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Bionca
01-28-2009, 10:23 PM
I have gotten a couple requests for some pics and stuff. Rather than send guys on silly scavenger hunts through the site, I'll repost the pictures in one neat place.. I'll leave a couple of them posted on one specific thread so the guys who know where to look can take a gander at the bits..

ocinteeni
01-29-2009, 01:01 AM
is this you? The one with the zipper hoodie is the best, I love hoodies, and thats exactly what i would want to see when i unzip one too!

hornysk8ter
01-29-2009, 02:37 AM
you obviously never met me ;)

tslover53
01-29-2009, 04:11 PM
Wow those are great pics

liesjeversteven
01-29-2009, 04:28 PM
Bionca, damn girl! You're not only smart, you're also beautiful!

cham
01-29-2009, 05:39 PM
WOW!!!:respect:

Cham

Bionca
01-29-2009, 10:04 PM
Bionca, damn girl! You're not only smart, you're also beautiful!

Nah! I'm a painfully average looking girl who knows how to write what she thinks. Neither particularly smart or beautiful - especially when you look at the gals posted in the rest of the site. But thank you!

smc
01-30-2009, 08:51 AM
Nah! I'm a painfully average looking girl who knows how to write what she thinks. Neither particularly smart or beautiful - especially when you look at the gals posted in the rest of the site. But thank you!

Bionca, do not judge your beauty agains "the gals posted in the rest of the site." There is an Absolute Beauty that exists apart from any comparison. You most definitely partake of the Absolute, and besides, you have made yourself real to us; they are only images.

There is a reason we say that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

slipper
01-30-2009, 09:48 AM
MORE, PLEASE!!! :yes: :hug:

randolph
01-30-2009, 10:04 AM
I have gotten a couple requests for some pics and stuff. Rather than send guys on silly scavenger hunts through the site, I'll repost the pictures in one neat place.. I'll leave a couple of them posted on one specific thread so the guys who know where to look can take a gander at the bits..

Dear Bionca,
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. When a nice lovely girl shares her life with us, she is beautiful and greatly appreciated! It would be great if some of the other nice girls on the forum would share some pics. Fran, Jennifer, Rachel, where are you?:kiss::hug::inlove:

liesjeversteven
01-30-2009, 10:43 AM
Nah! I'm a painfully average looking girl who knows how to write what she thinks. Neither particularly smart or beautiful - especially when you look at the gals posted in the rest of the site. But thank you!

If you're painfully average looking, I'm downright ugly! Thanks for the compliment! :frown:

TheSkronkDonkey
01-30-2009, 03:46 PM
Bionca, I somehow thought you were actually Asian. Must be that last avatar you had. This has been a shock to me! LOL! You really are a sweetheart.

I think pictures of you with your clothes off would have been -- and still is, of course -- a very attractive idea. But mystery is a lot more exciting. :drool:

Stripping off in front of a camera is a lot like making a stupid remark as President; once it's done, it can't be undone.

maximilian
01-30-2009, 10:44 PM
Very nice!

Bionca
01-30-2009, 10:46 PM
You guys really do make a gal blush a little. Thanks for being sweet.

Bionca
01-30-2009, 10:51 PM
Bionca, I somehow thought you were actually Asian. Must be that last avatar you had. This has been a shock to me! LOL! You really are a sweetheart.

I think pictures of you with your clothes off would have been -- and still is, of course -- a very attractive idea. But mystery is a lot more exciting. :drool:

Stripping off in front of a camera is a lot like making a stupid remark as President; once it's done, it can't be undone.

That's funny. That picture when posted on a dating site had people thinking I was Middle Eastern. I'm fully a Polish/German American mutt.

You are right about the nudie pics, and that was the big reason I didn't do it.

Bionca
01-30-2009, 10:54 PM
If you're painfully average looking, I'm downright ugly! Thanks for the compliment! :frown:

I bet that is far from true!

lopey
01-31-2009, 12:02 AM
I have gotten a couple requests for some pics and stuff. Rather than send guys on silly scavenger hunts through the site, I'll repost the pictures in one neat place.. I'll leave a couple of them posted on one specific thread so the guys who know where to look can take a gander at the bits..

the pic in the middle where your smile is so bright is so amazingly beautiful. You've got the combination of inner and outer beauty so perfectly rolled up into one package!

hellblazer72
01-31-2009, 12:39 AM
really beautiful pics...for some reason you look british in your avatar pic...

ssell10
01-31-2009, 06:53 AM
I thot that ur avator pick was you lol.

Im tryin to complement you without being sleazy, so here goes. U are really beatuiful, inside and out. Any guy would be lucky to have u, not just for the intimate moments but because you seem like a kind, down to earth person. Good luck with ur life, hope u get all the love and happiness u deserve:yes:

SexycdRenee
01-31-2009, 12:28 PM
You are definetly beautiful! I love the first pic.

javabox
01-31-2009, 04:04 PM
very pretty :)

steve_w52
01-31-2009, 04:54 PM
wow yes.. very pretty indeed..

Bionca
02-01-2009, 02:55 PM
Avatar is me when I first started to live as a woman full time. I use that pic to keep me honest as to my beginnings.

lebguy
02-01-2009, 03:11 PM
Bionca, can't add to what was said, very beautiful and I enjoy reading your replies.

Lac79
02-02-2009, 10:48 AM
Thanx for sharing the pics your royal hotness ;)

TheSkronkDonkey
02-02-2009, 08:13 PM
Avatar is me when I first started to live as a woman full time. I use that pic to keep me honest as to my beginnings.

Bionca, you really are a fascinating lady. ^^

And taking a look at those pictures again, I see you did try and tease us with a hint of nudity (third photo).

Screw boobies, though! They mean nothing next to feet. :drool:

Creedence
02-02-2009, 08:47 PM
I think that you look very lovely and you're first picture is glamorous, I've always admired women who look great in a dress. Very classy.

Bionca
02-07-2009, 09:15 AM
Been very ill the past week, here are some more ;)

joeurgod
02-07-2009, 10:28 AM
bionca you are absolutely beautiful.

randolph
02-07-2009, 10:45 AM
BBB

Brains Bod Beauty

Bionca Rules!;):cool:

javabox
02-07-2009, 01:27 PM
Been very ill the past week, here are some more ;)

Hope you're feeling better. I really like the middle pic.

luigi27
02-07-2009, 02:14 PM
Stunning! Bionca, I don't think you appreciate just how good looking you are. Seriously, you are really attractive, and you come across a lovely person too. Don't undervalue yourself.x

moonwalkermoon
02-07-2009, 02:50 PM
Avatar is me when I first started to live as a woman full time. I use that pic to keep me honest as to my beginnings.

This Avatar of yours is amazing. Your pretty face and especially your eyes invoke the most romantic feelings. If you were around I'd probably fall in love with you. But you probably not with me. Of course not. :)

I never thought this was really you. Wish you all the best, always. And from now on you're in my evening prayers. :)

hellblazer72
02-07-2009, 06:50 PM
i'd like to see more wonderwoman pics :)

CreativeMind
02-07-2009, 11:14 PM
Been very ill the past week, here are some more ;)

Lovely pics as always, but I've got a question.
Is the middle picture from the infamous company Christmas party?
That you posted and told everyone about?

tgirllovinguy
02-09-2009, 12:00 AM
Very beautiful photos, Bionca. You can count me among your fans! ;) Thank you for sharing! :hug:

tapestry
02-09-2009, 08:49 AM
Stunning! Bionca, I don't think you appreciate just how good looking you are. Seriously, you are really attractive, and you come across a lovely person too. Don't undervalue yourself.x

I couldn't agree more. Why pull yourself down when there are so many people in this world who will try to do it for you.

