How and where to meet a shemale

[flyguy44]

www.matets.com worked for me! Thanks to everyone for all of the great help here.

[Ryder143]

Thanx for the post...

its a valuable subject..

cheers..

[SheridynCD]

Hi does ant one know of a place in melbourne australia?

You will see a few on adultmatchmaker

Try to find some social network sites, look around whatever are your likes and preferences and get in touch. Be patient. Its the very same as with any other personal contact in this world. Then whenever you want to travel to the Philippines or doesnt matter where (maybe UK, no not definitely not Ireland Lol) meet her if you like each other. Dont forget to bring a gift For me it just happened out of the blue and to be honest, in the first instance I really thought its a girl and of course I did not mind about when she told me she is a ladyboy. Nothing more nice could have happend in my life then to meet her. Dont know if I can enter a link here. Better not. Dont wanna get kicked off as I like this site much.

[dsr]

great post, very informative. it is also interesting to note that many of the ladyboys in asia are well versed in the english language, which, of course, makes it easier for us guys here in the U.S. or other english speaking nations. hope that information is also helpful along with kelly's excellent post.

[SheridynCD]

Originally Posted by sexchannel

You will see a few on adultmatchmaker

Hi thankx will give it a look!

Originally Posted by SheridynCD

Hi thankx will give it a look!

no probs , all states seem to have some stunners , i think sydney has the best ?

[sceicco9000]

best place in the world to meet beautiful ladyboys is Thailand......

[spike_40]

What great assistance this will help me and I guess others that read and are true to their desires Many thanks

[TGKateHerts]

thailand is good

[TGKateHerts]

to meet ladyboys. we western tgirls don't stand much chance against them lol

[LadyBoyLive.com]

After 12 years in the Live Cam biz.... Im finally turning up a new site for some LB interaction.

[DSL]

anyone know of any shemale clubs or bars in Massachusetts area?.

[wildts81]

hello guys,

im may , shemale from jakarta.

iam 29, tall and slim, smooth fair skin, sexy lips and very very very feminim

i'd like to know guys who is mature, macho and TOP guys only.

sorry, im pre op but just consider i dont have "that thing" ok...
and i only like a guys who want to explore my "she" more than my "male" part.

[trannydate]

I found Tranny Date.com a few weeks ago and it has been good to me so far. I thinks its new so its growing but I like it.

Looking for a tgirl in Idaho somebody please help me out just moved to Idaho from Cali.

[PI_Monger]

There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

For us lucky enough to live in Asia, the hotspots are Pattaya, Bangkok and Manila. Thailand's famous ladyboy clubs are mostly on Walking Street and Soi 6 in Pattaya; Nana Plaza in Bangkok. Manila now has its first GRO barfine ladyboy bar on P.Burgos St in Makati called the Shampoo Bar. Korea and Japan are opening up more but its very expensive. Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by PI_Monger

There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

For us lucky enough to live in Asia, the hotspots are Pattaya, Bangkok and Manila. Thailand's famous ladyboy clubs are mostly on Walking Street and Soi 6 in Pattaya; Nana Plaza in Bangkok. Manila now has its first GRO barfine ladyboy bar on P.Burgos St in Makati called the Shampoo Bar. Korea and Japan are opening up more but its very expensive. Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

In San Diego there is Lips and the SRO Lounge, lots of TVs and TS. Khloe Hart used to work at Lips. :D

Originally Posted by PI_Monger

There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

I'll have to try that. Not sure Indiana's a good place to be--maybe it's time to revise my "Myspace" page!

Maybe a mistake to share personal info--I did it on here in good faith and something happened to make me change my profile info and pictures to something silly.

Thanks for the advice--I'd really like to meet someone!

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by randolph

In San Diego there is Lips and the SRO Lounge, lots of TVs and TS. Khloe Hart used to work at Lips. :D

Randolph! Are you in SD?

[randolph]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Randolph! Are you in SD?

No, but close.

Some reviews of Lips.
I love it!‎
Rated 5.0 out of 5.0 By Amy H. - insiderpages.com - Nov 17, 2008‎
I had the absolute best time here. The drinks are great, the food is great, the service is great and the show is absolutely hysterical! This is the place that everyone should visit at least one time...with an open mind! ...‎
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Lips is the "Ultimate in Drag Dining",...‎
By BrentS2965 - zagat.com - Aug 1, 2009‎
where the Boys are Men and so are the Girls! This is a place you go with your friends to get away from the world for a couple of hours. Turn off the cellphone, grab a drink and entree named after a famous drag queen, like RuPaul, and enjoy the show! Birthdays, Ladies Night out ...‎
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Frommer's Review‎
Rated 1.5 out of 5.0 By frommers.com - Jul 7, 2009‎
This drag revue supper club has a different show nightly, like Bitchy Bingo on Wednesday and celebrity impersonations on Thursday. Dinner seating is at 7pm Sunday and Tuesday through Thursday; weekends have two dinner seatings (6:30 and ...‎
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Mediocre, but Expensive Food - Okay...show.‎
Rated 2.0 out of 5.0 By Frances C. - insiderpages.com - Dec 19, 2008‎
Food is mediocre and expensive...actually, I didn't even like the food, but I ate it cuz I was so hungry... The service was nice though...I felt that they pressured you to buy drinks. Our waitress didn't really leave our table until we ...‎
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Count me in...‎
Rated 5.0 out of 5.0 By Candyce F. - insiderpages.com - Nov 8, 2008‎
This is a must see! All ages and orientations will LOVE this one. They have great food and a wildly entertaining show. Your in for a surprise if you don't know about it before you get there. It is a drag queen show. ...‎
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[JodieTs]

Try Eros or craigs list.
for a professional experience,

[ChefJayWalker]

but where can i meet some?

