How and where to meet a shemale

[john90640]

It seems like a lot of the info online is old and out of date for Los Angeles and Southern California.

[Tiffanydoll]

in toronto there is a club called Goodhandys and every Thirsday night a night dedicated to Shemales.

Its on church st right in the downtown area buy the eatons center

they have lap dances there where the no touch rule doesnt apply lets just say the first time i got one i was more then surprised and god a mouth full.

[EnglishMaster]

Makes me wish I lived in Canada!

But still... any help for Virginia? Anyone?

[mikey r 63]

Anybody have any answers in San Diego?

[crazyphone]

have you guys tried looking at erosguide for shemales.

[cameo]

how do i meet a shemale in NY? email me at dr_feelgood420dw@yahoomail.com

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by cameo

how do i meet a shemale in NY? email me at dr_feelgood420dw@yahoomail.com

Go to NYC spin around a random number of time and open your eyes and toss a dead cat. The who who gets hit is a tranny.. it's that easy.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Go to NYC spin around a random number of time and open your eyes and toss a dead cat. The who who gets hit is a tranny.. it's that easy.

Nooo, honey... no need for any relics... just TRULY close ur eyes and open them again with a better mindset... that will make it happen! In the end it's all about making a decision with yourself: No more bullshit, no more frustrated nights thinking about what my "fellow man" will think (never had a single one) - just DO it! And then reap the fruits of your decision - and be man enuff to laugh the idiots away... simple... and very easy! Nothing is easier, as I've preached again and again and again... so throw no relics, but DO throw some light on urself as a guy who feels ready for a transsexual girlfriend. And that light should give you an honest view of how ready you are - it's really NOT dangerous! Only a bit... the funky way :-)

[marlowe]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Go to NYC spin around a random number of time and open your eyes and toss a dead cat. The who who gets hit is a tranny.. it's that easy.

Ouch!

um... gotta lengthen this message.....

[Bionca]

There are just so many Trans women in NY, particularly in the the city. It seriously wouldn't be hard to find one.

[sesame]

Hank:

In the end it's all about making a decision with yourself: No more bullshit, no more frustrated nights thinking about what my "fellow man" will think (never had a single one) - just DO it! And then reap the fruits of your decision - and be man enuff to laugh the idiots away... simple... and very easy! Nothing is easier

You have said the deepest thing in the easiest way.

I'm inspired. I will use this emotion in a creative way in my life. Thank you, Hank.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

There are just so many Trans women in NY, particularly in the the city. It seriously wouldn't be hard to find one.

I forget if I gave this link before, but here it is:

http://www.myspace.com/transnightlife

It's hosted by a good friend of mine, Solena, an Indonesian transsexual woman now living in NYC, and they have weekly gatherings as I understand it.

H

[viper3250]

thank you for the information, it was a big help

[silkxxx]

i was just looking through and wanted to take the opportunity to advertise my site if ever there are people coming in the philippines who might want to date a passable ladyboy/ts my name is silk and my site is www.silk.net.ms

[lemari_dela_tfemme]

While living in Mexico DF, a freindly place, which was frequented by many local tgirls was: HYSTERIA DISCO (http://www.hysteriadisco.com/)
Regards,
LeMari...

[sceicco9000]

best place in the world to meet beautiful ladyboys is Thailand......

[DSL]

anyone know of any shemale clubs or bars in Massachusetts area?.

Looking for a tgirl in Idaho somebody please help me out just moved to Idaho from Cali.

[PI_Monger]

There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

For us lucky enough to live in Asia, the hotspots are Pattaya, Bangkok and Manila. Thailand's famous ladyboy clubs are mostly on Walking Street and Soi 6 in Pattaya; Nana Plaza in Bangkok. Manila now has its first GRO barfine ladyboy bar on P.Burgos St in Makati called the Shampoo Bar. Korea and Japan are opening up more but its very expensive. Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by PI_Monger

There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

For us lucky enough to live in Asia, the hotspots are Pattaya, Bangkok and Manila. Thailand's famous ladyboy clubs are mostly on Walking Street and Soi 6 in Pattaya; Nana Plaza in Bangkok. Manila now has its first GRO barfine ladyboy bar on P.Burgos St in Makati called the Shampoo Bar. Korea and Japan are opening up more but its very expensive. Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

In San Diego there is Lips and the SRO Lounge, lots of TVs and TS. Khloe Hart used to work at Lips. :D

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by randolph

In San Diego there is Lips and the SRO Lounge, lots of TVs and TS. Khloe Hart used to work at Lips. :D

Randolph! Are you in SD?