Chin up, you are a beautiful woman.

lacey_maxie
02-09-2009, 09:09 AM
Been very ill the past week, here are some more ;)
Bionca,

You must have heard this a thousand times but I must say it again.You look very stunning and beautiful,Girl.What a pleasure to see your pictures:hug::hug::inlove:

smc
02-09-2009, 09:15 AM
Bionca, the warmth and caring that comes through so clearly in your many posts is reflected in the warmth of your smile in these photos. Thank you for sharing them with us.

Bionca
02-13-2009, 07:00 PM
i'd like to see more wonderwoman pics :)

I'll see what I can do ...

randolph
02-13-2009, 07:05 PM
:heart::heart::heart::heart:
To all You Lovely Tgurls Out There
Happy Valentines Day.
:heart::heart::heart::heart:

hankhavelock
02-14-2009, 05:19 AM
Been very ill the past week, here are some more ;)

Wonderful images, Mizzy B - you are to the great surprice of nobody very beautiful. Personally, I favour the one where you lean slightly back with your dark hair and a perfect evening make-up... probably because that's how I've always seen you in my mind when we communicate here. And maybe because you look so MUCH like my x... ;-) Grrr...

You're lovely, and you know it! Bask in your glory, Mizzy B! You deserve it if any!

H

Bionca
02-17-2009, 08:12 PM
Wonderful images, Mizzy B - you are to the great surprice of nobody very beautiful. Personally, I favour the one where you lean slightly back with your dark hair and a perfect evening make-up... probably because that's how I've always seen you in my mind when we communicate here. And maybe because you look so MUCH like my x... ;-) Grrr...

You're lovely, and you know it! Bask in your glory, Mizzy B! You deserve it if any!

H

Golly Hank *blush* I like that pic too actually. Had to crop out some friends to protect the innocent and it makes my boobs look bigger ;)

hellblazer72
02-17-2009, 11:00 PM
I'll see what I can do ...

i am now one happy dude :) i can picture you beating the crap out of some evildoer...

CreativeMind
02-17-2009, 11:15 PM
i am now one happy dude :)
i can picture you beating the crap out of some evildoer...

Well, it's nice to see Bionca back and posting, which I assume means she's gotten over her near brush with pneumonia. But good point, Hellblazer. I'm happy, too. Using the blond hair and adding some fishnet stockings and a leather bustier, I can now picture Black Canary...oops! Sorry, just a some fan boy dreaming. :p

hellblazer72
02-17-2009, 11:34 PM
Well, it's nice to see Bionca back and posting, which I assume means she's gotten over her near brush with pneumonia. But good point, Hellblazer. I'm happy, too. Using the blond hair and adding some fishnet stockings and a leather bustier, I can now picture Black Canary...oops! Sorry, just a some fan boy dreaming. :p

lol... i'm more of the white queen in the hot pants with the thigh high platform boots fan myself..

CreativeMind
02-18-2009, 01:19 AM
lol... i'm more of the white queen in the hot pants with the thigh high platform boots fan myself.

LMAO! I can't believe that's who you picked and because of her outfit.

Ah, Bionca, such sweet irony! :p

hellblazer72
02-18-2009, 09:31 PM
how about supergirl, does that work? lol

CreativeMind
02-18-2009, 09:52 PM
how about supergirl, does that work? lol

Hey, if she goes blond, that works, too!
Or all leather Batgirl in stilettos would be hot as well! :drool:

Actually, Hellblazer, I should explain my previous post just so you know I wasn't poking fun at you -- I was actually poking some nudging fun at Bionca, who is a good sport and all-around great geek. She and I are both big comic book fans, and one time while trading some PMs and debating something in comics, she basically said she would show up at San Diego Con one day and whip me (and my opinion about certain comics) into shape...dressed as the White Witch.

So, that's why I said it was sweet irony, since out of the blue you picked the White Witch too.
I guess you and Bionca are thinking alike! :p

hellblazer72
02-19-2009, 10:44 PM
it seems we both have a fondness for the white queen lol...that bionca is an ok chic :)

franalexes
02-20-2009, 12:16 PM
http://forum.transladyboy.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=70101&d=1234019721

I'd settle for average.
( okay Fran. close mouth, stop drooling.)

randolph
02-20-2009, 12:53 PM
Double Beauty, Oh MY! Bionca + Bianca :hug::kiss::inlove:

hellblazer72
02-21-2009, 01:46 AM
you'd never see 2 bionca's in the same place ,because if you would the universe would collapse on itself.. i read that on the internet so it must be true... plus no matter how you spell bionca it still equals hot :)

shooting_shark
02-21-2009, 11:03 AM
Wow! :eek: Not only do I love reading your intelligent and insightful posts, Bionca, but now I click this thread and see an amazingly beautiful, lovely lady. Nothing try-hard or superficially sexualizing about it - just subtle and alluring, and very much fitting to the persona you project.

Sorry, it's not like me to be so "flirty" on the internet... couldn't help it in this case though *blush*

Bionca
02-21-2009, 02:56 PM
Double Beauty, Oh MY! Bionca + Bianca :hug::kiss::inlove:

No way I can even be compared her !! She is absotely stunning

franalexes
02-24-2009, 06:00 PM
No way I can even be compared her !! She is absotely stunning

But Bionca, you ARE being compared to her.

Bionca
02-24-2009, 06:48 PM
But Bionca, you ARE being compared to her.

Yeah... feh... Bianca F is so very cute.. *sigh*... one of the (many) gals who make me a bit jealous.

fatbloke
02-25-2009, 07:45 AM
Two things, 1,Do you really have that little confidence in your self?

And

2,Why?

transluver22
02-25-2009, 08:10 AM
The first two are from a very brief go at modeling (probably why I look not so shabby in them). The photographer was my stylist's boyfriend so I got a free makeup and hair coloring out of it in exchange for helping his partner expand his portfolio. The end result was a call from some guy who wanted to take naked pics, but I turned him down and then had an hour long laughing fit at the very idea that some guy would pay money to see me naked... still makes me chuckle a little.

I just have to say that you are stunningly gorgeous. Simply a knockout and every bit as beautiful as any of the other tgirls posted here.

Bionca
02-28-2009, 12:11 AM
Two things, 1,Do you really have that little confidence in your self?

And

2,Why?


1) I guess I'm just used to seeing me when I have to wake up earlier than I want, or when I dress to clean the toilet... not so stunning or anything like that.

2) I'm just a pretty average gal, while the ladies this site is devoted to are professionally pretty.

fatbloke
02-28-2009, 06:03 AM
I just think you are naturally beautiful,plus your intelligent and that is always sexy in a girl.I think you are the type of girl it would be a real pleasure to go out with,good looking,sweet,intelligent and sparkling.Fun to walk along the beech at sunset,great to have a nice relaxed meal with,talking and laughing,sipping wine.Holding hands at the movies then grabbing a burger and talking about the film.Well,you get my point i hope

franalexes
02-28-2009, 08:29 AM
And
3) When you have lived being constantly viewed and ridiculed as being a freak or that TS is gross and less than human it does get to wear on you and one's self esteem takes a hit.

Yes Bionca, there are times when we look less than ballroom perfect. My "profession" has had me ass deep in mud and elbow deep in grease and oil.
However, when the sun comes out and casts my shadow,,,,, OH MY EVER LOVING @#$%* ! The guys come to attention.:turnon: Do they EVER!:drool::drool::censored:
My "personality" has a few "points of interest". :yes: So do you.:D

new believer
02-28-2009, 09:42 AM
Caution, this reply contains scolding. Please do not read if easily offended.

Ms B has to grow up a little more. But so do better than 97% of the worlds adult population if that's any consolation.

