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08-13-2009
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#2
08-13-2009
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If by " Gay" you mean happy ... then yeah i'm gay because my gf makes me happy every day and night. And i love her , and really that is all that matters.
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#8
08-13-2009
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Interesting Question
I love looking at pictures and videos of tgilrs, shemales and even some crossdressers and it really turns me on
 . However pictures of gay sex do nothing for me at all. I would gladly fuck the arse off Joanna Jet, HAzel Tucker or any of the other beauties out there but doing it to a a 'bloke' doesn't interest me. Guess I'm not alone in that.
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#9
08-13-2009
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I love women and pretty shemales - not blokes in lipstick! If they are feminine then they give me the horn but I have never shagged a shemale and dont know if I could but would date one if `she` was a stunner- hairy arsed males make do nothing for me at all - I have a thing for nice asses and some of the shemales have amazing butts (just learnt to ignore the bollocks)
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#11
08-14-2009
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No but it really depends on what your attraction is towards a Transsexual. If you are just all about what's between her legs then it's possible. But if you are attracted to her femininity and everything about her then its a no.
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#12
08-15-2009
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Who knows!
Yes, no, maybe? Maybe we're just human, If something is unusual and exotic it's automatically interesting to us. We're curious creatures.
I'll go a step further, I don't have testicles. So technically I'm a eunuch. I look male, I act male, I consider myself straight but technically speaking, am I actually male. Chromosomally I am, but technically,medically, I'm a eunuch. So what am I like Sweden? Am I neutral? Does that mean I can go either way and it's not gay or lesbian or any other label? It's the same with shemales, the gender line is smudged, so who's to say whether it's straight or not? By the way, motorcycle accident, and I found this site looking for info, but found a whole lot more!
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#15
09-09-2009
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Why, ?? to want, to be with, or have, or whatever, its yes no matter what way you want to look at the question I did a lot of soul searching when I became interested and no matter what way I looked at it yes I am gay to want a my partner [when I find her] 
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#16
11-14-2009
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You may feel shame over your desire, I still do have a little shame too. Here's my take. I spent a bizzillion hours from 12-28 lusting after pussy. Dreaming of it, chasing it, spending untold amount of money for it. I've been a porn addict from the beginning. Even before I could get my hands on porn I was collecting pictures of lingerie models from the Sunday paper. I think kinky porn addicts tastes change over time. Big bust was my thing till my mid-20s, than I went to feet and leg fetish magazines. I think if you are submissive, like me, that also pulls you toward trannies in a strong way, because what is more dominating than a big hard cock. So I'm gay right? But then why do I desperately my fucking my busty Asian girlfriend, hearing her babble in Korean as I pound her tight pussy? So I'm bi? Maybe, but I think I'm just a kinky guy obsessed with Asian femininity. Life is too short. Revel in what you love. Let the small-minded folks bicker.
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#17
12-03-2009
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Who care, if you like chick with dick.
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#19
12-06-2009
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#21
06-06-2010
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No, it's not gay. Gay men like men. Shemales are women. Any hormones or surgery done is to enhance the true gender they are inside. Penis or not they are women. Gays wouldn't be interested in a woman trans or not.
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#22
06-18-2010
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I've been with post-op ladyboys but not pre-op.
I would think that the desire to be anally penetrated by your partner's penis is a strong indicator of gayness. That is the one activity where you cannot rely on the excuse of the female appearance of your partner.
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#24
06-19-2010
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I disagree. Now the fact is there is nothing wrong with being gay. I'm a supporter of gay rights and everything. But what you posted is not gay. It's a woman's cock. There's nothing gay about it. It's fun, kinky but not gay.
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#28
07-17-2010
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07-17-2010
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#30
07-18-2010
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no, you are gay because you like cock.
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#32
07-19-2010
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They also never specify why the author feels the way they do. Most likely it is only to get a reaction from the other members. When I first became aware of my attraction, the ?gay/straight? question was one of the reasons I started researching the Internet and visiting forums in the first place--to learn more about myself--at that time I was still married and couldn?t talk to my friends. Haven?t any of these new members read what any of us has posted? There?s some good stuff on here! I remember reading other posts on this forum long before I joined up and made my first post. There were some great posts by ila, Bionca, Hank H. and others that really helped me out. I also knew a little something about transgender individuals--not much--but even an idiot should realize that ?shemale? or ?tranny? or referring to a ?M2F? transsexual as a ?man? is offensive. Good heavens! Anyway? i gess I culd strt 2 post messags 4 U lik that BTW I think kely shor is HOT!!! i wud luv2 suk her cock!  U no I cant stay serius 4 2long! 
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#33
07-19-2010
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#34
07-23-2010
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{for starting this thread, which dehumanises us ts's & suggests we are fakes} "Yes that is a penis, & yes that does make you gay" ...carry on.
