What sort of relationship do you want with a ladyboy? - Your Votes!!!

[sissyffm]

i want my lady to marry me

[curiousguy221]

hopefully a romantic relationship with the possibility of marriage. sex may be fine and good for some people but i think i could only really do it with someone who i trust and care for so i should at least be friends with whoever i end up doing it with i think.

[Hieralias]

I voted Casual sex, but I'm open to a discrete relationship

[LarryP]

I'm currently in a relationship with a TGirl (pre-op). We have been seeing each other for over 6months. Things are going well--pretty much a typical developing relationship as we continue to get to know one another. She's very passable and lives her life completely as a woman. we've discussed moving in together, but not marriage. WE'll see how this plays out. We love each other, what can I say. Life is good.

[besorted]

I'm head over (high) heels in love with a wonderful Philippines LB, recently back from visiting her, I'm married, scared to ask for a divorce but know i can't live without my beautiful pinay. Help! Has anyone successfully got there asian girl friend to the UK, if so please share how you managed it!

[angela671]

I'm one of those "jaded" girls. When you constantly get stared or leered at all day, molested by sexist co-workers, hit on by immature "boys" at your fav afterwork bar or groped on your way to the bathroom, have dates fall apart on you, pestered on fb for "add-mes", have to deal with penis pics as a FIRST MSG by new guys (btw wth is up with that? if i had a dick that was shrinkly, short, warty, hairy, bent, had acne, covered in yellow or green goo, looking black and diseased, had tattoos of chewie on it or just plain freaky, i'd seriously consider another way of getting a girls attention. Even being built like a porn star only gets a quick comment before being deleted and unfriended!). Be original, actually care about the girl HERSELF and be a gentleman. TRUST ME, you'll stand out from the other 99% of the guys. Bianca is right, continually wading through the filth doesnt make it easy to find a serious relationship. Having a guy wade though all that muck, deal comfortably with the tg issues and steal her heart is rare to find (I would so treat THAT MAN like a king!). And I do feel bad for the "real guys". It's overwhelmingly stacked against you. Don't give up though. If you are genuine, your girl is waiting somewhere out there for you!!

Yeah, I would like something serious. Most girls would as well i think.

[Jon Boehner]

to a real girly girl would be the best.

[NoNameXIV]

casual sex all the way, i am in my early 20ies to young for marriage and i have never meet a girl i would want to have a relationship with.
I love the fact i can do what i want when i want, never have to apologize or explain myself, got complete FREEDOM and i don't think ill be giving that up just yet

[Globe009]

I have been in a very serious relationship with a ladyboy from Toronto. We met online and we have been together ever since. I lost my "t-girl" virginity to her and she lost her's own virginity to me. I could not ask for a better friend, lover, soul mate...I was married for over 20 years to a genetic woman which did not end well...I have had a ladyboy fetish for so long so when I left my ex I decided to give dating a transexual a try! I have NO regrets!

[will91]

I'm starting a relationship with a TS girl just right now, we have been dating and having sex and we like each other, so we'd like to start something more than sex. And she's damn HOT! 23 yo (i'm 22), 6'1'' tall and leggy, 7.5 inches penis, really good breast and she's a redhead :P. She's also sweet and lovely, which counts even more than aspect in having a relationship, she loves to sleep embraced with me (and i love feeling her night erections lol)

[tiesjief]

I'm putting full-time girlfriend because I'm not really into marriage. It's not that I'm really waiting for a GG or anything, because I'm done with them anyway. I'm just not into marriage. Aside from all the regular dating stuff, I do want a girl that loves her penis as much as I do so I think it's non-op only for me.

[eternalflame]

LTR or marriage with a shemale, preferably a very pretty one with long silky dark hair and a big shecock.

[lordscott]

Fellow members including OP who asked this question sorry i can't vote on this question i don't know what to vote for but however i will say this please bear with me first we'll start as full time with my relationship with her of a transgender girl/transgender woman and hopefully leading up to marriage if we're still together that is then we'll go from there and yes hopefully she's open to adoption so we can have kids and we start our own family and like i said just now if we're still together that is .

And don't worry like i mention earlier and i will gladly say it again I'll defend my girlfriend/my wife if i did have someone,I'll defend people who i love and I'll defend people who i care about and i would never ever leave her and our kids when and if we have kids because I'm not such a douchebag and I'm not such a jerk and assholes and other bad men they're known for .

[Niko1977]

Like most people here, full-time t-gf and maybe marriage if it works out, no different than being in a relationship with a woman.

But if we want kids, then there may be a problem. Then again, if a woman cannot bear kids for certain reasons, then there would be the same problem, wouldn't it?