Let's clear the air, for many of the forums readers if I'm right tell THEM so.
Both ladies Fran and Bionca ARE attractive in more ways than looks alone. And I dare say better than average on the 'looks' part. Ms B seems a little 'concerned ' or lacking a degree of self confidence when it comes to not looking,as she put it, 'professionally beautiful' as Bionca Freire(my personnal favorite). The nitty gritty(the stuff Fran works in)of it all, is 'professional' beauty is manufactured for fantasy. Many people believe that 'skin deep' beauty is a day in day out reality. Ever read those tabloids that catch those hollywood glamour gals without makeup? Most look like Pee Wee Herman. Sure many to most of everyone dream of sleeping with a beauty queen(take that as straight or gay),but the truth of the matter is, real beauty is as one does not as one looks like. I admire both these ladies for their contributions which have enlightened and entertained many many people. And I admire their courage to be who they are. Attractive, you bet your sweet bippy they are. If both these ladies were to post nudies of themselves here, I'd be among the first to wank myself off to them before Ms.Freire. (Truth speaking, I've already played with myself dreaming of one of them already. A pm will get the answer to that one.)
Meanwhile, Ms B stop feeling so 'don't measure up to...' You are attractive people have told you that,believe it. I'm glad Fran has a little more confidence, but she also tends to get 'down in the dumps' every now and then. But we all do. And most of us have never been labeled a freak or ridiculed. The main thing is to live and enjoy the one(s) your with. But enjoy being with yourself first and foremost.
I say this from deep admiration,respect and concern. Please don't take it the wrong way.

randolph
02-28-2009, 10:21 AM
And
3) When you have lived being constantly viewed and ridiculed as being a freak or that TS is gross and less than human it does get to wear on you and one's self esteem takes a hit.

Yes Bionca, there are times when we look less than ballroom perfect. My "profession" has had me ass deep in mud and elbow deep in grease and oil.
However, when the sun comes out and casts my shadow,,,,, OH MY EVER LOVING @#$%* ! The guys come to attention.:turnon: Do they EVER!:drool::drool::censored:
My "personality" has a few "points of interest". :yes: So do you.:D

Hey Fran give us a chance to cum to attention!:inlove::turnon::yes:
PLEASE

smc
02-28-2009, 02:07 PM
there are times when we look less than ballroom perfect. My "profession" has had me ass deep in mud and elbow deep in grease and oil.

I'll bet there's at least one guy out there who would easily see past any amount of mud, grease, or oil -- even if you were trying to hide.

twistedone
02-28-2009, 03:00 PM
DANG!!! You are hot.

Now if you would be so kind as to excuse me. I have to take a cold shower.

Bionca
03-02-2009, 06:26 AM
Caution, this reply contains scolding. Please do not read if easily offended.

Ms B has to grow up a little more. But so do better than 97% of the worlds adult population if that's any consolation.

Let's clear the air, for many of the forums readers if I'm right tell THEM so.
Both ladies Fran and Bionca ARE attractive in more ways than looks alone. And I dare say better than average on the 'looks' part. Ms B seems a little 'concerned ' or lacking a degree of self confidence when it comes to not looking,as she put it, 'professionally beautiful' as Bionca Freire(my personnal favorite). The nitty gritty(the stuff Fran works in)of it all, is 'professional' beauty is manufactured for fantasy. Many people believe that 'skin deep' beauty is a day in day out reality. Ever read those tabloids that catch those hollywood glamour gals without makeup? Most look like Pee Wee Herman. Sure many to most of everyone dream of sleeping with a beauty queen(take that as straight or gay),but the truth of the matter is, real beauty is as one does not as one looks like. I admire both these ladies for their contributions which have enlightened and entertained many many people. And I admire their courage to be who they are. Attractive, you bet your sweet bippy they are. If both these ladies were to post nudies of themselves here, I'd be among the first to wank myself off to them before Ms.Freire. (Truth speaking, I've already played with myself dreaming of one of them already. A pm will get the answer to that one.)
Meanwhile, Ms B stop feeling so 'don't measure up to...' You are attractive people have told you that,believe it. I'm glad Fran has a little more confidence, but she also tends to get 'down in the dumps' every now and then. But we all do. And most of us have never been labeled a freak or ridiculed. The main thing is to live and enjoy the one(s) your with. But enjoy being with yourself first and foremost.
I say this from deep admiration,respect and concern. Please don't take it the wrong way.

NB -

It should be a general rule of thumb not to compare people to porn stars... period real folks won't feel like they measure up. To be honest, obviously I think I'm OK looking to post my photos here. For two reasons one, I was asked by a couple guys who missed them the first time arounce, two because it is important to show what actual "non-professionally pretty" trans*women can look like... and I *do* like to get complimented - it's nice to get a compliment and not feel like I eventually have to tell someone something...

sesame
03-02-2009, 07:42 AM
BOOMMMM

To be honest, obviously I think I'm OK looking to post my photos here. For two reasons one, I was asked by a couple guys who missed them the first time arounce, two because it is important to show what actual "non-professionally pretty" trans*women can look like... and I *do* like to get complimented - it's nice to get a compliment and not feel like I eventually have to tell someone something...

I say chaps, did you see that? Did I hear a note of rightful Pride in Bionca's statement, or is it my ear ringing? By saying "I am an actual non-professionally pretty trans*woman", she means to say, that she is Genuinely Pretty, free from blemishes and tricks with make up, paints or "Silicon Valley"-Boobie traps.;)

Well, Bionca, some of us think that you are above such comparison.:respect:
Even if some of the Pro Artists manage to qualify as Bionca-Like, where would they get your wit and sense of humour? The Intelligence that you possess can neither be purchased from the market, nor can it be implanted by surgery. So, rest assured, babe, you are our Queen. :cool:

new believer
03-02-2009, 11:37 AM
2) I'm just a pretty average gal, while the ladies this site is devoted to are professionally pretty. "Bionca"

Great to know you do have a sense of pride in yourself. I guess I erred in combining two 'observations' of/from you. The first is that you have in the past, been always shyly 'defensive' about not being 'enough' woman for your dates ( I admit to being angered by the idiots who have let you down). And second, in believing you where becoming 'defensive' again, I mis-interpeted your coment above as 'just' an average girl, as in "the assumption I made was 'pretty' dumb". 'Pretty' foolish of me.
I was 'pretty' dumbfounded that you only thought of yourself as average. Get what I'm trying to say?
For the record, I am hoping you will now consider yourself to be ABOVE average looking. Look at all the folks out here wishing to SEE more of you. From the picture of your avatar alone, you are a beautiful woman.
Now if the folks out here in 'peep land' could only convince Fran to go back to her earlier avatar,(or even a new one)us perverts would sleep more enjoyably also. HEAR THAT FRAN?
P S I do not consider either of you porn stars, I know better.

fatbloke
03-02-2009, 12:22 PM
There is a story behind Fran's avetar,ask her,she will tell you,it's an interesting story,but i do think fran should post some pics of herself

Bionca
03-02-2009, 06:03 PM
BOOMMMM



I say chaps, did you see that? Did I hear a note of rightful Pride in Bionca's statement, or is it my ear ringing? By saying "I am an actual non-professionally pretty trans*woman", she means to say, that she is Genuinely Pretty, free from blemishes and tricks with make up, paints or "Silicon Valley"-Boobie traps.;)

Well, Bionca, some of us think that you are above such comparison.:respect:
Even if some of the Pro Artists manage to qualify as Bionca-Like, where would they get your wit and sense of humour? The Intelligence that you possess can neither be purchased from the market, nor can it be implanted by surgery. So, rest assured, babe, you are our Queen. :cool:

You are a giant crazy man Sesame! The humour and intellect I'll own, since I had to develop that and it is something I am rather fond of about myself.

