Guys: What's your ideal outfit when (of if) you A) go out with your girl B) are in private with her?

[d332_dot_com]

Hi all.

This is a totally informal survey. I'm just curious. I looked through all the other posts and especially the photo threads here.

To all the guys (and maybe girls) when you are with your girl or girl of your dreams.

A) what would you like her to wear- ideally- when you are out in public with her?
B) when you two are alone?

It's two questions that has plagued me for years. My BF wants me to dress in somewhat sexy clothing in public (I dress like an old lady - think Angela from the US versions of the Office), and patterned-undies in private (I dress in solid black or white garters with stockings).

I try to ask my men friends who date girls, and they seem to hate garters and fishnets (I don't like fishnets either). All of my friends (including me) don't quite care for the slutty look.

Just wondered if some of you would rather pick sexy, or conservative (the more details the better). Personally I think sack kink and sexual imagination is more important than how you advertise yourself, but that's just me.

There's no right or wrong answers, so fire away. Thanks in advance!

cheers,
-P-

[TimS]

A) what would you like her to wear- ideally- when you are out in public with her?
B) when you two are alone?

Don't have any specific clothes, that I'd want her to wear.
As long as she feels comfortable in her clothes, I'm fine with it.

[d332_dot_com]

I should clarify that by "ideally" it could also include things that you like to see her in.

It seems to me there's a few default looks that many of us fall back on (either in public, or in private)....some include business suit, slutty with fishnets, goth, prim, etc.

I'm also curious to see if guys around here are more into a "fantasy" look or just average everyday look. Of course, there could be a big difference between when we're in public and when we're behind closed doors.

[smc]

It would depend on the circumstances, the most important being where we're going out to, for what purpose, why, etc.

But number one is what SHE is comfortable with. My opinion can only be my opinion; she gets the decision.

[LBadmirerer]

Since most Thai LBs are slim and sexy I like to see them in skin tight jeans, especially the well worn ones. For the bedroom synthetic shear thong panties. There is nothing sexier than seeing a LB in skimpy panties where you can imagine her bubble butt through them and can see her bulge through the front.

[d332_dot_com]

Originally Posted by smc

It would depend on the circumstances, the most important being where we're going out to, for what purpose, why, etc.

But number one is what SHE is comfortable with. My opinion can only be my opinion; she gets the decision.

I know comfort is obviously important, and I appreciate that you would leave the decision open to your mate.

I was asking because I also have an interest in semiotics and am an avid follower of fashion history, and I often ask why certain "outfits" crop up in the shemale/lb narrative. You know, schoolgirl, business woman, nuns. (I think these three are quite androgynous...schoolgirl hints at prepubescent flat chests, career women wear suits and bust balls, and nuns are chaste (well so they say) and bald.

[smc]

Originally Posted by d332_dot_com

I know comfort is obviously important, and I appreciate that you would leave the decision open to your mate.

I was asking because I also have an interest in semiotics and am an avid follower of fashion history, and I often ask why certain "outfits" crop up in the shemale/lb narrative. You know, schoolgirl, business woman, nuns. (I think these three are quite androgynous...schoolgirl hints at prepubescent flat chests, career women wear suits and bust balls, and nuns are chaste (well so they say) and bald.

I don't think the outfits you mention are unique to cropping up in the "shemale/lb" narrative. Schoolgirl, business woman, nun ... these are all common to pornography involving GGs as well. In fact, one could -- from a semiotics perspective -- point to the fact that they are common both to GGs and transwomen as kind of denotata of there being no gender distinction between the two.

[d332_dot_com]

Originally Posted by smc

I don't think the outfits you mention are unique to cropping up in the "shemale/lb" narrative. Schoolgirl, business woman, nun ... these are all common to pornography involving GGs as well. In fact, one could -- from a semiotics perspective -- point to the fact that they are common both to GGs and transwomen as kind of denotata of there being no gender distinction between the two.

See, what is interesting is that they are porn personas, instead of an individual style (or no style at all....just any girl). Porn is all encompassing (thank god...or BLEEP! in a bear suit). But it is funny how so many amateur transgirls and transart I see (on flickr for example) default immediately to one of the few "porn" personas, regardless of age. I don't want to read into it, but it does resonate with trans identity (to them) leaning more towards a sexual fetish. Again, nothing wrong with sex, only an observation of curiosity on my part....not an invitation to flame wars.

[The Conquistador]

I'd rather her dress with regards to the occasion. If it is a more formal event, then I wouldn't mind a dress and the whole 9 yards; Dress is usually dictated by the situation.

However, I for one would not mind if my special lady wanted to look a little sexy. The only thing I would be somewhat uncomfortable with is if she was being a bit ostentatious with her wear. Other than that, I really wouldn't care what she wore.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by d332_dot_com

All of my friends (including me) don't quite care for the slutty look.

I love the slutty look.

[rockabilly]

I'm a simple jeans and tshirt guy , but i love girls that wear glasses and have a goth or emo look.

And i have an appreciation for the Steampunk look.

That probably doesn't answer your question but as long as she's comfortable then i'm cool w/ whatever outfit she chooses.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

That probably doesn't answer your question but as long as she's comfortable then i'm cool w/ whatever outfit she chooses.

How about naughty schoolgirl?

[rockabilly]

Sure why not.