Does liking shemales make you gay?

[aguy]

Originally Posted by Mrs Garrison

That or bisexual. I'd guess the majority of shemales and ladyboys are gay. Irrelevant really.

Bisexual means I like both men and women.

Tgirls are women trapped in a man body,not gay men!

At least that's what I think...

[oscartivo]

i got the same problem . but i like the shemale with tiny soft dick

[platocoot]

What other people think about me is none of my business....LOL

[siennagrace69]

The answer is ---does it really matter ??? If you enjoy a girl's cock as either a top or a bottom go for it and stop worrying about labels----what it really makes you is a hedonist.

[Redthirteen]

Some people say that a man is gay if he is sexually attracted to Shemales. The reason being that they have dicks, so to be attracted to someone with a dick is to be gay.

I would then say to these people that according to their warped logic a man would be straight if he were to be attracted to Buck Angel. The reason being that he has a pussy...

They would then realise how idiotic they really sound :D

[a9127]

Originally Posted by aw9725

When I first became aware of my feelings I asked myself if I was somehow “turning gay.” I had been married for about 10 years at the time and I never had been attracted to another man. If you read my profile and other posts you’ll see I played football all through college. Been around guys my whole life--never had sex with one or been attracted to what could be called “male characteristics.” Over the last two years or so I have done a lot of reflection on whether or not there had ever been any guy I could say I had been attracted to. I actually did think of a friend from my dorm that was somewhat “feminine” in his behavior (he was from California--not “feminine” of itself but unusual at a mid-west school like Purdue, had very long blond hair, blue eyes, shaved his body and legs, wore shorts and tight t-shirts a lot, fan of the RHPS, very smart too--God I’m getting hot thinking about him… ). What I remember is that most everyone in the dorm thought he was gay. I was probably his best friend and actually saved him from being thrown in the Wabash River by a few guys in our dorm that had it in for him. When you are a 6’4” defensive lineman that can bench over 500 for reps you can stop people from doing shit like that. Nuff said…

Anyway, I have always been accepting of gays and lesbians and naturally wondered that about myself. I currently have many friends who are gay and going back to when I was in high-school I had friends who were bodybuilders who were gay. But no, I’ve never had “those” kind of feelings for another man. Not that I would think it was bad or wrong--as I’ve said, if the right person came along...

…An interview from years ago with Kelly Shore is one of the things that really helped me to put it all together and accept myself for who I am. The thoughtful posts of people like ila, Fran, smc, Bionca, Jodie, Hank H., and many others helped too. I think it’s entirely natural to wonder about these things--I hope we can continue to talk about them here and support each other.

I wrote that a couple of years ago as “aw9725.” My only sexual experiences have been with ciswomen but I am (obviously) attracted to transwomen as well and if I weren’t married I would be actively looking for a relationship. There have been many questions posted on this site about whether this attraction “makes you gay” or not (I personally don’t believe so—it’s not that simple—but all of us do share an attraction to women with cocks) but I occasionally like to reflect on my own experiences growing up to see if there were ever any signs that I might have been attracted to another guy.

Anyway, I thought of another experience from the summer that I turned 12. There was a younger boy who lived down the street who used to really look up to me. He was 10 and now that I think about it, quite feminine although I didn’t really think about it a lot at the time. He was cute with long hair and freckles and much smaller than me. In fact the other kids used to call him a “f**” and a “girl” and stuff like that. Although not when I was around.

By 12 I was already over 6’ tall and had been lifting weights since I was around 8 or 9. I was always good at sports and had a dirt bike. Most people thought I was much older. What I remember is that this kid used to follow me around and somehow we became friends. I guess I felt “protective” of him and looking back realized I probably was attracted to him. Unlike me, he was not into contact sports or hard rock, or motorcycles but liked things like video games, pop music, shopping, and gardening. His mom drove us to the mall one time (the Somerset Collection in Troy, MI for those who are from around there). I never thought about much it until now but it seemed more like a “date” than hanging out with my guy friends. And he was very smart. Very “studious.” I always got good grades but couldn’t have cared less about studying or doing homework. (That would change when I got into graduate school however. LOL)