As far as pics... you'll never see two things from me 1) nudes that have the face and the body 2) pics without makeup... I know plenty of tricks.

Bionca
03-02-2009, 06:17 PM
2) I'm just a pretty average gal, while the ladies this site is devoted to are professionally pretty. "Bionca"

Great to know you do have a sense of pride in yourself. I guess I erred in combining two 'observations' of/from you. The first is that you have in the past, been always shyly 'defensive' about not being 'enough' woman for your dates ( I admit to being angered by the idiots who have let you down). And second, in believing you where becoming 'defensive' again, I mis-interpeted your coment above as 'just' an average girl, as in "the assumption I made was 'pretty' dumb". 'Pretty' foolish of me.
I was 'pretty' dumbfounded that you only thought of yourself as average. Get what I'm trying to say?
For the record, I am hoping you will now consider yourself to be ABOVE average looking. Look at all the folks out here wishing to SEE more of you. From the picture of your avatar alone, you are a beautiful woman.
Now if the folks out here in 'peep land' could only convince Fran to go back to her earlier avatar,(or even a new one)us perverts would sleep more enjoyably also. HEAR THAT FRAN?
P S I do not consider either of you porn stars, I know better.

I'm just not so focused on how I look. I like how I look, and I appreciate that some people find me attractive. I surely don't think I'm ugly (I'd be having a fit in some DR's office still if I thought that). The thing is, it is still hard to accept compliments... just a thing I guess. I think that is more common among Trans*women than lots of folks think. I mean spending 18 (ish) + years having a mental/emotional battle with your body takes a toll. Then to get that sorted only to find that the better you look, the more complicated some stuff gets.

If some random guy likes how I look and asks me out eventually I have to say something about what's happening in the undies. Attraction easily turns into accusations of deception which becomes potentially unsafe. The strange thing is, the better I looked, the less shit I took on a daily basis - folks just assume I'm a regular (cute) gal and go on. OTOH the more I looked like a (cute) regular old gal, the more guys would hit on me opening up situations where safety became an issue.

For this reason, and I'm generally just kinda shy, I tend to down play compliments or change the subject, or just make jokes about it. So, yeah I guess can look good, but that was just luck of the draw really.

sesame
03-03-2009, 05:09 PM
Bionca, you deserve equal credit for your good looks, as your intellectual richness. You had to develop that too. The beauty we are complimenting is the fruit of your hard labour over a very long time!

As for your ultra-sensitivity over accepting a compliment in real life, I am sympathetic. The security issues for Tgirls is a harsh reality even in modern society as we speak. Some people are appreciative towards transwomen, some are nonchalant, while quite a few are violent.

As for me, I appreciate the intense struggle every Tgirl goes through to become a woman. Her life is a canvas and her success as a transwoman is like a masterpiece. I have seen amazing mental maturity in Transwomen, far advanced for their age. I guess thats because they have to struggle manyfold than us.

randolph
03-05-2009, 12:32 PM
And
3) When you have lived being constantly viewed and ridiculed as being a freak or that TS is gross and less than human it does get to wear on you and one's self esteem takes a hit.

Yes Bionca, there are times when we look less than ballroom perfect. My "profession" has had me ass deep in mud and elbow deep in grease and oil.
However, when the sun comes out and casts my shadow,,,,, OH MY EVER LOVING @#$%* ! The guys come to attention.:turnon: Do they EVER!:drool::drool::censored:
My "personality" has a few "points of interest". :yes: So do you.:D

Dear Fran,
Your fan club is anxiously awaiting an update on your "points of interest" the club feels "pointless" without some images.
Sincerely,
your devoted fans :inlove:;):yes:

franalexes
03-05-2009, 01:46 PM
I'm not sure if I should repond here but today I'll try. For a long time I searched for the words but only a few days ago did the right term come to me. The message is short and holds deep meaning. For each of you, that meaning will go far beyond the written word, but in your own mind it will play out for you.
Here goes: I try to be a person of class.( so hard to define, so easy to recognize.) As to looking sexy, I do not object, but I don't wish to be viewed as a sex object.

randolph
03-05-2009, 02:00 PM
And
3) When you have lived being constantly viewed and ridiculed as being a freak or that TS is gross and less than human it does get to wear on you and one's self esteem takes a hit.

Yes Bionca, there are times when we look less than ballroom perfect. My "profession" has had me ass deep in mud and elbow deep in grease and oil.
However, when the sun comes out and casts my shadow,,,,, OH MY EVER LOVING @#$%* ! The guys come to attention.:turnon: Do they EVER!:drool::drool::censored:
My "personality" has a few "points of interest". :yes: So do you.:D

No offense Fran, but the above comments suggest you are proud of your sexuality. To appreciate female beauty does not imply that the viewer views the viewed as a "sex object". Numerous posts confirm that we view you and Bionica as intelligent lovely women that we would like to associate with, not as sex objects.

Bionca
03-05-2009, 06:41 PM
Bionca, you deserve equal credit for your good looks, as your intellectual richness. You had to develop that too. The beauty we are complimenting is the fruit of your hard labour over a very long time!

As for your ultra-sensitivity over accepting a compliment in real life, I am sympathetic. The security issues for Tgirls is a harsh reality even in modern society as we speak. Some people are appreciative towards transwomen, some are nonchalant, while quite a few are violent.

As for me, I appreciate the intense struggle every Tgirl goes through to become a woman. Her life is a canvas and her success as a transwoman is like a masterpiece. I have seen amazing mental maturity in Transwomen, far advanced for their age. I guess thats because they have to struggle manyfold than us.

I'll try to gracefully accept the compliment Sesame, but you know I think you are a little nutty to start off. :hug:

franalexes
03-07-2009, 07:33 AM
No offense Fran, but the above comments suggest you are proud of your sexuality. .

Yes I am, but that doesn't mean I like to be "hit on" with porno itent.
Most guys like their pickup trucks. They polish and shine; they like the horse power, the body size, the color, the attachments, the performance.
They like the load it can carry but that doesn't mean they cruise the streets picking up all the garbage as if there was a contest on what they can haul.

Bionca
03-07-2009, 01:03 PM
One tiny observation that I think is a little funny. The thread stared because of a few requests for pictures from guys who had 0 posts. I figured rather than have them hunt for the pics I was willing to share I'd have one spot to send them (except for the naughty ones which will stay buried on some mysterious thread LOL). I also wanted to give those guys a spot to get their feet wet and post something. To date none of them have posted here or elsewhere.

To be sure, I'm not handing down condemnation - folks post where and when they like. I'm just amused (and good-naturedly cajoling) the guys who haven't yet posted anything.

sesame
03-08-2009, 04:27 AM
I was willing to share I'd have one spot to send them (except for the naughty ones which will stay buried on some mysterious thread LOL). Well, since my post count is NOT ZERO, will you be posting your images on my request? I mean, many ... many ... pictures, all arranged in a separate thread called Bionca frolicking, or something ;). That will be a real eye-candy. No pun, Bionca sister, just post your modest glamour shots. And then, sooo many of us will be happy. :yes:

ladylover
03-08-2009, 02:34 PM
Bionca, you are gorgeous!

franalexes
03-09-2009, 12:47 PM
I discovered hair color comes in a bottle. Red is appropriate. I'm fiesty. ( so they say )

"What's the difference between Fran and a terrorist?
You can negotiate with a terrorist."

new believer
03-09-2009, 04:26 PM
I discovered hair color comes in a bottle. Red is appropriate. I'm fiesty. ( so they say )

"What's the difference between Fran and a terrorist?
You can negotiate with a terrorist."