[Joost]

I'd love to have a 'normal' relationship with her, with lots of sex of course. I've dated genetic girls over the years, topping them all the time. I have some catching up to do when it comes to bottoming, so I'd love to experience a lot with that.

Aside from that, I'm single now, live alone in my little apartment. Would love to have some company here, preferably a sweet pretty tgirl. Lie on the couch together with her in the evening watching tv, hot steamy sex afterwards.

[a9127]

My feelings haven't changed since I posted this as "aw9725" five years ago. But since getting married (for the second time) in 2011, I have limited my activity on here to strictly on-line friendships.

[DavidJones1985]

Nothing intimate. I think only for sex

[T.S.Severe]

Viewing this question from a very limited perspective, I would probably be happier with a 24/7 crossdressing male (passable, please!) rather than a m2f TS simply because once the transition is physically complete, she's not a shemale or ladyboy anymore - fantasy concepts, at best, but concepts which nevertheless appeal strongly to my fantasies.

Now, if I could find a pre-op TS who is bisexual and doesn't plan or even desire to undergo SRS, and she has a great sense of humor, likes dogs, can play Radar Love on the drums, and doesn't even own an iPhone...It could be love!

[trannycrazy]

I would one day like to get married to a gorgeous shemale, I know that one day it's gonna happen.

[snyperx777]

i vote 3 if it turns into a relationship its perfectly fine with me

[avrilfuck]

I voted casuale sex, because I can vote two things, but friendship is also OK for me.
The problem is that friendship seems difficult, or so I believe.

[british_boy]

Originally Posted by avrilfuck

I voted casuale sex, because I can vote two things, but friendship is also OK for me.
The problem is that friendship seems difficult, or so I believe.

A. Why only casual sex?
B. Why would friendship be difficult?
C. Doesn't sex + friendship = a relationship?

[YoungNCurious]

Casual sex first, friendship second.

[novicetgirllover]

Bionica: I am one of those guys that would date and eventually marry a girl like you. However, after joining several dating websites and getting no replies, then going to clubs yet getting no attention off the girls who are my 'type' (the ones who are similar to genetic girls I used to date) i'm close to giving up trying. I'm a young (31), good looking (yes i'm being arrogant) guy, so lord knows why I get nowhere. I think you girls tend to shoot yourselves in the foot. Maybe its out of disgust for men that like transwomen (girls wanting a straight guy who dosen't know), or maybe they just don't trust me and think i'm after sex and will break their heart.

Anyway I might have found someone in the Phillipines, though i'm worried she might really want an older guy.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by novicetgirllover

Bionica: I am one of those guys that would date and eventually marry a girl like you. However, after joining several dating websites and getting no replies, then going to clubs yet getting no attention off the girls who are my 'type' (the ones who are similar to genetic girls I used to date) i'm close to giving up trying. I'm a young (31), good looking (yes i'm being arrogant) guy, so lord knows why I get nowhere. I think you girls tend to shoot yourselves in the foot. Maybe its out of disgust for men that like transwomen (girls wanting a straight guy who dosen't know), or maybe they just don't trust me and think i'm after sex and will break their heart.

Anyway I might have found someone in the Phillipines, though i'm worried she might really want an older guy.

I can't answer for most trans women, but from my observation guys have an uphill battle when it comes to trans women.

It's a combination of some messed up self-image issues with TGs (I think lots of trans women overlook really good guys because they aren't HAWT or whatever). Almost like having a stud validates them as attractive women. On the other hand, getting stood up 10 times in a row buy guys who couldn't wait to actually get a chance with a "girl like you" doesn't make one receptive to #11.

Online dating sites devoted to trans women will absolutely make for some pretty jaded gals. Been there - even I got some messages in my first month. I narrowed the suitors down and met with a few. The results of those meetings has been an almost complete shift in how I handle men. Frankly, I don't much trust them (when I used to give gals hell for not giving guys chances). Once again, it an issue of being dogged out by 100 guys doesn't predispose you well to #101.

My advice is to try to engage trans women as people with interests and hobbies. Find out a gals likes and dislikes from her site profile and open up with that. "I hear you like <thing>, so do I. Have you ever heard of <related thing>?" will get you farther with most gals than "yer cute" (in my case, I was pretty over empty compliments and single sentence contact from guys quickly). Tell her WHY you think the two of you would be a good match. Let her know something about you.

It isn't hard exactly. You just have to assume that she's been contacted by some pretty shady characters using any and every angle to get her. You need to assume that if she decided to end the contact, those same guys used what they knew would be most insulting to get a last "dig" at her. dating while trans is a minefield, and you don't get through it without being burned.