I taught him how to throw a baseball and shoot a basketball. And some basic stuff on how to defend himself. And I used to take him for rides on my dirt bike. He would sit on the back with his arms wrapped tight around me. His family was wealthy and his dad was always away on business. As was my dad much of the time. He used to come over to our house a lot. I remember one time that he came over to play videogames and my mom made us lunch. It was summer and he was wearing very short shorts. We were alone sitting close together on the couch and I remember getting a hard on. I had never had those kinds of feelings for another guy before and wasn’t sure what to do. At that time I had never even masturbated to orgasm let alone done anything else although I knew from Playboy, Penthouse, and my older guy friends about “sex.” But not much else. So nothing happened. But being around him I felt the way I did around girls. Also I wasn’t exactly sure how he felt. Maybe I was more like a “big brother” to him? I never told anyone about it. Besides we were only like 10 and 12!

After that summer we drifted apart. We remained friends through high-school where I became the “football star” while he found a place on the cross-country team (and set a school record). Both sports compete in the Fall and once during practice my senior year I remember seeing him wearing shorts and a cropped t-shirt and thinking he looked really “hot.” I know he came to some of my games and I always hoped he was watching when I scored a touchdown or made a tackle. But by then we were totally in different circles (high-school is like that sadly) and I had a girlfriend. We moved down here (Indiana) after I graduated from high-school and my friend and I lost contact. Like my dorm mate from college, I often think about him and wonder what might have been.

Incidentally these two friends were among the inspirations for the story "How I Met My Wife." A lot could have happened between college and now... what if somehow we were to run into each other? Although my "future wife" in that story is almost 10 years younger!

[waine80]

To me a TS is like a woman with a big clit, nothing more nothing less, so imo there's nothing gay about it.

[Luigi14]

I'm new to this site and to be honest I have zero experience with a lb. I too have a strong attraction to females with a cock. I don't find anything sexy about men. The cock needs to be on a feminine body. My fantasy is strictly bottom though. I don't know what to consider myself but I know what I like and what turns me on. Maybe someday I will get my lb experience.

[Trent Demarco]

I am not trying to be obnoxious to you in any way but it's basically old-world thinking, take it easy on yourself. We don't live an a black/white world and never really did through history. Shemales & hermaphrodites are as old as time. Some consider them the 3rd sex.

[JamieTS]

No it doesn't make you gay. If you are attracted to the femininity and the hair and makeup and the sexy hairless legs, smooth underarms and boobs without a hairy chest and the makeup, nail polish, emotions and so on then you are not gay. We are not men.

OK so I have a penis but it is small due to HRT. I have a bob but also an undercut even for my age. I have betty bangs and yes even for my age also. I have a penis but I am not a man.

Why do so many men question themselves over this subject? We or I do because I can't speak for all trans women, fully embrace my femininity. I am not a feminist. I just want to feel feminine. I just want be be treated like a woman. I have nothing to prove to anyone.

OK so I like men. Does that make me gay? I don't believe so because everything from emotional to psychological to presentation is female. Maybe even ultra feminine. With my exes I always got up early and showered and shaved. If he liked beauty in the morning then I would do my makeup and fix my hair even though I would have to shower again to wash my face and reapply my makeup and refix my hair again.

OK so we trans women a lot of time have to put out twice the effort to please our guys. We ughh...Want a man for the most part. I am bi but definitely lipstick lesbian or transbian.

We just want to be treated like any other woman. We want to feel special and cherished by you. so no None of YOU are gay. Actually in my opinion you are probably more secure in your masculinity than a lot of other men that trash us. I believe they trash us because they are scared of themselves because they find themselves attracted to us.

So no you are not gay. We have a little extra but that isn't what attracts you to us in the first place most if not all the time. It is our femininity and sensuality that attracts guys to us. So don't listen to the asses on Springer. They knew. They accepted a BJ anyway and then they act all surprised when the girl tells them. That is a piss poor excuse.

[urla048]

Hell No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ChrisTO]

Well as a new member of this board I can say that i'm a straight male though the idea of being with a shemale kind of intrigues me. In fact, over the last year or so i've found myself being turned on by shemales and I was starting to worry a bit but now i'm more comfortable with it. Part of that is why i've joined this forum. I've never told anyone about my feelings but it makes me happy and as long as I don't feel like i'm being judged than i'm cool with discussing all things shemale on a forum such as this.