[mrtrebus]

What about Escorts in britain, the south east? any tips? Any reviews of particular escorts would be good or sites etc.
thanx

[pretty_ladyboy]

why is it everyone when talking about shemales always pertaining to sex...???

does anyone here care for shemale to be in serious relationship?

[ila]

Originally Posted by pretty_ladyboy

why is it everyone when talking about shemales always pertaining to sex...???

does anyone here care for shemale to be in serious relationship?

You will find many on here that want a serious relationship with a transwoman.

[shadows]

I agree with ila, there are some of us that would love to find ourselves in a relationship. Whether or not that happens is another thing, but we certainly aren't all here looking for some booty.

[MatchlessG9]

Came across a very good site
www.vicesisters.com
No need to join anything
Just select a country and then it asks you for a city.
I live in Indonesia and it came up with some very remote towns - Last night I checked a couple of the phone numbers given against the girls - they were real.
So if you live in an area, where you find it difficult to find a ladyboy - try the above site.

[virtualflower]

Does anyone have recommendations on where to meet working ladyboys in Bali?

[alix]

Originally Posted by BlueRaven88

ummmmmmmmmm everywhere? seriously dude just hit up Dragoncastle.net or TGPersonals.com and search for LB in philippines (on TGP you can search for city or keywords aswell i believe)

seriously asking where to find a ladyboy in the philippines is like asking where to find a muslim in australia (yeah the fucking cunts are everywhere now)

please , how ican meet ladyboy in sydney

[backstabber89]

Mates,there is a wondeful chatroom that i happened to visit n joined.
its name is
www[dot]tsgirlfriend[dot]com
I love it very much. If you love TS from ur heart you can be a member there.You cant chat there for just sex,of one night stand.
there you be banned if you say "s**m**le".
chat friendly...also u have to ask a member in the public chat whether or not he/she IM.never ask for asl also....
being an core TS admirer i love it....since i look for a TSgirlfriend.
all that u should need is to show R.E.S.P.E.C.T

[zanna54]

in italia the best trans on the word

[DocFeelGood]

Well guys, in a couple of weeks I am taking a vacation to Thailand and finally I will meet with a friend, she is a ladyboy, I will tell you how it went when I returned

[Enoch Root]

Where could one find a nice transsexual woman in Puerto Rico?

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by merelypink

you can try www.matets.com its a shemale dating site and its where i always hook up

Yes me too!

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Rachel

I joined that site and it seems I am the only TG in New Jersey. No GG women either. I guess I will have lots of male suitors then lol.

That is truly astonishing!

[smc]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

That is truly astonishing!

My god, Jodie, now that I've seen your new avatar you're the only shemale I ever want to meet!!!!!!!

[Enoch Root]

Anybody have any idea where one could meet a nice tgirl in Puerto Rico?

Originally Posted by zanna54

in italia the best trans on the word

I went to straight club in Rome the other week and at about 3am, 5 gorgeous t-girls come through the doors. I did a bit of arse pinching but my brother was there so I couldn't get away with any more. Hot girls they were.

Orchard towers in Singapore is one place. There are too many in Thailand to name. Patong was pretty good. Soi Crocodile. I live in London. Lots of places here such as Wayout, Trannyshack. And there are plenty of escorts if you want to pay. I would love a proper relationship.

[jigenbakuda]

I am getting comfortable enough in my love of transsexual women that I want to go out and start meeting them locally in my town (or maybe take a trip to another close by town...). But I'm not exactly sure how to proceed. I'm not big on paying for a relationship with anyone... But I'd still love to meet and befriend some transsexual ladies out there. But here lies the problem, I have absolutely no idea how to do this. I don't live in new york, las vegas, or LA, so transsexual ladies aren't as bountiful where I live.

But how do I go about discreetly inquiring in my area, about places that transsexual ladies frequent? So I start in gay bars, or should there be a transsexual union in my town or something? How do transsexual ladies in my area know to meet where ever they meet?

Basically I'm just trying to find out, how one finds out about the transsexual activities in their area.

[no1000]

Gay bars are a good place to start. I would actually try and find out what theme nights they have. They have have a drag or trans night etc. But yeah not a bad place to start looking.

[smc]

There is a Sticky thread on this topic: "How and where to meet a shemale." Your thread has been merged there. I suggest you look through that thread.

[tsfever]

If any one is traveling to Sao Paulo Brasil, a Great place to meet a latina TS is at a club called "Love Story" in the "Centro" Neighborhood... you can also try any little bar within a 5 block radius of there.