Fran , You made me smile. And I made a mess

CuriousJim
03-09-2009, 05:27 PM
I discovered hair color comes in a bottle. Red is appropriate. I'm fiesty. ( so they say )

"What's the difference between Fran and a terrorist?
You can negotiate with a terrorist."


I think I need to get a plane ticket to the states sharpish!

toomuchcoffeeman
03-09-2009, 08:42 PM
Very nice B... Very nice. :turnon:

sesame
03-09-2009, 08:49 PM
Yeah, you look great, ... and very healthy. ;)

"What's the difference between Fran and a terrorist?
You can negotiate with a terrorist.":lol: Good one.
You are absolutely non-negotiable? Quite forceful, eh?

Talvenada
03-09-2009, 10:56 PM
I discovered hair color comes in a bottle. Red is appropriate. I'm fiesty. ( so they say )

"What's the difference between Fran and a terrorist?
You can negotiate with a terrorist."

FRAN:

I believe feisty might be a MILD description of your tongue, which is as penetrating as another part of your anatomy. I remember you mentioning a wife, but I take it you're no longer unavailable for the right man.

In your photo, is that the road that leads to your panties? Or is it the road to nowhere?


Piece,


TAL

Phenom99
03-09-2009, 11:56 PM
One tiny observation that I think is a little funny. The thread stared because of a few requests for pictures from guys who had 0 posts. I figured rather than have them hunt for the pics I was willing to share I'd have one spot to send them (except for the naughty ones which will stay buried on some mysterious thread LOL). I also wanted to give those guys a spot to get their feet wet and post something. To date none of them have posted here or elsewhere.

To be sure, I'm not handing down condemnation - folks post where and when they like. I'm just amused (and good-naturedly cajoling) the guys who haven't yet posted anything.

lol well i applaud you for having the guts to post these pics then, regardless of the fact that those guys didn't respond. You are very stunning ;)

i've been debating posting some pictures of myself on either this forum or another forum that i'm a member of, if only just for the chance to get some user input haha

franalexes
03-10-2009, 07:06 AM
FRAN:

I believe feisty might be a MILD description of your tongue,
In your photo, is that the road that leads to your panties?
TAL


If you think you are on the road to my panties, you may notice it leads THROUGH a church. :innocent:
Sometimes we girls are downright smart. Othertimes, we smarten up.:respect:

Fran

Amy
03-10-2009, 09:08 AM
I'm glad I put down the bottle of coke BEFORE opening this thread.

I don't like having it coming out of my nose.

smc
03-10-2009, 10:11 AM
Now we know that Fran is as stunning as she is punning.

Talvenada
03-10-2009, 03:17 PM
If you think you are on the road to my panties, you may notice it leads THROUGH a church. :innocent:
Sometimes we girls are downright smart. Othertimes, we smarten up.:respect:

Fran

FRAN:

Wow!! An Air Church!!

A vow B4 kapow to get a redhead in bed?


Piece,


TAL

Bionca
03-10-2009, 06:27 PM
lol well i applaud you for having the guts to post these pics then, regardless of the fact that those guys didn't respond. You are very stunning ;)

i've been debating posting some pictures of myself on either this forum or another forum that i'm a member of, if only just for the chance to get some user input haha

Well, I think all the boys here should post pics :innocent: and bravo for actually having one up. And thank you for the compliment :)

Bionca
03-10-2009, 06:30 PM
I discovered hair color comes in a bottle. Red is appropriate. I'm fiesty. ( so they say )

"What's the difference between Fran and a terrorist?
You can negotiate with a terrorist."

Very nice Fran!!!

I tried red for a month or so. I honestly think I'm best as a Brunette. I kept getting asked if the "drapes matched the carpet". I didn't have the guts to shave my head too ;)

franalexes
03-10-2009, 09:42 PM
Very nice Fran!!!

I tried red for a month or so. I honestly think I'm best as a Brunette. I kept getting asked if the "drapes matched the carpet". I didn't have the guts to shave my head too ;)
:DAnother item* we share. No carpet. You like the appearance of bare hard wood too.:respect:

That's enough play on words. Let's see if we get fan mail.

Bionca
03-10-2009, 09:45 PM
Well, since my post count is NOT ZERO, will you be posting your images on my request? I mean, many ... many ... pictures, all arranged in a separate thread called Bionca frolicking, or something ;). That will be a real eye-candy. No pun, Bionca sister, just post your modest glamour shots. And then, sooo many of us will be happy. :yes:

Sesame... LOL... I know what you are after :p
The thing you seek exists on this site.
But like all good things, you will have to look for it.

Bionca
03-10-2009, 09:48 PM
:DAnother item* we share. No carpet. You like the appearance of bare hard wood too.:respect:

That's enough play on words. Let's see if we get fan mail.

Fran, I don't think the servers can keep up with the fan mail you generate as it is!! Or is that Fran mail... :lol::lol::lol:

franalexes
03-10-2009, 09:53 PM
Fran mail? Yes, but sometimes I notice we get BIONC-ed on the head.

franalexes
03-10-2009, 10:50 PM
I'm glad I put down the bottle of coke BEFORE opening this thread.

I don't like having it coming out of my nose.

Was it what I said or the way I look?
You may send a PM.

fatbloke
03-11-2009, 02:04 AM
I discovered hair color comes in a bottle. Red is appropriate. I'm fiesty. ( so they say )

"What's the difference between Fran and a terrorist?
You can negotiate with a terrorist."

good implants

sesame
03-11-2009, 02:08 AM
I kept getting asked if the "drapes matched the carpet". I didn't have the guts to shave my head too ;)Oh! Your pet is a bald pussy cat? I mean, :p hairless Willy, or, William Shavespear?


Sesame... LOL... I know what you are after
The thing you seek exists on this site.
But like all good things, you will have to look for it.Senora, if you make me toil like this, there will be consequences. Once I find them, I will see to it that your pictures are the first things people find on opening this website.
Yours threateningly, :inlove:
~S


Psssst: I found those two teeny weeny pictures at the beginning of this thread. Daym, girl! The candy dissolved into thin air, even before I put it in my mouth! Something so good, yet so little in number doesnt quench our thirst. :drool:

dennisGTS
03-11-2009, 11:24 AM
Bionca, you are truly gorgeous! You are a T-girl that I'd fantasize about being with! :turnon:

SweetCharmer
03-11-2009, 12:12 PM
Well, I think all the boys here should post pics :innocent:

i like the idea so here's my pic i may change it soon but it was one i did using light graffitti and that's me :lol: the angel

new believer
03-11-2009, 12:37 PM
Regarding the 'bare wood' vs 'carpeting' comments being referred to by Bionca and Fran, You gals are sick. More so are the people who found it amusing.
Alright I'll confess, I laughed aloud then tingled as I read on.
Now I need to know at what level of sickness of mind do I have to be before I'm banned from this forum? I know neither of you ladies won't be, It would be like throwing out the baby's(babe's) with the bath water.

franalexes
03-12-2009, 12:01 PM
, It would be like throwing out the baby's(babe's) with the bath water.

OMG Bionca, he has visions now of giving us a bath. Now there's a frolicking forum fantasy I can live with.:censored:

new believer
03-12-2009, 01:08 PM
OMG Bionca, he has visions now of giving us a bath. Now there's a frolicking forum fantasy I can live with.:censored:

It wasn't what I intended to say,but it beats what meant by a country wide. I'll supply the 'low sudsy' type soap(I don't want to miss a thing).

smc
03-12-2009, 02:00 PM
OMG Bionca, he has visions now of giving us a bath. Now there's a frolicking forum fantasy I can live with.:censored:

I would gladly settle for being the tub, the water, the soap, the towels ... whatever. Although more would be nice, too.

randolph
03-12-2009, 04:22 PM
:DAnother item* we share. No carpet. You like the appearance of bare hard wood too.:respect:

That's enough play on words. Let's see if we get fan mail.