Besides, it's all sex, love and happiness. So long as it isn't illegal I say do what makes you happy.

[Boner]

Originally Posted by ChrisTO

Well as a new member of this board I can say that i'm a straight male though the idea of being with a shemale kind of intrigues me. In fact, over the last year or so i've found myself being turned on by shemales and I was starting to worry a bit but now i'm more comfortable with it. Part of that is why i've joined this forum. I've never told anyone about my feelings but it makes me happy and as long as I don't feel like i'm being judged than i'm cool with discussing all things shemale on a forum such as this.

Besides, it's all sex, love and happiness. So long as it isn't illegal I say do what makes you happy.

I don't think anyone here is going to judge you for liking t-girls!

[JamieTS]

Originally Posted by ChrisTO

Well as a new member of this board I can say that i'm a straight male though the idea of being with a shemale kind of intrigues me. In fact, over the last year or so i've found myself being turned on by shemales and I was starting to worry a bit but now i'm more comfortable with it. Part of that is why i've joined this forum. I've never told anyone about my feelings but it makes me happy and as long as I don't feel like i'm being judged than i'm cool with discussing all things shemale on a forum such as this.

Besides, it's all sex, love and happiness. So long as it isn't illegal I say do what makes you happy.

Look. It isn't that rare. Being attracted to shemales is not uncommon. LOL it is way more common than you may think. I mean it probably isn't the genitalia you are attracted to but rather the femininity.

I can't and won't speak for everyone. But I cherish my femininity. I embrace it fully. I don't want to be your gender equal. I would rather be your gender complimentary. Does that make sense?

So let me try this again. For my guy I get up early and shave my legs and underarms and other places if he prefers. I fix my hair even though I may not do my makeup and definitely brush my teeth. But cactus legs? No he don't need to and probably don't want to feel or even see that. I love dressing girly and femme. I don't even go grocery shopping without makeup and I damn sure don't wear sweats to the store unless they are pink.

As for my first paragraph and it being way more common? Guys tend to have better legs than a lot of women. A lot of shoe advertisements you see with the sexy legs? Some of those legs are actually guys or shemales. I prefer being called a transwoman though but whatever.

So in short whoever you are attracted to is OK. We are in 2016 after all. So if you are gay then that is OK. If you are bi then that is OK too. If you are into trans women then that is fine too. To me you are totally straight because its the femininity you are attracted to and not the genitalia. I smell, I walk and a talk like a woman. Emotionally and psychologically I am a woman. I just have a penis that don't work like a guy's. Oh I can orgasm but not like you though.

Short answer, no it's not gay

[AHALOL]

most of the guys attracted to shemales are more staright on the scale than gay, researches say and that's how i feel.
if 10 is completely striaght and 0 gay, i would put myself on 8, attracted only to feminie but also transexuals

[a9127]

Yes. I’m sure it does. I've been a member here since 2009. Lately I’ve been picking up male prostitutes and bringing them home. My wife is getting worried…

[LoverofShemales]

I know some that are bi and gay but neither think she-males are hot. Are those that love shemales like us a whole different group and if so, what could we be called other than "Shemale Lovers"?

[hankhavelock]

We're probably as diverse as any one else. And remember, sexuality is a moving and dynamic thing. Tomorrow you may be attracted to ways that you find uninteresting today :-) But you're most likely not gay - certainly not if the term "gay" means "homosexual".

There may be a slight degree of bisexuality in being attracted to a transsexual woman - or there may not. It differs from person to person.

Just enjoy and be happy that you can find the beauty in a transsexual woman.

Peace!

H

[gunslinger1985]

You're definately not gay. I mean, I think for the most part we are attracted to a feminine person with a little something extra.

[Desperanto]

In Greece shemales call shemale lovers ''Balamos'' I don't know why

[nadyasaphira]

i think if you love shemales doesnt mean that your gay...

[Big_Willie]

Originally Posted by gunslinger1985

I mean, I think for the most part we are attracted to a feminine person with a little something extra.

I think so too.

