Telling your partner of your love for shemales

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by chelsea

Telling your partner of your love for shemales, whether its your wife, fiancee or girlfriend, is it a good idea?

I'm thinking of it.

Anyone got any experiences of doing so?

Before I truly realized my love for trans*women I actually played out fantasies with my x-wife... needles to say she was as open minded as I am.

Personally I think it's always a good idea to come out of the closet, unfortunately 90% of the world tends to disagree with me.

But what's the worst that can happen? She'll slap you, call you a freak, and leave you... but would she then be worth holding onto anyway?

Your choice, my man.

H

[charlietwobeans]

TOUGH decision. Of course, as others will say, it really depends on your relationship and the type of person she is. In my situation, I never could dream of doing such a thing, until it was slapped in my face after my wife caught me with some evidence of a meeting with a Tgurl (some text messages).

End result? We are still together, she hopes that my "fetish" has been put behind us, or at least relegated to only thoughts and no action, and we both sense the "big elephant in the room" that's always there because we have yet to address the 'why' of my interests.

I hope it comes some day, when we can have an open and honest discussion about it, but it has not happened yet.

So, please be careful and hope that, if you want to stay with your wife, that she is open and kind and forgiving should you decide to say something.

[JoeBaker]

I think my wife got the idea when I put a 9" strapon on her

[justin84]

Originally Posted by JoeBaker

I think my wife got the idea when I put a 9" strapon on her

LMFAO!!! would love my mrs to strap one of them on and jam me, but unfortunatly she isnt likely to understand my fetish, lifes a bitch

[wonderinghart]

I told my wife. She was pretty understanding and wasn't really shocked by it. If this woman is your partner for life you should be able to tell her anything and everything. As long as she is secure in your relationship there should never be an issue.

[Shemale Cam Addict]

lucky me my gf is a shemale so I guess I don`t have to clarify that I like shemales

[Luvbigcok]

I am married & have 2 young children. My lov for shemales came up in the last 12 months, in saying that I am only with my wife to be with my children & we don't have a happy marriage. If I did tell her that would be the end of any relationship. But I do have a freind from Russia who is 28 yo female who is absolutely georgous, we have phone sex all the time & swap dirty pics. I told her of my love for shemales & she wants to come & visit me so we can do some shemales together!
I can't wait as this would be the ultimate for me!
She is the only one who knows my secret...