Well I am glad I checked back.
Here is some Fran mail.
Fran you are awesomely gorgeous!:respect:

Amy
03-13-2009, 04:52 AM
Some of the stuff said in this thread is enough on its own to make visiting this forum regularly worthwhile.

And I'm sure, Fran, that you have PLENTY fan-males.

franalexes
03-13-2009, 07:41 AM
"Once in his life every man is entitled to fall madly in love with a gorgeous redhead." Lucille Ball.

smc
03-13-2009, 08:18 AM
"Once in his life every man is entitled to fall madly in love with a gorgeous redhead." Lucille Ball.

I guess my time has come.:inlove:

randolph
03-13-2009, 10:59 AM
:DAnother item* we share. No carpet. You like the appearance of bare hard wood too.:respect:

The Fran club is now fully activated. We are now awaiting further directions from the red haired beauty. :respect::yes::yes::yes:

Bionca
03-13-2009, 10:02 PM
OMG Bionca, he has visions now of giving us a bath. Now there's a frolicking forum fantasy I can live with.:censored:

One way to make something so clean end up soooooo dirty :p

Bionca
03-13-2009, 10:06 PM
Senora, if you make me toil like this, there will be consequences. Once I find them, I will see to it that your pictures are the first things people find on opening this website.
Yours threateningly, :inlove:
~S


Psssst: I found those two teeny weeny pictures at the beginning of this thread. Daym, girl! The candy dissolved into thin air, even before I put it in my mouth! Something so good, yet so little in number doesnt quench our thirst. :drool:

Have you found the other pics yet? I'll give you a hint think "Freebies" and a really long thread I imagine you won't mind digging through ;)

sesame
03-14-2009, 07:51 AM
Bionca baibie,
Wow, girl! You are so amply gifted!

Towering wit :respect::respect:
Great sense of humour :respect:
Angelic face :inlove:
And you are a tall girl :innocent:

And now, On top of that,
A towering flagpole!!! :lol:
OMG! Thats massive! You wanna fight me in a joust?
You are a mystery, a femme fabulous on all counts!

I'm on the lookout for some more juicy details on you :kiss:

sesame
03-14-2009, 08:23 AM
Bionca,
Great Queen,
Swear me in as your humble Knight. :rolleyes:
Touch thy sword on my shoulders and command me to rise.
Let thy sweet voice call me by my name. "Rise, Sir Sesame!" :innocent:

new believer
03-16-2009, 11:46 AM
I'll see what I can do ...

I'd like to see a few pics of you with the golden lasso. One pic HAS to be where you twirl it overhead. Better yet, lassoing Fran (all in fun of course ,pretty please)

ladylover
03-16-2009, 06:34 PM
Have you found the other pics yet? I'll give you a hint think "Freebies" and a really long thread I imagine you won't mind digging through ;)

I've dug, but I cannot find the thread! :censored::inlove:

darkstargemini
03-17-2009, 01:09 AM
> i red the blog message about transgenders who r killed i still remember this documentry on this tgirl in Toronto Canada very lovely girl smart atractive full of life had everything going for her until the night she met this man well she,s not with us anymore because the bastard killed her there was a right up about it but like u said she,s forgotten now shame she had so much to live for and someone she met took her life in a second.:broken:

darkstargemini
03-17-2009, 01:14 AM
> luv your pics nice very nice:yes:

Bionca
03-21-2009, 01:34 PM
Bionca,
Great Queen,
Swear me in as your humble Knight. :rolleyes:
Touch thy sword on my shoulders and command me to rise.
Let thy sweet voice call me by my name. "Rise, Sir Sesame!" :innocent:

Hurmmm..

I thought I got you to "rise" already. If the picture didn't do it, not sure what else I can do.

franalexes
03-21-2009, 02:17 PM
. "Rise, Sir Sesame!" :innocent:


No, no, no. That's "Open Sesame"
Now if you don't know what to open,,,,,,well, you are in the wrong forum.:innocent:

sesame
03-23-2009, 04:16 AM
I thought I got you to "rise" already. If the picture didn't do it, not sure what else I can do.Clever Answer. But you can do quite a lot of other things. :p

more commands:
Rise, Peter pan,
Arise, Dick Tracy,
Awake, Big Willy,
Hoist, Flagpost,
Astir, Sexspear!

No, no, no. That's "Open Sesame"
Now if you don't know what to open,,,,,,well, you are in the wrong forumIf she had said Open instead of Rise, my friend, I would have ran for cover. My fundament is mine after all, however romantic it may seem in the movies! Otherwise, paper headlines the next morning would be,
"Young man, stabbed to death with unknown weapon!"

Carter1979
03-23-2009, 04:50 AM
May i just say Bionca, that you truly are a beautiful woman. I know others have already said so, but I just wanted to add my comments too.

Bionca
03-23-2009, 06:01 PM
Clever Answer. But you can do quite a lot of other things. :p

more commands:
Rise, Peter pan,
Arise, Dick Tracy,
Awake, Big Willy,
Hoist, Flagpost,
Astir, Sexspear!

If she had said Open instead of Rise, my friend, I would have ran for cover. My fundament is mine after all, however romantic it may seem in the movies! Otherwise, paper headlines the next morning would be,
"Young man, stabbed to death with unknown weapon!"


Oh my sweet... they would know what stabbed you. I'd have the incriminating pictures for the morning paper :hug:

Bionca
03-23-2009, 06:02 PM
May i just say Bionca, that you truly are a beautiful woman. I know others have already said so, but I just wanted to add my comments too.

Thank you :)

Vanillas
03-30-2009, 09:59 PM
Thank You for posting your pictures. You have a fresh and wholesome quality that comes through in the photographs. I can certainly see why someone assumed you are of Middle Eastern origin for there is a glint of the Semitic (read mysterious and timeless) in your features. Finally, regarding your decision not to do nude modeling, I find your discretion (and modesty, Yes?) to be most refreshing.

shemalelover87
03-30-2009, 10:51 PM
well...i must say...a little more of you bionca....and i will fall for you for sure!!! you really are a swet smart beautiful gir!!!!!

fatbloke
03-31-2009, 03:35 AM
What A Load Of Old Bollocks

Bionca
04-12-2009, 07:23 PM
Thanks for all the really sweet comments - and thanks Fran for posting your pic too *hug*.

linguslingus
04-26-2009, 06:24 AM
Very beautiful pics Bionca.

Rambam
04-26-2009, 08:27 AM
That's funny. That picture when posted on a dating site had people thinking I was Middle Eastern. I'm fully a Polish/German American mutt.

You are right about the nudie pics, and that was the big reason I didn't do it.

first... you look really stunning and you have a lot of femininity :inlove:
second... I would say you look more Polish then German :yes:

paul_ire
04-26-2009, 02:37 PM
very pretty :)

Bionca
04-30-2009, 09:45 PM
Thanks guys!! I do take after mom's (Polish) side of the family ;)

Amdukias
05-07-2009, 04:18 PM
You are very beautiful Bionca, thanks for sharing yourself here, and in your blog.

Bionca
05-09-2009, 09:21 PM
Thanks!!!

And thanks for reading the blog... I really need to update that soon...

Guess that's what happens when you write for a living (lkinda), you just don't want to do it for fun any more.

newdude
05-31-2009, 09:36 PM
Bionca u r so beautiful and smart and everything. I can't believe this thread is only 3 pages long. I guess some gues don't know a great thing when they see it. :respect::inlove::turnon:

newdude
07-16-2009, 06:25 PM
Shameless bump for the missing Bionca.

bigjoe
07-16-2009, 08:14 PM
Holy Feck! youre gorgeous Bionca! compliments to ya! :)
xxxx

newdude
07-28-2009, 07:00 PM
bumping this again to show the site our own treasure.... pls come back Ms B

michael39
07-28-2009, 10:51 PM
The photos are extremely hot.

sweetguy
08-02-2009, 05:51 AM
Others should take note of how to look the part.