[gordo]

Originally Posted by gunslinger1985

You're definately not gay.

You're definitely not straight either :D You have to be at least 30% on hetero----gay scale to love cocks. All the shemale lovers that think they're absolutely totally 100% not gay make me laugh.

[Show Me Love]

Originally Posted by LoverofShemales

what could we be called other than "Shemale Lovers"?

Fags
Thats how everyone gonna call you if they find out and you better be ready for that. But things going better on this subjects with every hour. We beta testing heterogay term right now
seriously i can't get why every heterogay ask on this forum 'am i gay?'. no one but you know the answer for sure

[sesame]

Its just that I dont want to sound hateful...
But sometimes, its so difficult to SHOW LOVE to some withered souls!

SMLove, cool off!
Here is an easy way--->

[twistedone]

So what if a person calls you a fag, of queer if your gay. Its only a shallow label that fails to show your true self.

Are you willing to let a label run your life? Are you willing to allow someone to judge you and abide by their judgment?

As I've said before, THIS is why I have so much respect for TGs, and TS. They are standing up against society's highly inaccurate judgment of them and are pursing their own happiness. Let them be an example for us all.

Originally Posted by Show Me Love

Fags
Thats how everyone gonna call you if they find out and you better be ready for that. But things going better on this subjects with every hour. We beta testing heterogay term right now
seriously i can't get why every heterogay ask on this forum 'am i gay?'. no one but you know the answer for sure

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Show Me Love

Fags
Thats how everyone gonna call you if they find out and you better be ready for that. But things going better on this subjects with every hour. We beta testing heterogay term right now
seriously i can't get why every heterogay ask on this forum 'am i gay?'. no one but you know the answer for sure

In all fairness, I've never been called a "fag" - in spite of the fact that I haven't exactly kept my love for transsexual women a secret :-) The closest I've ever been to such a label must have been when my first x-wife (upon me enthusiasticly elaborating on my new-found love) smilingly asked if I had turned gay at such an old age... :-)

[fvillon1]

I don't know if you're gay or not, but I don't consider myself to be gay and I love shemales. I would never fuck a man and I don't get turned on by them at all, in fact the thought of messing with a guy is disgusting to me.

[rocky_razors]

I love shemales, but iam not gay
i would never allow my arse to be penetrated that shit would scar me for life
but boy would i fuck the shit out of a shemale allanah starr/gia darling would be my dream

its mad i can bust a load watchin a tranny flick then go and watch a hetero porn flick and bust just as hard

.shemalesgetfucked.com----the shit!!!

[Dutch_88]

I like shemales... and girls... but not guys.
Would you consider me gay? Or heterosexual?
Or what? Part-sexual? :P

[t0st]

Originally Posted by Dutch_88

I like shemales... and girls... but not guys.
Would you consider me gay? Or heterosexual?
Or what? Part-sexual? :P

i also like shemales and girls but not guys.I have never had a cock up my ass,although i've been with a shemale only twice.

i consider myself strait,shemale lover even though i don't like putting labels on any one

[Show Me Love]

...better say cock-sucker?

U guys are killing me!
yall say ur stright most of u never seen any tgirl in person, but after reading forum for a day i feel like u going to suck anything w/ dick. i bet u would cum even on my pics if i get done some makeup couse i'm lookin better then good part of 'shemales' u'r hot about here.

how that could happen really?
i mean i like tgirls too even more i maybe will be the one too, but i'm very picky-choosy and sucking cock looks absolutely gay to me if u'r not a girl, tgirl or look like one. its kinda disgusting when i see such moments in porn - man giving a head. i would like to blow some cute tgirl though. thanks u can see youself when u do it(if there is no big mirrors there)

anyway how is stright guy could become shecock lover/sucker? especially destinationally?

[Bionca]

Probably best to let the guys answer this, but here is my observation...

Most guys see a woman they find attractive who has a penis. Something "clicks" for them and they explore this more. For most guys it starts as a purely sexual impulse and curiosity. For many guys it firmly stays that way.

For other guys, they develop an appreciation for the women of their coriosity. They become attracted not only to our physical bodies, but also to our strength, courage, and determination. They find that we posess an insight into what it is to be a MAN as well as an understanding of what it is to be a woman. The non-sexual "best of both worlds".