[JodieTs]

How do you actually get to meet a transsexual woman?

Most Transsexual women meet partners who know our history.
Maybe they knew us before we transitioned.
Maybe they ?read? us
Maybe through work, where gossip outed us.
Though we mostly meet though trans friendly spaces:
be it a tg forum /chat room,
trans club/bar,
or from a group of friends and friends of friends...where the suitor had the heads-up on our past,
or they used to date a friend of ours who is also a Transsexual woman...
And so on.

My man said the easiest way to date a Transsexual woman, is to interact with us on trans boards.
Post on areas of common interest. Avoid sex topics.
See if you click.
Assess which Transsexual women are slightly deranged
and which are very deranged
(Accept that to a degree we are all bonkers)
And private message anyone you find interesting.
Later, suggest phone / social contact.
If later, things move on to friendship and then romance,cool.
My man wooed me for six months after our first meeting before I relented.


Oh, be prepared to put lots of time and ? or $:
Think flights, hotels, food, car rental
Because of our rarity, you will probably have to put a lot of effort into travel and resulting costs.
My man lives 1400 miles from me,
Yep, he had to go that far just to meet for an afternoon, to see if we would be friends. He combined the trip with some work stuff.

[pretty_ladyboy]

^
very well said Jodiets... thats the things you must avoid, know, improve, portray, and keep in heart if you want to meet us.

and also the tsdating site i love that site too... too bad admin blocked ts from asia because they are only allowing ts located in US i think.

its very hard to find a guy who can risk everything for you... a guy who can sacrifice things just to be with you... maybe that guy is just a part of fairytale stories

[Trogdor]

How about Michigan? Finding a cutie, or a place to meet cuties over here makes finding a needle in a haystack look like child's play.

And ALL the dating sites have given me piss-poor results and so-called 'matches'. Dating Sites are made out of epic failure.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Trogdor

How about Michigan? Finding a cutie, or a place to meet cuties over here makes finding a needle in a haystack look like child's play.

And ALL the dating sites have given me piss-poor results and so-called 'matches'. Dating Sites are made out of epic failure.

Well. the truth is this:
If we look totally like any other woman, you will not know we are Ts
{cuties are only a small % of Ts women}

I never get taken to be anything other than a Day-1 woman,
which makes me totally invisible to potentially interested men.
I'm in a long tern relationship so that fact does not bother me either way. But if I was single I still wouldn't care. I want people to like me for the person I am, not because I have a penis.
A penis is a rubbish reason to date. Sure, its funny when I walk through my lounge, naked, on the wat to my shower, waving my penis up and down, making:woo woo woo noises.
It's even funny the second or third time...
But after then, you really need a lot more to base a relationship on.

Long term relationships....well a lot of my friends met their partners when they didn't quite look the way they do now. Didn't quite pass. Early days. Still some / a lot of their male past apparent.
Their male partners dated them for who they were not for the external appearance.
Would you date a recent transitioned trans woman if she occasionally had a 5? clock shadow...


Finally, I only know a few trans friends who go on trans dating sites.
They are there to EXCLUSIVELY date other trans....

The rest of us don't need to
or more importantly, don't want to meet a man who we perceive to be fixated about that part of our bodies we loath...

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Well. the truth is this:
If we look totally like any other woman, you will not know we are Ts
{cuties are only a small % of Ts women}

I never get taken to be anything other than a Day-1 woman,
which makes me totally invisible to potentially interested men.
I'm in a long tern relationship so that fact does not bother me either way. But if I was single I still wouldn't care. I want people to like me for the person I am, not because I have a penis.
A penis is a rubbish reason to date. Sure, its funny when I walk through my lounge, naked, on the wat to my shower, waving my penis up and down, making:woo woo woo noises.
It's even funny the second or third time...
But after then, you really need a lot more to base a relationship on.

Long term relationships....well a lot of my friends met their partners when they didn't quite look the way they do now. Didn't quite pass. Early days. Still some / a lot of their male past apparent.
Their male partners dated them for who they were not for the external appearance.
Would you date a recent transitioned trans woman if she occasionally had a 5? clock shadow...


Finally, I only know a few trans friends who go on trans dating sites.
They are there to EXCLUSIVELY date other trans....

The rest of us don't need to
or more importantly, don't want to meet a man who we perceive to be fixated about that part of our bodies we loath...

sorry, did not know wanting to be with an attractive person in arelationship was so evil and horrible. Did not realize how selfish I am.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Trogdor

sorry, did not know wanting to be with an attractive person in arelationship was so evil and horrible. Did not realize how selfish I am.

What's in it for your potential Ts date?
{She may be reading this}
You don't even have a face pic up and all you do is moan.
What would you bring to a relationship?

Interact on here and other boards.
Make FRIENDS only.
Remove dating from your mind.
Interact, and only consider more,
if there is a spark between you and hopefully a Ts.
Because you actually like each other
rather than because she is a "cutie" who has a penis.

If it is just the latter, no Ts would ever date you.
That is the reality
I apologise for being so evil and horrible for speaking the totally obvious truth.