Does liking shemales make you gay?

[bigforarse]

I am a rampant cock loving gay homosexual faggot straight guy!!

[defiance]

now i am a closet gay.. mainly cause the industry i work in, it would be devastating for me to come out..
how ever.. if u think that viewing tranny images u gay. well technically it does.. even tho that ur looking it at a feminine form. there is still a cock attached to it. so u gotta ask urself .. are u attracted to the cock. .look at gay porn and just looked at the dudes cocks and see if it turns u on. if it does then u are gay. there is nothing wrong with being gay honestly.. there are problems with the person coming out of the closet tho depending on their circle of people. . but honesty just embrace it. enjoy it .. like someone said here. life is too short to be hung up on the pettiness of it all. just enjoy it. it makes u happy to view this material then i say go for it..

i think i may have gotten two or three forum posts on here mashed into one.
hehe .. enjoy people .. god damn it. . embrace the cock. and give it a kiss. it will kiss back..

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by racquel

I see a lot of guys around here worrying about being gay. First, I think it's silly because why would you care if you were? Second, I think it's silly because I have tons of friends who are gay, and I'm not really attracted to them, and most of them aren't that attracted to me. So being attracted to a tgirl definitely doesn't make you gay. In the past couple weeks, the guys who have tried to pick me up have been a regular looking young black guy, a big white guy who looked like he should be in the UFC, a couple average middle-aged guys, a kinda emo guy, some stoner with a camo hat and a beard, a really well-dressed black guy in his 40s, and a gray-haired psychology professor. These guys all seemed straight. There's only been one gay acting guy hitting on me the past 3 times I went out, and he was just drunk and horny.

But the thing is, the clubs I go to would generally be considered gay clubs, and probably half the people there are gay, but most of the people who are interested in me seem straight. And those are the people I'm attracted to, too, even though I'm not really hooking up with them.

So I don't know if you want to consider yourself gay or not, but don't worry that you're going to turn into some prissy queen just because you like tgirls. That's not the way it works.

I really like the videos on tsseduction. I was watching this newer one with Yasmin Lee and a guy named Tristan. I think Yasmin is really cute and it's really cool seeing a girl-next-door instead of a big porn star, so I totally thought I'd be into the video. But this Tristan guy is totally gay acting. I don't know what it is. He doesn't have some super gay lisp. But the guy acts gay. And watching a girl with a gay guy is totally weird. I wanna watch tgirls with straight guys.

I was just watching that video and it made me think of all this so I just thought I'd give my opinion on it if anybody cares.

That's simply it!

[AmyW]

Sexual orientation is more than liking someone's gentials. It's the whole package. Some (I daresay most) people will be too hung up on the fact that a gorgeous shemale has a penis to find her attractive; others will see an attractive woman with a penis and say "Wow, she's hot".

[cheersm8]

Interesting thread this! The whole 'tranny and gay' thing has only recently appeared within our culture. I don't know why this conundrum suddenly started to appear in the last forty years or so. It seems that, although we kid ourselves that we are now all 'liberated' and open about our sexualities we are actually more inhibited than we were back in the victorian era!
Until we became 'modern' sex with same genders and/or transgenders was just what it was, fun and sex.
We need a 'bi-sensual' revival and ditch the old 'bisexual' chestnut. That causes nowt but grief.
As for me? I find trannies sexy as hell, so much so that I became one myself! Nah, seriously, I feel that if you find trannies attractive, then enjoy it, don't worry about sexual orientation obstacles.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by AmyW

Sexual orientation is more than liking someone's gentials. It's the whole package. Some (I daresay most) people will be too hung up on the fact that a gorgeous shemale has a penis to find her attractive; others will see an attractive woman with a penis and say "Wow, she's hot".

Good point! I guess to me the penis takes on the gender of its "owner". I don't know how else to express it.

[kilgoretrout]

I did not realize this site existed. I have been with 4 shemales and really enjoyed it. It was all oral.

It is odd, I do not think I could do the same with a regular male, though I know technically it is the same. While I love being around shemales, I find gay males bothersome.

So I am a bit confused. While I love giving oral to a shemale, I am not interested in other males at all. I am still interested in females too.

It has caused some conflict for me.

I am not really sure what I am asking here as much as just putting forward a statement.

Thanks

[jared]

no. i'm straight

[Bionca]

This gets asked lots. So much so I have 2 brief answers...

1) Does it matter if it makes you gay? If so, why?

2) It boils down to how you view Trans*women. Are they women who have/had a penis, or are they men with tits?

[kilgoretrout]

Bionca
I have run into transvestites in New Orleans. They do not appeal to me. I think I am attracted to the very feminine shemales.