Pleasuring one's sexual partner is important. So, sucking on some "sheinis" seems elementary to the guys who want to date/sex-up a T-gal. They view the activity not as "sucking cock", but as making sure their girl has a good time too.

As far as the comments on how some of the gals look.. that's really not fair. People are attracted to what/who attracts them. One man's goddess is another man's fugly. So, you may see a "man in a dress" () where another man sees the perfect compliment to his particular taste.

Sexual expression is 100% beautiful all the time between consenting adults. Man/woman, woman/woman, man/man, man/trans, woman/trans, man/woman/trans/man/man/woman. Personally, I reserve "disgust" for pornographic depictons of rape. I may find particular "players" in a sex combo "disgusting" (Ron Jeremy), but the expression of the sex doesn't disgust me.

[ila]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Probably best to let the guys answer this, but here is my observation...

Most guys see a woman they find attractive who has a penis. Something "clicks" for them and they explore this more. For most guys it starts as a purely sexual impulse and curiosity. For many guys it firmly stays that way.

For other guys, they develop an appreciation for the women of their coriosity. They become attracted not only to our physical bodies, but also to our strength, courage, and determination. They find that we posess an insight into what it is to be a MAN as well as an understanding of what it is to be a woman. The non-sexual "best of both worlds".

Pleasuring one's sexual partner is important. So, sucking on some "sheinis" seems elementary to the guys who want to date/sex-up a T-gal. They view the activity not as "sucking cock", but as making sure their girl has a good time too.

As far as the comments on how some of the gals look.. that's really not fair. People are attracted to what/who attracts them. One man's goddess is another man's fugly. So, you may see a "man in a dress" () where another man sees the perfect compliment to his particular taste.

Sexual expression is 100% beautiful all the time between consenting adults. Man/woman, woman/woman, man/man, man/trans, woman/trans, man/woman/trans/man/man/woman. Personally, I reserve "disgust" for pornographic depictons of rape. I may find particular "players" in a sex combo "disgusting" (Ron Jeremy), but the expression of the sex doesn't disgust me.

Well said Bionca.

[cham]

Bionca,

What you've said sums up what many of us feel.

Cham

[Show Me Love]

ok, ok... she know all the answers but she is not a man who become t-lover so don't hides behind her, sysyadmins. yall post dozen of nasty dickaddicted screaming cumming messages and have nothing to say upfront?
there should be some difference between pleasuring your cute tgirl next to you and switch from straight to tranny porn and get into shedong dreams destinationally (virtually?). afterall, u know, dong is a dong. there is must be something serious to change your taste diametrically? isn't?

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

For other guys, they develop an appreciation for the women of their coriosity. They become attracted not only to our physical bodies, but also to our strength, courage, and determination. They find that we posess an insight into what it is to be a MAN as well as an understanding of what it is to be a woman. The non-sexual "best of both worlds".

This is also an excellent point, Bionca. It's not at all purely sexual. It's a matter of finding respect for people who are a little bit different in their views - to truly understand them - and then to let yourself go in your appreciation.

As mentioned in my message just above I really do feel an amazing warmth when being with even just my transsexual friends - it's not sexual and it may be based on aforesaid respect and appreciation of "another kind of beauty or personality or what ever".

To me it's a feeling that I've never before felt for cisgendered women (and I admit to having been a bit of a ladies man in my time). Transsexual women bring forward in me other and deeper emotions. That's a fact... could it have to do with the often bigger fragility and vulnerability in transsexual women? The fact that they often need protection from the big, cruel and not-understanfing world? Does that make transsexual women even more feminine than cisgendered women who today are emancipated and strong and running for president? I don't now - but transsexual femininity is in a class of its own...

And it's highly satisfactory :-)

Peace!