Bionca, you are beautiful in every sense of the word. Really, you're stunning.

Bionca
08-02-2009, 02:06 PM
Others should take note of how to look the part.

Bionca, you are beautiful in every sense of the word. Really, you're stunning.

Thank you. I am a little confused about the "look the part" bit. I just look like I look, I'm really not trying to look any specific "part"

hankhavelock
08-03-2009, 06:04 AM
Thank you. I am a little confused about the "look the part" bit. I just look like I look, I'm really not trying to look any specific "part"

Mizzy B, which ever part you're trying (not) to look, you do it gracefully, sayangku!

H

Bionca
08-03-2009, 08:09 PM
Mizzy B, which ever part you're trying (not) to look, you do it gracefully, sayangku!

H

It's clear by his other posts that I "look the part of a woman". While that is true - it hardly makes me better or more trans than anyone else. I was just the same woman when I had a goatee and belly hair :eek:

Not even gunna get into the implication of "looking a part" ... like my whole life is some character I'm playing on a stage.

Jenae LaTorque
08-03-2009, 09:10 PM
Not even gunna get into the implication of "looking a part" ... like my whole life is some character I'm playing on a stage.[/quote]

Just for the record, "I agree with the concensus here. You are definately a babe, in the most flattering sense of the word." :heart::heart::heart::hug:Love, Jenae

Bionca
08-03-2009, 10:18 PM
Yes, yes we have -

I know all about "playing a part". Although I wasn't particularly good at that - just couldn't quite convince people I was a boy. Funny how in many ways I was the last to know... *shrug*

pauson
08-04-2009, 01:39 PM
Yes you are a very beautiful woman. And seem very sweet.
Wish you the best in your relationship. And I do provide a profile pic upon request.

Thanks for letting all of us get to know you through your post.
Good Luck...

-Paul

sesame
08-18-2009, 03:19 PM
It's clear by his other posts that I "look the part of a woman". While that is true - it hardly makes me better or more trans than anyone else. I was just the same woman when I had a goatee and belly hair :eek:

Not even gunna get into the implication of "looking a part" ... like my whole life is some character I'm playing on a stage.
Wow, sister, that was really honest. Its hard to imagine, harder to swallow... :eek:

And what is this row with Hankie? He cant be saying that you are roleplaying!

You are who you are. The classiest Tgirl ever! May I add that you are blooming more and more all the time into being more beautiful and charming?

:cool: You cant hypnotize me though! :lol:

The Conquistador
09-08-2009, 04:47 AM
"B" is for Bump!

johndowe
09-08-2009, 03:52 PM
Hi there.

I hope i still can edit this when i come back


JohnDowe.

shadows
10-25-2009, 06:33 AM
Bionca, I just wanted to say that you are a very beautiful woman.:)

One detail in particular that I wanted to mention is that you have one of the most beautiful smiles I have ever seen. Sounds cheesy I know, but it's the truth.:)

newdude
10-25-2009, 02:11 PM
I agree she is completely hot with a killah smile

EdwardSinclair
10-25-2009, 04:08 PM
:lol:
Seriously if I had known you looked this good, I would have at least tried to make a complete fool out of myself as I often do in front of cute ladies...

Now I just got more thoughts in my mind to feel guilty about! No disrespect intended, but I must droool now...

jimnaseum
10-25-2009, 11:32 PM
Ah, She's beautiful, she's tough......but she's got one problem- She cares too much...........


Thanks Bionca for all your contributions. It IS appreciated.

randolph
10-25-2009, 11:37 PM
Bionca wants Josh. I'm afraid the rest of us haven't a chance.;):innocent:

shadows
10-26-2009, 06:46 AM
Ah, She's beautiful, she's tough......but she's got one problem- She cares too much...........


Thanks Bionca for all your contributions. It IS appreciated.

Caring too much is much better than not caring enough, which is seen in the world all to often it seems.

benwest
10-28-2009, 04:38 PM
wow Bionca, you are beautiful. Your personality ia a plus too :) .

Bionca
11-05-2009, 09:53 PM
Bionca wants Josh. I'm afraid the rest of us haven't a chance.;):innocent:

HA!!! Josh is just a porn fantasy.. no chance he'd get with me ;)

Bionca
11-05-2009, 09:54 PM
I'm really flattered that guys even comment here :) Thanks !

shadows
11-05-2009, 10:38 PM
I'm really flattered that guys even comment here :) Thanks !

No problem. You're quite worthy of the comments(the nice ones, anyhow).:)

randolph
11-11-2009, 05:54 PM
From Lynn Conway at lynnconway.com

Approximately 30,000 to 40,000 postoperative transsexual women live in the United States, and many thousands more are now in the process of gender transition here. These numbers are much larger than commonly assumed by the public because a veil of invisibility hides the true nature and extent of the transsexual condition. Especially hidden are large numbers of highly successful women who have fully transitioned. The reason is that most successful women live in "stealth mode" or are "woodworked". They leave their pasts behind and hide in plain sight in order to avoid social stigmatization and get on with their new lives. Their personal successes insure that they assimilate and blend right into society.

The social invisibility of successful women who have undergone gender corrections supports the notion that male-to-female transsexualism is extremely rare. However, intense transsexualism is not all that uncommon. Recent calculations indicate that the condition occurs in about 1 out of every 250 to 500 children born as boys, and that about 1 in every 2500 males in the U.S. has already undergone surgical sex reassignment*. Transsexualism is thus more than twice as prevalent as multiple sclerosis (MS), cerebral palsy or cleft lip/palate conditions.

The invisibility of these successes supports notions that gender transitions often have rather sad outcomes. At present, the media only spotlights transsexual people on two occasions, namely when "someone well-known changes sex" and when someone is a victim of discrimination, harassment or attack. Media stories about someone's "sex change" are never followed-up to find out what happened years later. Instead stories always focus on pre-transition life and struggles during transition and never on their life afterwards. This lack of balance in exposure shapes society's notion that transition leads to social marginalization or worse, because we "never hear about them again". Only stories of occasional social failures and victims of harassment and attacks remain visible longer term.
:(

Bionca
11-11-2009, 09:38 PM
Lynn pretty much has it there, and I've always loved her site. Part of being a successful transition was your ability to simply disappear. It's caused a serious generational rift as the women who transitioned before 1980's just weren't there.

randolph
11-11-2009, 10:03 PM
Lynn pretty much has it there, and I've always loved her site. Part of being a successful transition was your ability to simply disappear. It's caused a serious generational rift as the women who transitioned before 1980's just weren't there.

In reading the brief comments under the pictures of the women on Lynn's site I wondered if any of them date or got married. It seems from your comments that dating is rather problematic for a transsexual. Gays seem to be able to develop long term relationships. Why is it harder for transsexuals?:respect:

Bionca
11-11-2009, 11:10 PM
In reading the brief comments under the pictures of the women on Lynn's site I wondered if any of them date or got married. It seems from your comments that dating is rather problematic for a transsexual. Gays seem to be able to develop long term relationships. Why is it harder for transsexuals?:respect:

I know Lynn is married. I'm sure many of them date and still others retained their pre-transition relationships.

