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I am not gay, I do not like men at all. I DO like shemales, am I gay?
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Shemales aren't men, Ghost. I'm going to say you're not gay, just a guy.
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Thanks, I am just curious you know? It is like when I watch shemale porn it really turns me on and it takes me to a new level. I think it is because I have had a lot of sexual partners. Safe sex of course. I really love tits and cocks but only on girls. Gay sex does nothing for me. I really enjoy the look of a Strong buff dude banging the hell out of a shemale or a really hot girl but not another dude... damn I am confused. I have never experienced a shemale.
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I consider mysely female , Just because you like girls like me doesn't mean you're gay, Maybe you like us because we are a little differnt from your eveyday girl you know something new and a little extra, If you start dreaming about Brad Pitt then you should worry
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No, you're not gay for being attracted to trans-women. You may have slight bi-sexual tendencies, but not even that is given. I know quite a few gays - and never have I met one who would be the slightest attracted to a trans-woman. Gay-men are attracted to men, not women - and a trans-woman is, indeed, a woman. So relax and instead of worrying about labels do enjoy your new-found attraction. H
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Nooooo!!!!!!!!!! and who cares about labels anyway
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You are who you are, don't worry label yourself as anything!
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good question by the way... |
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Gay guys are attracted to masculinity. Straight guys are attracted to femininity.
If you wanted to be very strict about it, you could argue that gay means you're attracted to genetic guys and straight means you're attracted to genetic girls, but is that really reasonable? What if there was a drag queen that was 100% male but 100% passable as a female and you made out with her? Obviously that doesn't make you gay because you were attracted to the femininity and had no idea. Shemales are not male and not female, though. The female form is the the embodiment of beauty in a way that the male form isn't. Girls are very aware of this and accentuate their beauty, even if they're not attracted to other females. The penis is the embodiment of sexual power. Guys are very aware of this and obsess over penis size and construct phalli as a symbol of their power, even if they're not attracted to other guys. For many, shemales are the perfect fantasy. Guys know that girls aren't always that into them, or not all that into sex. Some girls are total nymphos, but it's more about their self-esteem problems than it is about the guy. Guys end up feeling like rapists who are supposed to feel bad about their sex drive. Sometimes you just have to say to a girl, "You've got issues, and my penis is not your therapist." But things are different with a shemale. Most guys just swoon when they see they've given a shemale a raging hardon. They know she is totally into him and can't think of anything else. Females are really the ones with all the sexual power. They usually dictate the terms of sex to men. In a way shemales flip that around. Guys become very addicted to the feeling of putting a tgirl into a fog of lust. I don't think there's anything gay about that, though. As hankhavelock said, gay guys are attracted to masculinity. I have a lot of wonderful gay friends. I wouldn't exactly say they treat me like a sister -- I mean, I've had gay guys kiss me pretty passionately, and I've had gay guys paw at me, too. But as a rule there's no real relationship potential there. They'd rather be with a man. Besides, why do you even care about labels? Gay or straight is a paradigm that doesn't take into account where most people actually are sexually, and it really isn't suitable for anything involving transgender people. |
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face it...your gay
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Face it ... yours is a useless contribution that reveals no genuine thought given to the question whatsoever, not to mention no evidence that you've read the extended discussions on this topic in other threads where people confront this question and offer meaningful advice to members who are genuinely struggling with their self-identity.
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As for Malibu515's so-called contribution : in my view it was contemptible, and I think smc said it all very pointedly. In short Malibu515's post was utterly worthless, and should merit a warning for time-wasting. ![]()
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He just wanted to up his post count by digging up a 4+ year old thread and demonstrating his lack of grammar skills.
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No you are not gay because you still like everything about a woman but you enjoy something a little different than others. It's not a bad thing at all.
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Seems you are just like me. I dont like men, but love a nice shemale. They are girls on the inside after all.
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No you are not gay if you like transwomen. There are a lot of places on here where this topic is discussed at length.
![]() But why are so many responding to a poster who's profile states "Last Activity: 11-24-2008 12:02 AM"? Hell I was still married to my first wife back then! ![]() Last edited by aw9725; 03-07-2013 at 03:20 PM. |
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Here's my question: why hasn't your first wife chimed in? ![]() |
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As for my "ex" you will just have to ask her--I'm sure she's a member. Or else her attorney... ![]() Last edited by aw9725; 03-07-2013 at 06:15 PM. |
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As for the other matter: I think you're right. Her attorney is a member here. He has "shark" as part of his user name. ![]() |
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Ordinarily, you are not a funny person; but this one brought more than a chuckle and a smile.
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I don't think you know me well enough to make such a blanket statement, but I understand that you couldn't leave well enough alone. Nevertheless, I'm glad whenever I can make someone smile.
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There seems to be a lot of concern over 'labelling' when it comes to the subject of dating transgendered individuals. I have been on many blogs devoted to the subject of dating Asian ladyboys, and it appears there are a large number of guys who are keen to explore this avenue, but are concerned about either what other people will think of them, and moreso what they will actually think of themselves.