Hank

[Show Me Love]

well i'm not trying to insult anybody here
i'm pretty sure i'm still way more sexually mutated than most of you so i have virtually full tolerance for almost everything
yea, sometimes i could be offending, blame on me. mood breaks you know. i'm fighting myself. don't mind. i luv you all.
H, you definetly got talent expressing your thoughts. i think i'm going to print your posts and stack it on bright place. i can sign up your every post, lot of sense.
Justme, i can relate to what you say too
peace

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Show Me Love

well i'm not trying to insult anybody here
i'm pretty sure i'm still way more sexually mutated than most of you so i have virtually full tolerance for almost everything
yea, sometimes i could be offending, blame on me. mood breaks you know. i'm fighting myself. don't mind. i luv you all.
H, you definetly got talent expressing your thoughts. i think i'm going to print your posts and stack it on bright place. i can sign up your every post, lot of sense.
Justme, i can relate to what you say too
peace

We're here to share our personal thoughts and experiences - at least that's why I'm here. Don't worry about being offending - express your feelings as you have them. If people get offended that's their problem.

I've been an insider for three years and I find transsexuality extremely beautiful. It's the essence of "being who you are" and I find that totally fascinating. I'm completely open about who I am and about my love for transsexual women - however, I wonder how courageous I'd be if I were actually a transsexual myself. I understand the pain and all the hazzle, that's why the term "admirer" has a bit of meaning. Admiring people who have the guts to be whom they truly are in spite of all the evilness in a basicly heterosexual socalled democratic society.

So be proud of who you are!

Peace!

Hank

[mrtrebus]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Probably best to let the guys answer this, but here is my observation...

Most guys see a woman they find attractive who has a penis. Something "clicks" for them and they explore this more. For most guys it starts as a purely sexual impulse and curiosity. For many guys it firmly stays that way.

For other guys, they develop an appreciation for the women of their coriosity. They become attracted not only to our physical bodies, but also to our strength, courage, and determination. They find that we posess an insight into what it is to be a MAN as well as an understanding of what it is to be a woman. The non-sexual "best of both worlds".

Pleasuring one's sexual partner is important. So, sucking on some "sheinis" seems elementary to the guys who want to date/sex-up a T-gal. They view the activity not as "sucking cock", but as making sure their girl has a good time too.

As far as the comments on how some of the gals look.. that's really not fair. People are attracted to what/who attracts them. One man's goddess is another man's fugly. So, you may see a "man in a dress" () where another man sees the perfect compliment to his particular taste.

Sexual expression is 100% beautiful all the time between consenting adults. Man/woman, woman/woman, man/man, man/trans, woman/trans, man/woman/trans/man/man/woman. Personally, I reserve "disgust" for pornographic depictons of rape. I may find particular "players" in a sex combo "disgusting" (Ron Jeremy), but the expression of the sex doesn't disgust me.

Wonderfully put. I am new to this forum & that sums up my feelings better than I could haved wrote.

[sulka]

For me a shemale/transsexual girl represent the ideal woman.They use be more feminine and sexy than manny real women these days.

Interesting to see how old these posts are! I remember reading Bionca’s response to “ShowMeLove” long before I was a member here and I thought what she said was right on. I know that it helped me to better understand my own feelings and what I was going through in my life at the time.

We are about to enter a new decade--hopefully this will at last be the start of the “21st century.” The last two centuries have been largely about physical, mechanical, and electronic discoveries. Human beings are amazingly complex and we are only just beginning to understand some of the events that occur as we develop. I have always believed that our next real breakthroughs will occur as we look inward. The Human Genome project was just the start.

I have only been aware of my attraction to trans women for about two or three years now. Although “open minded” I too have gone through the same questioning of my sexuality that others have gone through. I read the posts in the “If U Like Shemales R U Gay?” thread and find myself hoping that these individuals will come to understand their feelings just as I have mine and realize that the beautiful “shemales” they are attracted to are indeed women--as are their trans co-workers or friends. Is it really so hard to accept that a person could be born female and yet have external male genitals or vice versa? Science is only now learning what goes on during those nine months and I believe that someday we will come to a more enlightened view of human sexuality and not be so quick to place labels on who or what we are.

As the year ends I find myself doing quite well; I have a terrific career, a beautiful new ladyfriend, and of course my many new friends on this forum with whom I have been able to share something very special.

Happy New Year to all!

[ila]

Originally Posted by Show Me Love

...better say cock-sucker?