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#35
07-23-2010
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now ladies, being hypocrites just isn't sexy.
i'm a real person, and i'm ok with the fact that i like an occasional penis in my mouth. i'm also ok with the fact that sucking on another man's cock is considered gay sex, whether they have lipstick and fake tits or not. you can call it whatever you want, and "blah, blah, blah" about labels. you are just in denial, and putting me down for being honest. you can't hide in your own little universe forever.
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#36
07-23-2010
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More notable though, is that by not quoting any particular post, you render your opinion rather useless. Who is hiding in whose universe? All of us? Point to the specific post. As for the use of the word "considered" in your post. Everyone should keep in mind that just because something is "considered" to be something doesn't make it true. The world was once "considered" to be flat.
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#37
07-23-2010
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So you are saying that a transwoman is a man with “lipstick and fake tits”? Sounds like it to me. The members of this forum are the least of your problems… I don’t think that you will be able to hide in your own little universe forever. 
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#38
07-23-2010
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so now two men sucking each others dicks isn't gay sex? how delusional. then you want to imply that i'm the one who is being dishonest with myself? trust me, i'm the one dealing with the real world.
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#39
06-02-2009
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Why do I feel this way?
I don't know how to explain it. It's just that, everytime I see things related to transgenderism, or crossdressing. I just feel guilty with myself and, I wish I was 6 feet under.
I really like everything related to this world, but it's like I felt bad for liking this. I used to crossdress, and I was also planning to undergo a sex change therapy. But a lot of difficult situations got in my way, including things with my family, who found out my plans. It caused me a lot problems. Things have changed, So do I, or at least that's what they think, to not hurt the ones surrounding me. I though that, by leaving all those things behind, I could make a change in my life for better, because I felt that I was betraying my parents and friends but, now, I think it was just stupid. Everyday I wake up, I ask to myself "What if you would have decided to forget about those persons and pursue your dream?" To be honest I'm not happy, I can't even understand my purpose to stay alive, I just live for the heck of it, and for the hope of a better tomorrow. I can't get it. Why I can't stay firm to my decision? Why I feel that I'm just under a smokescreen that I have made for myself to hide my truth? I just think I'm betraying to myself but, I also feel that if I do it, that if I retake that way of life, I'll be betraying a lot of people, as well as a part of me. Last edited by crossingoceans; 06-02-2009 at 02:29 PM.
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#40
06-02-2009
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its a common problem among people who feel to change their birth sex...
Rules created by the society are so strange. i don't know why everyone around have to bother with what one feels about self .... why just they tend to their own business? Why do they have to add to the already existin problems of people who want to change their sex? Why they cant let them be what they want? afterall they arent causing any harm to others...... Why is shame associated with these things???? why people change their outlook on people if they change their sex or their sexual preference (same sex ) comes to light ??????? and we thought homo sapiens are social animals..... if this is social then being lonely is much better..... but again homo sapiens are emotional beings and cant let their loved ones be hurt by actions of their self....therefore tries to blend with the rules of the society to save their family from shame..... pondering on these drives them crazy.... but still they will stick to it.... to keep their family binded and save them from shame..... i dont know about the rest of the world but where i live the situation is very much like the way i have described above..... i feel choked and want to flee and let my loved ones know that i am doing well as they know me but lead a life hidden from them which satisfies me? but the thought of separation forever makes my heart cry.......... Sorry if i compounded ur problems but i very much feel like living in a cage.......
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#41
06-02-2009
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crossingoceans, you need more help than you will be able to get on this site. I urge you to see a qualified therapist. I realize that this will not be cheap, but at least you will get the help that you need and deserve. I would also urge you to do some research and checking so that you can find a therapist that you feel comfortable with.
Last edited by dauls; 07-23-2011 at 03:10 AM.
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#42
06-03-2009
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I do agree completely with Ila - take this seriously, get some support and move on from there. This forum is probably not the place to expect true guidance. Yes, a lot of good is going on here, but I doubt we have many pro-therapists on board.
From your posting it's not completely clear if you consider yourself a trans* (at least I was in doubt as to your point about this), but no matter what then you sound like a very good person with a problem you have to come to grips with. But you're undoubtedly completely ok! And all the hazzle you meet is based on stupidity and lack of empathy from your surroundings - and that is very common, sadly. Best wishes H
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#43
06-03-2009
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I agree with ila as well. I will say that I used to really struggle with trying to live-up to other people's expectations of what and who I should be. Ultimantely, its your life. Your opinion of yourself matters far more than anyone else's.
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#44
06-04-2009
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I'm in Total Agreement
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Last edited by dauls; 07-23-2011 at 03:10 AM.