I have no interest in dating a guy. But I am fascinated by ts girls. I have had the fortune to have three encounters - one with two. I immensely enjoyed it.

I have had a fear of going back to it. I don't know why. As I said, I did not have anything but the most positive of experiences.

And while I could never imagine myself unzipping a guys pants and taking him, there is something exciting about that surprise in the panties of a shemale lover.

But I am confused by it.

[ashenhurst]

i love t-girls but have never been with one yet
i think i will have to see an escort t-girl this year tofulfill my fantasy
i don't think it is gay as i don't fancy men i just like the idea of playing with cock on a girl that's all

[mrallen9898]

Originally Posted by Bionca

This gets asked lots. So much so I have 2 brief answers...

1) Does it matter if it makes you gay? If so, why?

2) It boils down to how you view Trans*women. Are they women who have/had a penis, or are they men with tits?

You tell the truth; I've always felt a ladyboy, Tgirl, or shemale was 100% mentally a woman and treated them that way with respect and kindness just as you would a "so called" normal woman. Speaking frankly I've felt more loved by my Tgirl then by any woman.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Bionca

2) It boils down to how you view Trans*women.
Are they women who have/had a penis,
or are they men with tits?

• You men will look at us as women who have/had a penis
• Your wife/girlfriend will look at us as men with tits

[i_love_shemales]

Originally Posted by kilgoretrout

I did not realize this site existed. I have been with 4 shemales and really enjoyed it. It was all oral.

It is odd, I do not think I could do the same with a regular male, though I know technically it is the same. While I love being around shemales, I find gay males bothersome.

So I am a bit confused. While I love giving oral to a shemale, I am not interested in other males at all. I am still interested in females too.

It has caused some conflict for me.

I am not really sure what I am asking here as much as just putting forward a statement.

Thanks

I'm bi-sexual and I adore sucking cock so much and drinking cum but most of all and this might sound silly, one day I want to settle down with a woman. No, I won't get any cock behind her back because I'd never betray whoever I'm with. For some odd reason, when I'm in a relationship, I lose interest with porn because I feel as if that's another way of betrayl unless I know she likes porn. This has happened to me before, one relationship, I wasn't sure if she liked porn and I was afraid to ask and I never went near the stuff until after we broke up. That is why I know I'll stay away from cocks while I'm in a relationship - and other pussies as well.

Sorry to go off topic for a bit but I thought you might be interested in another way how the mind works for some people in a sexual manner.

[randolph]

It seems to me, that to be gay, you need to be attracted to someone that looks like yourself. Men attracted to men, women attracted to women. If a strait man is attracted to a transexual, its because he perseves her as a women. I doubt that gay men are attracted to transexuals, they want a man.
The fact that transexuals may/not have a penis seems secondary to the perception . This is similar to what Amy said.

[triumph65]

I just don't get this "Am I gay" feeling. Personally I try not to live my life as a label. I'm attracted to women and transsexuals and yet I don't see myself as gay, straight or bi, I just like who I like.

Just think how much better the world would be if we cut out all the bullshit.

[Dougcair]

I am straight and I love shemales! Thank god for these lovely ladies!

[diknut]

i love pussy aswell as cwd so i dont think it makes you gay for me male attention is unwanted and i would proberly knock them out if it ever arose

[smc]

Originally Posted by diknut

i love pussy aswell as cwd so i dont think it makes you gay for me male attention is unwanted and i would proberly knock them out if it ever arose

Now that's an unadmirable response to attention -- "knock them out" -- if ever I saw one. Beware!

Originally Posted by diknut

i love pussy aswell as cwd so i dont think it makes you gay for me male attention is unwanted and i would proberly knock them out if it ever arose

"Knock them out"? Why would you want to hurt them? I obviously can’t speak for everyone but I workout a lot and I am not offended if a gay man admires my physique. Last night my GF and I went to a bar with a gay and a lesbian couple and I had quite a few “admirers.” Of course it could be the Harley...

[The Conquistador]

No. A lady with a cock is like the embodiment of "opposites attract". It should not be there, but it is and it is very pleasing to look at. Think like magnetic levitation or a platypus. Or even an intricate animation with psychadelic colors like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCqZC...eature=related

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by kilgoretrout

I have been with 4 shemales and really enjoyed it. It was all oral.

It is odd, I do not think I could do the same with a regular male, though I know technically it is the same. While I love being around shemales, I find gay males bothersome.

So I am a bit confused

It has caused some conflict for me.

Yes I have a penis
& yes
that does make you gay.




[threads like this,
call out transsexual persons as male, in the eyes of the OP'.
Which is why I post replies like this
....here, have some head-fuck, back]

[smc]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Yes I have a penis
& yes
that does make you gay.




