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Old 10-05-2008
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A Lot of people on here say no-one knows about there secret desire for tgirls and they would not want anyone to find out.

But just suppose they did find out, mabey your wife or girlfrend your work colleges or friends, what do you think there reaction would be.

For me i think my girlfriend would be very shocked and a bit upset, but mabey she would come to terms with it after a while and forget about it.
My work colleges would probbly find it hilarious at first and id forever be getting the piss ripped out of me and i think a few would try to avoid me for a long time, and my friends would be very surprised and shocked and have a hard time accepting it.
So on the whole i dont think it would go down very well, such a shame society has to judge everyone with unfamiliar or different sexual preferences so harshly.
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My co-workers I think wouldn't care one way or the other. I actually don't think they'd be all that surprised anyway. They are a very open-minded bunch. I don't have a wife or g/f so that's moot. My family would probably be a a little surprised at first, and would consider it "gay." But they'd come around. I know they love me and wouldn't disown me or anything. I have already said here before that I do HOPE everyone will know someday because that will mean I have met the tgirl of my dreams and we have fallen in love. (It's okay, you can call me a dreamer, I don't mind...the world still needs dreamers!)
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My co-workers I think wouldn't care one way or the other. I actually don't think they'd be all that surprised anyway. They are a very open-minded bunch. I don't have a wife or g/f so that's moot. My family would probably be a a little surprised at first, and would consider it "gay." But they'd come around. I know they love me and wouldn't disown me or anything. I have already said here before that I do HOPE everyone will know someday because that will mean I have met the tgirl of my dreams and we have fallen in love. (It's okay, you can call me a dreamer, I don't mind...the world still needs dreamers!)


tgirllovinguy i think your unusually lucky there, hope your dream comes true for you some day.
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Thanks, tlover, I hope so, too. I see what you mean, but wouldn't exactly call myself 'lucky' at this point. At least you have a g/f. Maybe 'the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence'? Cheers!
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I would say about 75% of my clients are married and doing it on the sly. And of those almost all are available for "daytime appointments only", lol.

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My brother saw my computer download history (years ago) and I had to assure him that I was over it, 2 of my mates know & a few people @ work, when I have brought the topic up have been so Intolerent. So I keep it between Me, (when I get one) my ts girlfriend & you, but you don't know my real name.
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Since most already know, I can tell exactly how they reacted. In general, in a surprised yet sympathetic way and with a bit of curiousity. Some do consider it "gay", others do not. Some do not really understand it but have generally accepted it none the less. Some would feel uncomfortable if I shoved up with one of my gfs, others would love it (here I'm talking about friends and family in Denmark - I'm yet to bring one of my transsexual friends/lovers there). Since basicly all of my friends here in Indonesia are in the LGBT-"family", it's different here.

I do, how ever, play it a bit more discretely at my work-place here in Jakarta. Though, the majority of my collegues knows about my "specialty" and though I don't make much of a secret of it, I still have to be a bit prudent about not mixing my private life with my job in a way that could create trouble. So far the balance is working fine.

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Hi everyone, in answer to this thread, my wife has known of my tgirl interest for ages now and since her brother became her sister, now a pre op TS, i was introduced to the tgirl lifestyle.
My wife and I are very upfront and honest people discussed my intertest at length, she often works away from home and in these times i am allowed the freedom to entertain select tgirls as long as i tell her. She did say that if i cheated on her without her knowledge she would end this freedom immediately.
So i guess i am lucky because i was honest, and my friend from Lincoln who visits me loves it too lol

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Bob i think you and i are on different planets, you lucky guy.
Could never see my gf being that tolerant, that situation would be a dream scenario for me, having said that i think id also feel a little guilty like id be cheating on her.

As for work I suppose the type of reaction you get comes down to where in the world you live and your work environment.
Thinking back along time ago in some of the jobs ive been in, most people would probbly have had a laugh at my interest in tgirls and leave it at that but over the years i seem to have drifted into more and more macho type work environments, which is a bit strange as i'm not the macho type but right now in the industry i'm in my "peculier" interest in tgirls would be very much frowned upon and not well tolerated at all.
Be interesting to know where in the world you guys come from, the type of work you do and how your interests in tgirls is or would be tolerated.
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well for me its prety much like tlover said. some of the family wouldnt talk to me. i think my girl would come to understand cuz she know i love anal. my coworkes, well idk about them. theyd prolly make me the office jerster so id be looken for a new job n not tellin them anything lol.
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Um...I think anyone who knows me, were I to tell them I like shemales, would probably say something like, "Yeah, and...?"
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well, my close friends know I am a pervert, I've done so many disgusting things for the majority of people involving women , but for me "those disgusting things" are quite normal ...but they don't know about my complete likings involving shemales, so I think they would react as if I had gone too far this time and they would consider me as well as gay.....which is not like that.....I have to make sure my family and friends never discover this secret, they would never understand the beauty of a woman with somenthing extra.
I will keep enjoying women as well as shemales.

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Bob i think you and i are on different planets, you lucky guy.
Could never see my gf being that tolerant, that situation would be a dream scenario for me, having said that i think id also feel a little guilty like id be cheating on her.
I think the biggest hurdle i had to get over was to be honest with my missus, this she respected and after lengthy discussions allowed me freedom, but she always asks who i have seen and was it good lol
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I've already alienated most of them, so I don't think it would really matter .
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i don't think my family would really mind but apart from my closest friends it'll be a hard one to swallow for them (hehee innuendo)
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My friends would freak out and think of me as gay and would probably stop being my friends. My family would freak out and probably disown me. I don't care either way because I would rather have one loving, faithful ts than a hateful, spite filled family.
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> family would say i was sick don,t have many real close friends the 1,s i do trust just would,nt care the thing is why do so many business men travel to JAPAN for business i think we no what goes on but remember it,s just business thats all...
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