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#45
06-11-2009
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with your needs and desires it is simply that society is by nature conformist and people will always take what appears to be the majority vote. Wherever you are remember you are completely free to live your life as you want to. You may lose the respect of others but if they can't respect you for who you really are then they are not worth knowing. Last edited by dauls; 07-23-2011 at 03:08 AM. Reason: fix quote
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#46
06-11-2009
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find someone to talk to about this
crossingoceans,
I too agree with the others that a therapist would be of great help. And, while you are searching for that help, you might try to clarify for yourself just exactly what it is that motivates you to crossdress or have an interest in being a transgender. JUst liking or wanting to do it is not in itself a reason. Oftentimes, writing something out or even speaking it, gives a clarity that just thinking about something doesn't. When you hear something spoken you get a better feeling of whether that which is said is on or off the track. Oftentimes, we talk ourselves into something that may not be what we really want. It is just a notion. I'm also uncertain of your motive and direction. What is it about crossdressing that you wish to persue it? Clothing, eroticism, femininity? What is it about transgender that appeals to you. That you could live as a female? Are your interests in life female oriented? Do you see yourself in a passive role with a male? Are you gay and seeking some way to get around something that you resist? You already know what your friends and family think about your idea? Imagine if you were a transgender? How would that lessen your problems? From reading the many posts here, I gather that just fulfilling a desire to be a transgender is just the beginning of problems that there will be in society at large. It will make relationships with all sorts of people difficult and different. Just ask any of the m2f posters here. People in all walks of life must compromise and happiness everyday isn't possible even for the most successful person in the world. Let's say you think of yourself as a woman. In that context, what is it that you would do? Is there any way that you could do that same thing and remain the person you are? Some people aren't cut out to be Babe Ruth or Joe Dimaggio but they can be successful at things related to their interest. A good coach , for example. Think about what it is that you are striving for in your new identity and see if that is not possible with some modification? You don't need to make instant decisions--take your time. Stay calm. Best wishes on your journey to self fulfillment. Last edited by dauls; 07-23-2011 at 03:08 AM.
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#47
06-15-2009
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crossingoceans
Hello hun xxx , ok first things first i was also in your position i felt guilty because of who i was and felt like i let everyone down who knew me as a man. Yet the more and more i dwelled on it the worse i became and yes suicidal, but what changed me was i started to spend time and talk to other people in my position and how they delt with things and in time and it didnt take too long i realised i was not the only person who was or had been through this. Ive never liked my male body sure i love everything female from clothes to lifestyle. I wanted so much to be accepted.. So finally i started to take hormones are seeing my doctor and i am now going to go the full way and have sex reasignment surgery. My father has taken along time to come around my mother and sister love it and people who have known me well if they didnt accept it and respect my wishes then they were not friends in the first place and i have retained alot of them most of them were pretty shocked and wow'd when they first saw me out at a club dressed as a women and that can make you feel fantastic. So dont feel guilty you only live once and its your life and live it how you want to truely never feel you have to be trapped.. talk ... and live life to the full. xxx Steph Last edited by dauls; 07-23-2011 at 03:08 AM.
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#48
06-17-2009
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Hello crossingoceans,
I must say I disagree with most of the posts here (except Steph). Well, firstly - happiness is NOT the purpose of life. Life's a lot easier when there is happiness around, but happiness is this illusion people keep trying to find, and when they do, it's transient. Please be happy, but when you're not, understand that life is about what you feel, even if it hurts really badly. Life is about survival. No matter how much the mind is upset, the body wants to live, and will do everything in its power for every precious breath. So respect your body. And if your body is turned on by things - respect that, because as long as you're not physically hurting anything else, as long as you respect the physical space of all other things, you are guiltless. People's minds are so fucked up, so morally up their own arses, so duplicitous, that to live your life trying to pacify their minds is crazy and not even remotely possible. Don't think for a minute that your actions will make or break your family's psychological well being. They are as, if not more (and I say that because you at least are aware of the conflicting feelings you face) f'd up than you. You may not have taken the actions you've imagined, because you may not be ready. So, indulge in your feelings. Get off on them. Meet people you want to meet, watch the porn you want to watch, and tell guilt to go arse fuck itself. But, before you change your life drastically, consider how good your life actually is. That you can eat, sleep, go to a movie...freely. Don't mess with that, appreciate it. Life will find you in time, make you whole and full, grow you and utilise you - so stay innocent, be simple, be unhappy when you're unhappy, and have fun when fun comes along. I wish you so well
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Here comes the feeling Last edited by dauls; 07-23-2011 at 03:08 AM.
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#49
06-17-2009
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From "The World As I See It": Quote:
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The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats … The living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects. -- Alfred Kinsey
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#50
10-04-2009
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The only way you won't like the trannies nowadays is if your gay..
No offense but, the trannies nowadays; look more and more like gg's. So I'm simply saying if a man, doesn't get horny after viewing one, on lets say "Shemale Yum" he might be considered gay.
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