[randolph]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Randolph! Are you in SD?

No, but close.

Some reviews of Lips.
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Rated 1.5 out of 5.0 By frommers.com - Jul 7, 2009‎
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Originally Posted by PI_Monger

There might be exceptions, but generally in Europe and the US there are not TS clubs like there are in Asia. You best bet in the less-enlightened West is to use dating sites like ts-dating, date in asia, tgpersonals, tagged or even myspace to find a ladyboy in your area. If you're not into the online scene, then your best chance is to frequent a few gay clubs in your area and ask the bartender if TS hangout there. Usually they do because they have nowhere else to go. If not, they can usually point you in the right direction.

I'll have to try that. Not sure Indiana's a good place to be--maybe it's time to revise my "Myspace" page!

Maybe a mistake to share personal info--I did it on here in good faith and something happened to make me change my profile info and pictures to something silly.

Thanks for the advice--I'd really like to meet someone!

[Tommekeh]

Originally Posted by PI_Monger

Currently I'd say Korea is better due to the fact that Itaewon in Seoul now has about 12 ladyboy bars. I travel extensively throughout Asia so if anyone wants more info on Thailand, the PI, Japan or Korea just let me know.

Hi, I'm traveling to Seoul in june and was wondering where to find these ladyboy bars.

Tom

[JodieTs]

Try Eros or craigs list.
for a professional experience,

[jigenbakuda]

I am getting comfortable enough in my love of transsexual women that I want to go out and start meeting them locally in my town (or maybe take a trip to another close by town...). But I'm not exactly sure how to proceed. I'm not big on paying for a relationship with anyone... But I'd still love to meet and befriend some transsexual ladies out there. But here lies the problem, I have absolutely no idea how to do this. I don't live in new york, las vegas, or LA, so transsexual ladies aren't as bountiful where I live.

But how do I go about discreetly inquiring in my area, about places that transsexual ladies frequent? So I start in gay bars, or should there be a transsexual union in my town or something? How do transsexual ladies in my area know to meet where ever they meet?

Basically I'm just trying to find out, how one finds out about the transsexual activities in their area.

[no1000]

Gay bars are a good place to start. I would actually try and find out what theme nights they have. They have have a drag or trans night etc. But yeah not a bad place to start looking.

[smc]

There is a Sticky thread on this topic: "How and where to meet a shemale." Your thread has been merged there. I suggest you look through that thread.

[tsfever]

If any one is traveling to Sao Paulo Brasil, a Great place to meet a latina TS is at a club called "Love Story" in the "Centro" Neighborhood... you can also try any little bar within a 5 block radius of there.

[JodieTs]

How do you actually get to meet a transsexual woman?

Most Transsexual women meet partners who know our history.
Maybe they knew us before we transitioned.
Maybe they ?read? us
Maybe through work, where gossip outed us.
Though we mostly meet though trans friendly spaces:
be it a tg forum /chat room,
trans club/bar,
or from a group of friends and friends of friends...where the suitor had the heads-up on our past,
or they used to date a friend of ours who is also a Transsexual woman...
And so on.

My man said the easiest way to date a Transsexual woman, is to interact with us on trans boards.
Post on areas of common interest. Avoid sex topics.
See if you click.
Assess which Transsexual women are slightly deranged
and which are very deranged
(Accept that to a degree we are all bonkers)
And private message anyone you find interesting.
Later, suggest phone / social contact.
If later, things move on to friendship and then romance,cool.
My man wooed me for six months after our first meeting before I relented.