U guys are killing me!
yall say ur stright most of u never seen any tgirl in person, but after reading forum for a day i feel like u going to suck anything w/ dick. i bet u would cum even on my pics if i get done some makeup couse i'm lookin better then good part of 'shemales' u'r hot about here.

how that could happen really?
i mean i like tgirls too even more i maybe will be the one too, but i'm very picky-choosy and sucking cock looks absolutely gay to me if u'r not a girl, tgirl or look like one. its kinda disgusting when i see such moments in porn - man giving a head. i would like to blow some cute tgirl though. thanks u can see youself when u do it(if there is no big mirrors there)

anyway how is stright guy could become shecock lover/sucker? especially destinationally?

I'm not really sure why you are even here on the web site. You attack everyone's views and the comments they make. You don't like the fact that men like tgirls or want to have sex with them. Maybe you would find yourself happier and better off if you didn't come here at all.

[lopey]

Originally Posted by ila

I'm not really sure why you are even here on the web site. You attack everyone's views and the comments they make. You don't like the fact that men like tgirls or want to have sex with them. Maybe you would find yourself happier and better off if you didn't come here at all.

Have to agree with this and with Bionca wholeheartedly.

if you're not TOO dim, think about why the 'rainbow' is such a fitting symbol. A spectrum of interests, desires, accepting them is the key, even if it isn't exactly your bag.

[Justme]

Bionca has explained things pretty well, but I might as well add my two cents.

To me, it started out of pure curiosity. I was like 16, just got the internet, had to look at porn you know. I came across the word "shemale" and got curious. I had a pretty good idea what to expect but you never know. I looked at the site, had a very beautiful lady..picture was loading (on dial up) she had awesome boobs too...then BAM, a huge hard cock.

I was like OH SHIT and closed it out. Later on however (like most teens I'm sure) I began to wonder about sex with another guy. Thing is though, I wasn't and still am not attracted to the male body. What I mean is I don't look at a guy and say "Wow, he's cute!" like I do with women. To this day I still don't...no, I'm not in denial or anything, I consider myself as bi as one can get and don't mind admitting I like cock. I just don't like the male body, I dig femininity. Smooth skin, hardly any or no hair at all; not huge muscles, sweat and body hair (I know, it's a generalization and there are very feminine boys out there, but bare with me). That being said, tgirls are my escape, they are the perfect way for me to have what I love. A feminine body but yet the extra tool that's always fun.

It's not all about sex either though. I believe it was someone on this site that mentioned tgirls know all about men, they grew up in the locker room with us! So, on an intellectual level I feel they really understand guys a bit better than a gg...which is sometimes good, sometimes bad, but that's part of the adventure. I just feel I can relate a little more with a tgirl...and after all, relationships are based around that very thing. Don't get me wrong, I still date ggs like always, mainly because there isn't an abundance of tgirls in my area, but one day I hope to experience something with 'a girl with a boys toy.'

- Ok there's my two cents, hope it made sense

Originally Posted by ila

I'm not really sure why you are even here on the web site. You attack everyone's views and the comments they make. You don't like the fact that men like tgirls or want to have sex with them. Maybe you would find yourself happier and better off if you didn't come here at all.

I agree with this so much, I haven't been here long, but all I ever see Showmelove post are flames. It isn't my place to tell you to leave if you don't like it here, but you might find yourself a little better off if you did. Honestly, I don't think anyone here is *too* interested in hearing why we shouldn't like tgirls, we're here to discuss why we like them .

[hankhavelock]

The fact is that there are still no known psychological explanations of why people are homosexual, transsexual, straight, sadomasochists etc. etc. But we still are!

And we certainly should learn to enjoy it a lot more :-) Well, I do :-)

I've learned that sexuality is a dynamic thing that leads us many places.

All I know is that from the first time I was made aware of transsexual women I felt strangely attracted. I had this almost deep and warm feeling. Not purely sexual, actually - it went beyond that.

How ever, it took years before I actually acted on this attraction. But once I finally did I truly opened up a part of myself that I'll claim to be one of the most important steps in getting to know myself better.

My personal belief is, that there may be some part of bisexuality in it, but I'm just speculating. Because no matter how erect and beautiful her penis is, I simply cannot view her organ as a male-organ. In other words, a penis on a transsexual woman becomes a highly feminine "attribute" to me. There's NOTHING masculine about my transsexual gf with a hard on - in fact, there's nothing more FEMININE...