Why is it harder for trans women to date? Because hetero men take a potential social "hit" by dating us and that's hard to deal with. Gay guys don't really have an out, they have to deal with homophobia or be alone. Hetero guys have an obvious and less complicated "out" - non-trans women. The fear of being seen as gay seems to be a recurring theme and social stigma can be a powerful motivator.

tonywaits
01-24-2010, 12:15 PM
Well, I think all the boys here should post pics :innocent: and bravo for actually having one up. And thank you for the compliment :)

Just for Bianca, I hope you like. LOL

beginner
01-24-2010, 06:28 PM
Bionca:
You are beautiful and wonderful!!! And that's all one needs to say.
Beginner

Bionca
08-01-2010, 12:08 AM
Very new pics... not wild about them, but whatev.

outofmymind
08-01-2010, 01:00 AM
Beautiful!

shadows
08-03-2010, 02:49 AM
Very new pics... not wild about them, but whatev.

To be honest, I am not sure why you don't like those pictures very much.

Personally, I think you look very beautiful in them. For one thing, they are pictures of you, well, being you.:cool:

I also respect you for posting your pictures here. It does take courage to do that, as we both know that there are people of less-than-savoury people to be found on the internet(the same can be said in the off-line world, but you know what I mean ;) ).

Thank you for sharing them with us, Bionca.:)

Bionca
08-05-2010, 06:35 PM
Well, I'm posing on my bf's weight set for one.
I think my feet are kinda ick
I'm more undressed than in any other photos I've ever posted - I men the top is all I have on... :eek:

smc
08-05-2010, 07:49 PM
Well, I'm posing on my bf's weight set for one.
I think my feet are kinda ick
I'm more undressed than in any other photos I've ever posted - I men the top is all I have on... :eek:

You already know what I think. ;)

shadows
08-05-2010, 11:50 PM
Well, I'm posing on my bf's weight set for one.
I think my feet are kinda ick
I'm more undressed than in any other photos I've ever posted - I men the top is all I have on... :eek:

That is true, but it's not like you are posing in a super-provocative manner either. Sometimes it isn't about how much clothing a person wears rather than where that clothing is situated.:)

And there is nothing wrong with your feet. LOL! I think my feet would cause people to quake in fear(darn steel-toed workboots:lol:), something I don't think you'll have to worry about.:eek:

All in all, good pictures.:respect:

Tsweet
08-06-2010, 07:40 AM
Very new pics... not wild about them, but whatev.

Hi Bionca, First of all I think you look absolutely beautiful in these pictures. Your very pretty face and gorgeous model body ... the weight set company should hire you for their advertising! (though who would be looking at the weights...?)

Aside from your wonderful looks though, in reading your comments in this forum and on your own blog we find out what a complete incredible woman you are!

Your transition obviously hasn't been a total "laugh riot" in dealing with issues along the way. But what a woman you have become! I for one am very glad that you grace us with your beauty, intelligence, dignity, and warm loving heart on this forum! :hug::respect:

marlowe
08-24-2010, 05:33 AM
Very new pics... not wild about them, but whatev.

I haven't been on the forum for a while so nice to see the recent pics you posted. Your bf is a very lucky guy - I mean having his own weight set, wow :)

Seriously, you're looking really gorgeous, so don't be too self critical (which I think sometimes you are).

Marlowe :hug:

Bionca
10-02-2010, 07:15 PM
A few pics from this summer at the beach. I'm not usually so tan, but.. I guess that's what happens.

Jennangelina
10-02-2010, 09:05 PM
Hey B you look so cute so awesum, luv your beach shoot, hope you had fun......sending you much love.

XOXO Jennangelina :hug: :heart: :kiss:

shadows
10-02-2010, 09:11 PM
A few pics from this summer at the beach. I'm not usually so tan, but.. I guess that's what happens.

Beautiful pictures as usual, Bionca.:)

It was almost impossible to not get tanned this past summer! It was sooooo hot out. We barely got any rain in my city(Southwestern Ontario), so I actually got some sun. I have a fair complexion, so I don't usually tan. This year I actually got some colour, which was a nice change of pace.

The sunburn I got on the backs of my legs whilst searhing for beach glass wasn't so nice. Yeeeouch! It was also quite irritating once I started peeling.:eek:

Bionca
10-02-2010, 09:46 PM
Thanks Jenn xx

shadows - oh wow it was really hot and sunny this year here too. That and I was hanging out with people who like to do stuff outside :/

shadows
10-02-2010, 09:58 PM
shadows - oh wow it was really hot and sunny this year here too. That and I was hanging out with people who like to do stuff outside :/

I think we had some local records broken with regards to temperature and lack of rain! My hose got quite the workout, that is for sure.

Due to unforseen circumstances with my job, I had a lot of free time in the summer(I still do, actually) so I would walk over to my parents house and the three of us would go walking for about an hour or so. We went to a small creek and walked along both sides of it. There were a lot of trees for cover, and about 5 different families of ducks that called it home. I also saw a turtle or two, and heard(but never saw) some bullfrogs. It was quite peaceful, and there was a nice breeze!

A few weeks ago, during a cool day in September, I decided to go for a walk at 3am. There was a fair wind that night, so the leaves were rustling quite fiercely and the branches of the dead trees(:() would click together(a little creepy at that time of night, to be honest:lol:). The clouds that I saw in the night sky, along with patches of stars, were amazing. It almost felt like I was on another world. I would spend moments just staring at the sky, watching as the bright white clouds shot across. It was really cool. I wish that I had a camera so I could have taken some pictures!

Sorry for the thread hijack, Bionca.:blush:

Bionca
10-02-2010, 10:25 PM
My hose got quite the workout, that is for sure.


I'm sure it did *wink*


Due to unforseen circumstances with my job, I had a lot of free time in the summer(I still do, actually) so I would walk over to my parents house and the three of us would go walking for about an hour or so. We went to a small creek and walked along both sides of it. There were a lot of trees for cover, and about 5 different families of ducks that called it home. I also saw a turtle or two, and heard(but never saw) some bullfrogs. It was quite peaceful, and there was a nice breeze!

A few weeks ago, during a cool day in September, I decided to go for a walk at 3am. There was a fair wind that night, so the leaves were rustling quite fiercely and the branches of the dead trees(:() would click together(a little creepy at that time of night, to be honest:lol:). The clouds that I saw in the night sky, along with patches of stars, were amazing. It almost felt like I was on another world. I would spend moments just staring at the sky, watching as the bright white clouds shot across. It was really cool. I wish that I had a camera so I could have taken some pictures!

Sorry for the thread hijack, Bionca.:blush:

This was absolutely lovely !!

smc
10-03-2010, 02:26 AM
A few pics from this summer at the beach. I'm not usually so tan, but.. I guess that's what happens.

It would be yet another injustice in the world if someone doesn't tell you, Bionca, each and every day, that you are smart and beautiful.

The Conquistador
10-08-2010, 10:02 PM
When the heck did this thread get moved here?!

Bionca, you could give most supermodels a run for their money!

shadows
10-15-2010, 09:25 PM
I'm sure it did *wink*

Heehee!:)

This was absolutely lovely !!

Thank you Bionca. I am glad that you enjoyed it.:hug:

shadows
10-15-2010, 09:26 PM
Darn. I still seem to have issues with separating quotes properly.:blush::lol:

guest
10-19-2010, 05:42 AM
Well, I'm posing on my bf's weight set for one.
I think my feet are kinda ick
I'm more undressed than in any other photos I've ever posted - I men the top is all I have on... :eek:

Fantastic pic. Like the whole loose top idea. Yr feet are :drool:

Best regards,

Dan

sosed
10-23-2010, 03:11 PM
Wow...Bionca, you are really beautiful. :yes: Don't underestimate yourself, you are beautiful and intelligent.

Joost
11-08-2010, 04:02 PM
wow Bionca, you're such a beautiful woman. I can't stop looking at your pics, especially the bikini ones. :drool: Great body, beautiful face. Love it, thanks for sharing.