Oh, be prepared to put lots of time and ? or $:
Think flights, hotels, food, car rental
Because of our rarity, you will probably have to put a lot of effort into travel and resulting costs.
My man lives 1400 miles from me,
Yep, he had to go that far just to meet for an afternoon, to see if we would be friends. He combined the trip with some work stuff.

[straightguy4fun]

hi, What about Lady boys in Sydney.. I found it really hard.

[ross]

Originally Posted by straightguy4fun

hi, What about Lady boys in Sydney.. I found it really hard.

someone said the taxi club in sydney- no real site specific to australia- the onky ones i have found related to escorts- there is a social website called tagged bit like facebook lots of ladyboys on this site its free to change and you can look at the pics of the people and then click on friend request and send a message to them and start conversing- most are very genuine looking for ltr's

tagged.com

[me4ladyboy]

finding a ladyboy depends on if you are just looking for a good time or looking for friend and relationship. I have exclusively dated ladyboys for many years now and been in a 3 year relationship with one. But, many ladyboys you meet on line have been lied to by so many guys, they don't trust easily.

Be honest about what you are looking for. If you are looking for sex, be honest about that. Don't play games. Ladyboys are human beings with hopes and dreams just like everyone else. They laugh and they cry. They are not toys to be played with and tossed aside. Many had had difficult times and deal with prejudice and discrimination.

If you treat a ladyboy like a human being and a girlfriend, in return you will find someone with a great heart and soul. She will love you like no genetic girl ever could. But, if you meet one on line, talk about other things besides sex and asking her to get naked on cam. they have all heard that a million times before and, if you like her, that's a sure fire way to scare her off.

If all you want is "fun" and you are in Asia, find a ladyboy bar and bar fine one. Does not matter if you are in Korea, Japan, Thailand or Philippines, there are lady boy bars. But, in Korea and Japan, most are recruited from the Philippines, they are not Japanese.

If you don't ever plan to meet in person, don't lie and tell her you will. If all you want is an on line relationship, be honest about it.

[madelineash]

I actually met my current girlfriend on the cam website i use. We met each other over 2 years ago and have been happily together since. There's no better feeling than being in love with another tgirl.

[davideblaine]

ok heres the deal, me and my girl have this desired fantasy, we both agree on this. as of now we are looking for 2 trans partners. hopefully near Houston Texas. For details please PM me. i think it would be an enjoyable exp for all involved.


i want to make it clear that these 2 partners, i hope will become a casual part of the adventures taken by me and my girl.

[optimusmike123]

essex/uk anyone?

[stephanie4life]

If you're in louisville, ky you can meet me, ill buy you a coke.

[al_wien]

some idea where to meet shemales in Vienna, Austria?

[Aussie]

hi, soon il be traveling to Bali and want to hook up with a nice hot L/B with a nice cock, where can I find them?
iv been to Phili and there are thousands of them walking the streets,,
I looked on meetladyboy dot kom, but is there another way or place I can find a beautiful Balinese ladyboy with a nice big cock?

[T0mmy92]

Hi Hank, do you know any bars in Adelaide that Tgirls go to?

[hankhavelock]

Not aware of any bars in Adelaide - but again, check out some of the many links to different dating sites here in this thread.

[zoomrolf]

One of the little known areas to meet a LB in BKK is on Soi 33 off of Sukhumvit road. This is the area with Japanese bars. The LBs are a bit older and perhaps a bit more for the older set, such as me.

[asiandatezone]

Best place to meet Ladyboys? I was on vacation in Cagayan De Oro,Philippines recently and met a few sexy Ladyboys. Most of them are not Escorts. One pretty LB stayed with me in my hotel room for a week. I met her online before I took my trip. I think that's your best bet- meet a Ladyboy online first,chat her up,then take the trip to meet her.

[thekingdude]

Anybody in the mpls/st paul know a good place to meet?

[Pastorn]

Of course there are many ways to meet trans women. I´m gonna list three ways I have met transgender beauties

1. Go places trans women are found in great numbers. (Obvious I know) I went to Thailand and Philippines myself. There you WILL find what you are searching for, and I´m not talking prostitution only.