Most guys who are ready to embark on a LB relationship are concerned with the 'gay' label. 'Does this mean I am gay?' they invariably ask. They are worried about their own sexuality, rather than embracing a new way of loving. Realistically, does it matter? I hope in this post to allay some of the fears being shown by guys unable to cross that final hurdle. A 'gay' person is one who is stimulated only by members of their own sex, whether they be male or female. A 'bisexual' person is one who can be stimulated by members of both sexes, and a 'heterosexual' or 'straight' person is one who is stimulated only by members of the opposite sex. So guys, if you previously have had only biological females as girlfriends but are wanting to experiment in the transgendered field, the odds are that you are 'straight, but with bisexual tendencies' - but do you really need or want this label to satisfy your own concerns? To further complicate matters, my experiences show there are three distinct categories of ladyboys. The first (which I have found to be in the minority, but will always stand corrected if it can be shown otherwise), are those who are the absolute examples of a 'female born in a male body'. Their main aim in life is to undergo a full sex change and to live life completely as a woman. Quite often they abhor their male genitalia, many are on chemical castration hormones, and have no interest in their penis other than for peeing out and the sooner they can change that the better. The second category are those who take on the role of a female, but have no intention of getting rid of their penis, but will act completely as a female. They do not wish to engage in sexual activities as a male, but will delight in penile stimulation. The third category are those as in Category 2, but will also delight in undertaking the role of a male lover, either with other males or in many cases with females. They are very proud of their male genitalia, although they too live as women. It could be argued therefore, that if your interest is in only Category 1 ladyboys, and you also have no interest in their male genitalia that you are 'straight', and that you are looking more for an emotionally leaning relationship with a ladyboy. That you would prefer your ladyboy to have all the characteristics of a female. This to me indicates you are 'straight' as defined by society. If your preference is for Category 3 ladyboys (which I unashamedly admit my girlfriend falls into) it could be argued that you are straight, but with strong bisexual tendencies. You may not know exactly where you fit until you have experienced the ladyboy dating scene. When I started dating ladyboys I had no intention of being in the category 3. It was introduced to me by my current girlfriend. You may find, as I have, that it adds a further dimension to your sex life. My advice is simple. Embrace your new lifestyle. If labels and 'what people will think' worries you to such a degree, then quite simply this lifestyle is not for you. Taking a ladyboy lover for a permanent relationship takes a lot of adjusting. It is a major change in your life, and many things have to be thought through. Do not look on your ladyboy lover as a sex toy. It is so much deeper than this, and you will find that she has emotional needs the same as any genetic girl will. It took me around 12-18 months into my now 4-year relationship to fully accept and commit to what I was doing. After a life of dating only genetic girls it was a big paradigm shift. However, the love I have found and the excitement of having such a wonderful relationship has left me in no doubt I have made the right choice. |
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I don't thinkshould you have stopped right here? you know me well enoughnor do I choose to. to make such a blanket statement, For you, blanket statements. For others, maybe a little pillow talk.
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Hello to everybody,and I want to ask you.I'm 38 years old,and are very much attracted Shemale,in my computer I only shemale pictures and movies,i watch with great pleasure.It all started at 18-19 years I never had an experience with a shemale and I would very much.Every time I revisit films and photos I want to be and I like them and this almost daily,are not attracted to men.Can you tell me what you happen to me?Wait for response.
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I agree with almost everyone. Preferring transgendered persons with penises instead of vaginas does not make you gay. The lines of gender and sexuality are so blurry and fluid that even the binary of heterosexual and homosexual with "bi" somewhere in the middle just doesn't do the world justice.
I think if you're attracted to someone, no matter what gender/sexuality, that's all that matters. And if you can find a lasting, loving, trusting, life-fulfilling relationship with someone you're attracted to sexually that just makes it all the better. That's not to say that there isn't a certain type of identity or culture that you can identify as "homosexual" or "heterosexual." I'm sure if you were attracted to what the majority of society and western culture identified as "male" and you identify as "male" then you can feel free to identify as "gay." But, I know plenty of people who identify as "male" and are attracted to "male" others (no matter what the plumbing looks like) that still don't associated with gay culture or identify as "gay." All these labels are socially constructed. If they work for you, great! If not, fuck it. I wish there was some way to embrace our attraction for transgender and transexual persons. But as it stands, the only label I know of is "tranny chaser" or other derogatory terms. Calling me a "tranny chaser" is as offense as calling a transgendered or transexual individual a "chick with a dick." She's a she (if that's how "she" identifies). Just like I'm a "he" (since that's what I identify as). I'm a "he" attracted to people who identify as "she." And if she has a penis then chances are I'm going to be as equally physically attracted to that person as if they had a vagina. End of story. ![]() |
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Man if you really like Tgirls then just roll with it. I saw some shemale porn vids a few times back when I was 14 or so and then didn't really see a few more until I was 17 or 18 and didn't really think much of it. Then by the time I was 20 I saw a few more and started to question what was going on but I found that I liked what I was seeing and didn't really give a crap after awhile.
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I've always thought this needs a sticky. It is a valid question, that should always be at the top of the list.
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Ok, thanks for the answer, but more and more I want to become a shemale, and that's the problem,in my country to talk to someone about it is a problem.We need a psychological counseling?.I am very confused.I ask for advice, you can make a hormone treatment, without medical assistance?Thank wait for response
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the men there are only going to be attracted to you. Does that help? ![]() |
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The first is sexual fantasy the second is gender dysphoria. Either way, if this is an urgent and continuous thought/need for you; 1. Go and talk to your doctor, or find a gender psychologist or gender councillor, or 2. Look up on Google: LGBT SUPPORT GROUPS + your country name & talk to them for contact numbers of professionals and local LGBT groups that may assist you |
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You can only answer that for yourself. For me, I've always considered myself female. I have always, thought, felt, ahhh pretty much everything female. I have always desired men, I know I'm not gay as being a female (mind, thought, words and actions) I want a man. I am a woman who desires a man, exclusively. My heart knows. You will one day know for yourself, once you truly know yourself and accept yourself. Are you a woman or a man? Are you transgender, crossdresser, transvestite (and the sub-categories go on)? You must know and decide for yourself. Don't be hard on yourself either. Some of us know instinctively and for some it takes research, learing ans soul searching. Be safe and be well.
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