[threads like this,
call out transsexual persons as male, in the eyes of the OP'.
Which is why I post replies like this
....here, have some head-fuck, back]

But Jodie, you're presuming the OP reads, or reads the entire post. Meanwhile, other people read it and it spurs these inane threads.

[ila]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Yes I have a penis
& yes
that does make you gay.




[threads like this,
call out transsexual persons as male, in the eyes of the OP'.
Which is why I post replies like this
....here, have some head-fuck, back]

Thanks, Jodie. I really enjoy your replies.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by ila

Thanks, Jodie. I really enjoy your replies.

Thanks.
I'm happy to give my perception and to entertain,
roughly in equal proportions!

[J Dizzle]

Hell no it's not gay, maybe a littlebi but thats just fun.
I lady

[luvmedo]

IF YOU LOVE TOO SUCK ON SHEMALES ARE YOU GAY, OR JUST KINKY. FROM A NON GAY PERSON POINT OF VIEW ANY INSIGHTS TOO THIS ONE

[Arato]

Going to be a lot of no's I think.

[dirty30]

I just luv pretty cock,not manly cock..

[triumph65]

Voted yes.

Although, i hate the idea of having to live under a label.

Having said that, if you enjoy the idea of sucking cock, even on the most beautiful ts, it surely has to be considered the tiniest bit gay!! :D

Personally i don't give a fuck. I love beautiful sexy women and i love beautiful sexy tgirls. The idea of sucking and fucking a tgirl turns me on but gay/straight men don't. I don't see myself as 100% gay nor 100% straight. I am what i am and i like what i like.

[ErosArtist]

Originally Posted by triumph65

Voted yes.

Although, i hate the idea of having to live under a label.

Having said that, if you enjoy the idea of sucking cock, even on the most beautiful ts, it surely has to be considered the tiniest bit gay!! :D

Personally i don't give a fuck. I love beautiful sexy women and i love beautiful sexy tgirls. The idea of sucking and fucking a tgirl turns me on but gay/straight men don't. I don't see myself as 100% gay nor 100% straight. I am what i am and i like what i like.

Ditto - either way, is the most important thing!

[slipper]

Hell no, but who cares. Like what ya like and go on!

[raojai70]

IMHO you are "gay" if you feel yourself to be gay and "straight" if you feel yourself to be straight. Who you fuck/get fucked by doesn't necessarily correlate.

[jmape]

Originally Posted by slipper

Hell no, but who cares. Like what ya like and go on!

Slipper made it so clear: you suck a cock if you like it no matter if you are a gay or not...(?) Or if it really so clear? just keep on wonderin', Tim of Finland

[shooting_shark]

The whole idea of classifying people as "heterosexual" and "homosexual" is both relatively new and outdated - a relic of 19th century thought. Its unfortunate that both prejudice and "gay identity" perpetuate it. There has always been a much more flexible view of sexuality, throughout history and in many cultures... this whole phenomenon of forcing labels on people is a byproduct of current-day identity politics, and unfortunately often comes from both sides of the equation.

[darkstargemini]

> from what i have red or understand most shemales don,t date gay men that seems to be what i understand maybe i,m wrong.

[lblovur]

Originally Posted by slipper

Hell no, but who cares. Like what ya like and go on!

hell yeah i agree with you 100%

i am bored this kind of questions !!! i consider my self as a Pansexual (A group which is open to members of all sexual orientations or gender identities including straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transexual, or transvestite)
I like having sex and i don't care their genders but i just can't love a man. I like romantism only with females.
But if it is just sex gender is not important but i prefer mostly transexual, or transvestite.

If someone call me gay because of me loving shemales then call me gay. I don't care :D

[ssell10]

Who cares what you are! Just live your life and have fun

[tim4lb]

I am not particularly concerned with labels, but I simply don't consider myself or anyone else in the same situation gay. If others do, fine. I am not going to argue. I see a guy ... nothing! Never had any attraction. Masculine features, body hair, etc. just not a turn-on at all. Why do I like a "lady" with a cock? Who knows? Maybe I'm bi-sexual if there are 3 sexes. I just know what I like

[robbo971]

I don't believe that you are either 100% gay or 100% straight, I don't think you can place people's sexuality into categories like that. Sexuality more likely works on a sliding scale, with straight on one side, gay on the other and bisexual in the middle, and an individual's sexuality falls somewhere between these categories. For example, if I was to look at my sexuality within this context I would place myself on the straight side of bisexual as my general attraction is towards women but I have had sexual experiences with men aswell.

In relation to the question, I believe that to a greater or lesser degree an attraction to shemales can only be considered bisexual, whether its a subconcious desire or you are in denial about your sexuality there is no way you can consider yourself completely straight, one of the fundamental attractions of the shemale form is the fact that they have a cock and, like it or not lusting after cock is not a typically hetrosexual pattern of behaviour.