2. Online dating is a great idea. There are numerous sites but many are not serious.
I use this site

www.transgender-date.com

3. The way I prefer finding trans women, may be a little awkward and unexpected to some, is live cam pay sites. I have met some trans beauties that way. Some are there to make money only of course, but some are actually there to search for a "farang" (white western guy) to love them for their true selves.
I just stay in the free chat until I know them a little better and then take it further if I get the feel for them. Signing up is usually free in those sites.
I use this site

http://www.shemaleporncam.com

Good luck and please let me know how you´re doing with the ladies :D

[AlfredSata]

As I read about people talking about their significant others on here, Im just curious to know how and where did you meet each other? What was your first date like and who was the "next level" aggressor? You or your SO? Im single, so I dont have any stories to tell, but I would like to read other stories though.

[kaze]

Great information. My only problem is that even though i do fantasize about meeting up, I do not think I have it in me to go through with the meet.

[JamieTS]

Look the easiest way to meet shemales face to face is do a google search for trans clubs.

But one word to the wise is don't use the word shemale or tranny or anything that a trans woman may feel belittled by.

OMG we love guys like you and others her that will show us attention and really want to meet us and have a relationship with us but 99 percent of us aren't porn stars. Wuite a bit of us suffer from Gender Identity Dysphoria which will make us really suspicious of you intentions and so on.

If you really want to meet trans women then just treat them like you would a cis woman. Gain our trust. Reassure us because even though we may have some bad ass attitudes we still need that reassurance that you think we are pretty.

Then if she tell you she is trans then just tell her that you don't her you don't care because you still think she is beautiful. And even if it is reassure her that her penis isn't what you are attracted to but rather her beauty and her femininity.

Take her out and show her that you are a confident man that is proud to have her on your arm. I can't speak for everyone else but I love having doors opened for me, my chair pulled out for me and so on. Just be a gentleman. The less you care about what we have between our legs and just appreciate the woman in us the faster you may get what you want.

This goes for all you sweet guys that are the best it seems, Just treat her like you would any other woman and be a gentleman to her because most of us are not escorts, prostitutes or porn stars. Most of us are just average women that happen to have a penis.

I kind of hope this helps a little bit for a lot of guys that want to meet a real trans woman outside of the sex industry. Whether it be an escort (guilty), Prostitute (again guilty a long time ago) or some fantasy girl from a porn flick. No all of us look like Bailey, Bruna, Beatrice, Bea, Amy, or anyone else. I personally thing the cutest though is Duda. She may not be the most beautiful but she has a hell of a smile and has a normal body and her hair is so beautiful. Did I say she has a beautiful face?

[dibble]

joined a few sites before, it was terrible, old hairy men trying to look like women, and the nice looking ones were all escorts. of course its easy in Thailand as there are so many but I live in the UK. seen a few about as I work in a bus station, but how do I get to chat to one when work mates are everywhere all ready to rip the piss, as I see it, its an impossible dream, at least in the UK and in my line of work. And where are they all on here,?? its a great site for guys chatting about their experiences in Thailand etc but don t think I ve seen any transgenders on here.
There s not a lot I don t know about them, their feelings, emotions and who they really are, but where are they lols.????

[JamieTS]

Originally Posted by dibble

joined a few sites before, it was terrible, old hairy men trying to look like women, and the nice looking ones were all escorts. of course its easy in Thailand as there are so many but I live in the UK. seen a few about as I work in a bus station, but how do I get to chat to one when work mates are everywhere all ready to rip the piss, as I see it, its an impossible dream, at least in the UK and in my line of work. And where are they all on here,?? its a great site for guys chatting about their experiences in Thailand etc but don t think I ve seen any transgenders on here.
There s not a lot I don t know about them, their feelings, emotions and who they really are, but where are they lols.????

Unfortunately this is the second negative post that I found you posted about trans women. Go to Thailand. I'm sure no great big loss for the girls in the UK. But get ready to pay though. I have been there and actually worked in Korea and visited other trans friendly places in the Orient.

Really dude. You are nothing but a troll I think.