I feel for the genuine guys who seriously want to date trans women. The cruddy part is, those were the guys I THOUGHT I was dating - they all said similar stuff. It becomes very hard to sort through the REAL guys who really want to date a trans woman, and the guys who know that they need to pretend to be REAL men who want to date trans women to get any play at all.

[novicetgirllover]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I can't answer for most trans women, but from my observation guys have an uphill battle when it comes to trans women.

It's a combination of some messed up self-image issues with TGs (I think lots of trans women overlook really good guys because they aren't HAWT or whatever). Almost like having a stud validates them as attractive women. On the other hand, getting stood up 10 times in a row buy guys who couldn't wait to actually get a chance with a "girl like you" doesn't make one receptive to #11.

Online dating sites devoted to trans women will absolutely make for some pretty jaded gals. Been there - even I got some messages in my first month. I narrowed the suitors down and met with a few. The results of those meetings has been an almost complete shift in how I handle men. Frankly, I don't much trust them (when I used to give gals hell for not giving guys chances). Once again, it an issue of being dogged out by 100 guys doesn't predispose you well to #101.

My advice is to try to engage trans women as people with interests and hobbies. Find out a gals likes and dislikes from her site profile and open up with that. "I hear you like <thing>, so do I. Have you ever heard of <related thing>?" will get you farther with most gals than "yer cute" (in my case, I was pretty over empty compliments and single sentence contact from guys quickly). Tell her WHY you think the two of you would be a good match. Let her know something about you.

It isn't hard exactly. You just have to assume that she's been contacted by some pretty shady characters using any and every angle to get her. You need to assume that if she decided to end the contact, those same guys used what they knew would be most insulting to get a last "dig" at her. dating while trans is a minefield, and you don't get through it without being burned.

I feel for the genuine guys who seriously want to date trans women. The cruddy part is, those were the guys I THOUGHT I was dating - they all said similar stuff. It becomes very hard to sort through the REAL guys who really want to date a trans woman, and the guys who know that they need to pretend to be REAL men who want to date trans women to get any play at all.

Thanks I really appresiate that. It makes alot of sense and I don't just put 'hi sexy' in the mails I send. It still makes no difference.

[nadiecomoyo]

A fulltime Ts girlfriend , i think can to work, live together, care for her she care for me, i´ll like ,yes, i´ll like it.

[JuniorJakes]

I said 'not sure' as I am married. Ladyboys fascinate me, I don't know what I would do if I ever met one. Some of them are so beautiful.

[randolph]

Hummm, What is casuale sex? Is it some form of exotic Italian porn sex? Just wondering.

[CortoriaCUM]

Since I'm already married and love my wife and son dearly, I voted "casual sex".

That said, had I met a tgirl that "struck a chord" before meeting my wife, I wouldn't have had any qualms in dating and maybe even marrying (if she's into marriage. You don't find that a lot anymore, these days) a tgirl. That would really have been a dream come true.

However, none of that came to pass. I'm just happy I know some tgirls in Belgium and I've had the opportunity to live out that side of my sexuality with some of those special girls.

[calgaryshyguy34]

I would love to have a real fulltime relationship with a ts. Perhaps even fall in love and ponder the thought of marriage. We can do that in Canada. I'm so totally down with that!

[Alanz]

Yao and I are looking for a full time relationship with a shemale/ladyboy To live as a threesome!! I can"t wait

[pearcewr81]

well, im pretty new to this whole thing. i said not sure yet, but i really want to learn more about relationships with ladyboys

[NickNickNick]

I voted Marriage. I want a full time commitment with a tgirl. To be able to wake up with my tgirlfriend laying there next to me and see her every day would be heaven for me.

[spike_40]

Full time leading to marriage
always with

[ila]

Originally Posted by spike_40

Full time leading to marriage
always with

Good for you. I am looking for exactly the same thing.

[noodle]

Like some of the other guys I am married. But I voted full time girl friend because Ideally my wife and I would both love a tgirl. I?ve finally let my wife into my fantasy world (why not take all of me, as the song says). I was surprised to find out my wife gets just as turned on as me by watching my shemale porn with me.

[king D]

id love to be in a relationship with a hot ts girl

[sosed]

This is very interesting question. One think is sure. I like girls and I'm not interested in males. Talking about girls, i would like to say, that I like both genetic girls and Tgirls, so the answer is actually for both, when we are talking about long term relationship or marriage. It is not, what she have between her legs, but about our personalities, how we are compatible that we could live together and what we feel to each other. She will be my girl, I will live with her, not others.

