't.
Good you showed the non-porno, down to earth side of things. I was in a similar situation two times with Thai ladyboys. Not happy endings but it never left me cynical, sarcastic or angry towards ladyboys. A life time experience. Also I don't see them as "second class". No just like girls with some minor differences on their emotional side. The mistake many of us make is ignoring the male side of transgenders. In a relationship you can't ignore that side.
I can't give you any advice. I ain't no expert. I know the reasons why it went wrong in my cases. Be your own expert, not afraid to make mistakes. Consider yourself lucky right now. Enjoy it and keep your head clear. And don't waste your time on useless discussions am I gay or not.
May 2010 be prosperous to you
All the best
Reefer88