[netdave99y]

I've never met a guy who I have even had a moments thought about sucking his cock. I love the female form, pussy (in my mouth or on my cock ), I love tgirls, shemales and pretty tv's and I love to suck their cocks and have my cock sucked by them. However, I also have a thing about being force feminised by men and/or women and during these fantasies I am forced and trained to love sucking huge black cocks especially. During these fantasies of the mind I am normally dressed as a sissy/slut and my cock is rock hard, as it is in my hand as I read or think through these scenarios.

AM I GAY?

I know I am not gay but I love watching shemale porn, just like I watch other porn too, to me porn is porn, except for gay porn that is...

[jebayo1]

I think it depends on the individual. I love watching Men having sex with trans. But do not particularly care for trans having sex with men. Also not into male on male, and I love women. I guess I'm a strange breed

[lacey_maxie]

Personally, I don't care if someone called me a gay just because I love to admire shemales' cocks.As a matter of fact,apart from the websites with shemales I also visit the websites with gays to admire their big cocks.No matter if a cock belongs to a shemale or a man ,it always makes my juices run....

[randolph]

Question: Are we gay when attracted to shemales?
The term "gay" typically refers to sexual orientation of males, i.e. homosexual. If a male is "gay" he is sexually attracted to males. This can be considered a two step process. First; there is attraction to physical appearance (maleness). Second; there is attraction to the male genitalia. This then can result in sexual stimulation of the male genitals (homosexuality).
OK, if a male is attracted to the appearance of a shemale because she looks female and then desires to sexually stimulate her male genitalia, is he "gay"?
The genitalia and their function are exactly the same for both male and shemale in all respects, scrotum, testis, penis, erection and ejaculation. The only difference is the appearance of the person possessing the male genitalia. Now "gayness" refers to sexual attraction to the genitalia (male). As far as "gayness' is concerned the appearance of a person should have nothing to do with desire for the genitalia. Consequently, if one desires sexually the genitalia of a shemale, since she possesses male genitalia, that person by definition is "gay". There is the option that a person may sexually desire both male and female genitalia, in that case, the person could be considered bisexual.
The confusion arises when at step one, the male is attracted to the feminine attributes of the shemale. Then at step two, he is attracted to her male attributes. Most males will deny that they are "gay" when attracted to and sexually stimulating a shemale, even though the sexual activity is essentially the same as male to male homosexual activity. The only difference is the initial attractiveness of the person, male or shemale.
Males go to Thailand to have sex with "ladyboys" and they do not consider this homosexual activity. The ladyboys are obviously boys, often they are flat chested and have very boyish bodies and some have huge cocks (Mint). Yet, many supposedly heterosexual men indulge in sex with ladyboys (boys).
Even though most of the males on this forum deny they are gay, they are nevertheless thinking about or participating in gay activity. There is the argument that the shemale "looks" female therefore her genitalia are female. Obviously, this argument is not biologically sound. The other argument is that if the shemale "believes" she is female, then her genitalia become "female", again the facts are, by definition, male genitalia consist of scrotum, testis and penis.
The reason I have tried to logically analyze the issue is because most males are extremely sensitive about "gayness". They do not want to be considered gay or be associated with gays. Yet, they participate in gay activity when they can deny that what they are doing is gay activity. The male mind is very good at hypocrisy when it allows him to do what he desires especially (sex). OK, considering oneself bisexual does not get one off the hook either. If one desires female genitalia and also male genitalia, the latter is still gay activity.
After working through this thought process, I recognize that since I desire male genitalia attached to shemales, I have gay tendencies. So what does that mean? It means I like genitalia, male and/or female. It does not mean that everyone I see who possesses male or female genitalia will be attractive to me, however.

[twfs21]

a gay friend of mine said told me he has no attraction to shemales. he says gay men want men. not shemales.

[twistedone]

Couldn't vote for some reason, but I voted "No".

Speaking for myself, I still enjoy the female body. The male body does nothing for me.

People telling me that I'm gay because I enjoy transgendered women are trying to pin a label on me, without trying to know anything about me.

I say screw their opinions. As the ole saying goes, "Opinions are like assholes, we all got one".

[lancelotq]

I'm straight, but love shemale body and boobs. I don't know, maybe I suck for Raquel Fox, maybe

[tslust]

Am I gay or am I straigh? Here's my no BS answer. I don't think gay or straight really matters. If you go by the dicktionary:D, then you might be gay for sucking cock or wanting to get your ass fucked. I say that it doesn't really matter. You like what you like, just be happy wiht that. Lables don't really matter. Why the question of gay or straight? What's wrong with being bi?