[no1000]

Originally Posted by sosed

This is very interesting question. One think is sure. I like girls and I'm not interested in males. Talking about girls, i would like to say, that I like both genetic girls and Tgirls, so the answer is actually for both, when we are talking about long term relationship or marriage. It is not, what she have between her legs, but about our personalities, how we are compatible that we could live together and what we feel to each other. She will be my girl, I will live with her, not others.

+1 I like your way of thinking.

[JodieTs]

Well my boyfriend wants to marry me
My girlfriend also wants to marry me {civil partnership}
I just want to play Call of Duty: Black Ops callofduty! >>>This video is brill.


Hummm.....I think I've got trouble brewing!

[Relic119]

I want something serious maybe even marriage

[Hourglass]

Steady, committed relationship would be my choice. I've never been one for flings; No offense to those who enjoy that lifestyle, it's just not for me. I'm a bit of a (hopeless) romantic, so having one person to be with would be ideal.

As for marriage...I don't know. I'm a little afraid of marriage. Not the commitment part, but because almost all my friends have been married - and divorced - at least once and I've seen firsthand how it's changed them. They're...not happy. They used to be. Not anymore.

[StellaDixxie]

the majority that chose casual sex strike me as cowards.

[Guly_French]

Bascally, full-time girlfriend. I chose marriage though, as I want to show that no matter what her past is, the one I will truly and deeply love deserves that I dedicate my life to her, and to us. But also because it is a way for me to point out that it is awfully wrong that marrying a girl is forbidden or allowed based on what hangs (or hangs not) between her legs...

I can understand what Bionca wrote. I'd like to add it's hard for men who just want to have a nice chat to begin with but are not given the chance because they are not HAWT. But I guess that on this as on anything else, things are never a given, you have to go get it.

The other thing is that of course talking about common interests is the key. But let's be honnest, someday, if things get as far as being more than friends, or you picture to go there, you'll have to talk about sex. And trust me, I have seen girls being frigthened to talk about it so much they ran away calling me pervert, though they wanted to try a relationship with me too. (And no, I was no longer 17 at that time).

Sorry for the messed up post, I have a nice headache this morning that prevents me from writing something... better tought out

Oh, and if one of you like to talk about computer sciences, computer networks sciences, fantasy and SF universes or the Cthulhu Mythos, mp me. Got a lot of work but I drop by every morning. I'll definitely answer.

[mabedzaqueen]

Originally Posted by StellaDixxie

the majority that chose casual sex strike me as cowards.

Hi Stella! First, let me explain why ?the majority that chose casual sex? do not strike me as cowards... I believe it takes balls for someone who's been in a LTR (married or not) for a number of years to put it all in jeopardy just to make a dream (or fantasy) come true, knowing from the start how unbearable the outcome may be; Also, i can't see someone ready to risk his health for a few hours of intense pleasure (or a life-changing experience?) as a ?coward?...

Second, if it's not too personal, could you please tell us the reason why they're cowards in your eyes?? For me, well i voted ?not sure? as it is very much how i feel after 19 years of marriage, a divorce, two encounters with money-hungry MILFs (first one Disappointing, second one Disastrous), the 'discovery' that i was not-so-straight-after-all and, for good measure, a rapidly growing taste towards young femboys Now i guess i'll just see what the future brings...
______
Dennis.

[Translover Jonny]

I would go for full time marriage, I have been married before to an "ordinary" girl and now i have tried that and no more! Ladyboys are my passion in life now and i can?t even imagine me going back to "ordinary" girls again. You know once you got a taste of it ;-).
I only date ladyboys now and i definitely hope to find my future wife some day. The problem is that many beautiful ladyboy wants to make the surgery and become full time women as fast as possible, i understand that but the problem for me is to find a sweet and good looking ladyboy that won?t do the surgery and become at post-op ladyboy. The one i would like to marry and spend my life with should stay pre-op, I just love them the way they are.

[svartekaptenen]

Originally Posted by StellaDixxie

the majority that chose casual sex strike me as cowards.

I disagree a marriage is a serious commitment that one should not enter
without giving it serious thought and contemplation.

Originally Posted by svartekaptenen

I disagree a marriage is a serious commitment that one should not enter
without giving it serious thought and contemplation.

Very true. But if we re-ask the question with cis (non trans) women. Would the same people who said only casual sex with trans girls, also say casual sex with cis girls? If the answer is yes, than not a big deal. But if the answer is no, than they are in fact cowards in my opinion.

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

Very true. But if we re-ask the question with cis (non trans) women. Would the same people who said only casual sex with trans girls, also say casual sex with cis girls? If the answer is yes, than not a big deal. But if the answer is no, than they are in fact cowards in my opinion.

Scintillating point. It would mean that someone fancies t-ladies as fantasies or as pure objects of perversion, but totaly disreagard both their personalities and their feelings as persons.