On the other hand I have turned more "gay" after my intro to trans-women. Would I then like to have sex with Brad Pitt? Not at all. But my explanation may be that (again I'm merely speculating) after my "discovery" that a penis is no longer just a male-symbol but to me as much a female-symbol, this has opened up further possibilities :-)

I don't know and I may be rambling, but the issue is that to me it's been a wonderful journey - and one that seems to be on-going.

So simply enjoy it, every body! I for sure do...

Peace!

Hank

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Justme

Bionca has explained things pretty well, but I might as well add my two cents.

To me, it started out of pure curiosity. I was like 16, just got the internet, had to look at porn you know. I came across the word "shemale" and got curious. I had a pretty good idea what to expect but you never know. I looked at the site, had a very beautiful lady..picture was loading (on dial up) she had awesome boobs too...then BAM, a huge hard cock.

I was like OH SHIT and closed it out. Later on however (like most teens I'm sure) I began to wonder about sex with another guy. Thing is though, I wasn't and still am not attracted to the male body. What I mean is I don't look at a guy and say "Wow, he's cute!" like I do with women. To this day I still don't...no, I'm not in denial or anything, I consider myself as bi as one can get and don't mind admitting I like cock. I just don't like the male body, I dig femininity. Smooth skin, hardly any or no hair at all; not huge muscles, sweat and body hair (I know, it's a generalization and there are very feminine boys out there, but bare with me). That being said, tgirls are my escape, they are the perfect way for me to have what I love. A feminine body but yet the extra tool that's always fun.

It's not all about sex either though. I believe it was someone on this site that mentioned tgirls know all about men, they grew up in the locker room with us! So, on an intellectual level I feel they really understand guys a bit better than a gg...which is sometimes good, sometimes bad, but that's part of the adventure. I just feel I can relate a little more with a tgirl...and after all, relationships are based around that very thing. Don't get me wrong, I still date ggs like always, mainly because there isn't an abundance of tgirls in my area, but one day I hope to experience something with 'a girl with a boys toy.'

- Ok there's my two cents, hope it made sense

I agree with this so much, I haven't been here long, but all I ever see Showmelove post are flames. It isn't my place to tell you to leave if you don't like it here, but you might find yourself a little better off if you did. Honestly, I don't think anyone here is *too* interested in hearing why we shouldn't like tgirls, we're here to discuss why we like them .

Hope you get a chance to experience love with a nice transsexual woman. If you have the drive inside you, then you must act on it. Easy for me to say because I've already done it (and live in a place where it's much easier to actually FIND transsexual women), but do it, pal!

It's very rare now that I'm with a gg - it happens but I seem to find myself in a situation where I ask myself: "Hmmm - and why was it I did this?" When I'm with a transsexual lover I'm truly "at home". Maybe you will feel the same way!

Peace!

Hank

[indian_shemale_lover]

For me the process started with a fetish for anal sex. In MF porn I mean. Then kinda got bored of it, so decided to try kinkier stuff-A2M and rimming. One heavenly day while looking at some rimming pics I glanced upon a shemale being rimmed. With that cock of hers erect in full glory and the guy with a raging hard on too, something clicked in my head. Its been two glorious years of whacking off to erect ladyboy cocks. My fetish is to one day lick of my anal juices off my shemale lover's cock and to look deep into her eyes while doing it.....
Sigh when will the day come?

[practicename]

I started looking at shemales when some friends played a prank on me and left shemale porn on my computer. I saw the images and pretended to be in disguist but really enjoyed the images. My love for shemales is a mix of what everyone else has already said.

On a non sexual level, shemales use to be male, so they have some of the tougher characteristics of males - yet also the grace and sensetivity of women. Intellectually knowing what men want to is a HUGE bonus.

I also cannot deny I like cock. I've been hit on by some gay men, one of them very feminine, but have turned all of them down. I live in an area that probably has little to no shemales. My ultimate dream, even though I'm with a gg, is to find a shemale to be with.

So as the cliche goes, I love shemales cause they are the best of both worlds.