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Have you ever slept with a tranny/shemale?
Have you ever slept with a tranny/shemale? or are you like me.. I prefer to keep it just as a fetish to jerk to and sleep with real chicks?
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so far just a fetish. guess well see what the future brings...
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Transwomen are real women. Transwomen are not a fetish. They are beautiful, thinking, caring, feeling persons. They are not someone to pick up and discard on a whim. It's attitudes like yours that make it dangerous for transwomen. |
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Ila is right , Nobody likes to be used. And objectifying these ladies is wrong plain and simple. And they are REAL CHICKS .
Last edited by rockabilly; 07-26-2009 at 05:45 PM. |
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Thanks Ila and rockabilly. After we had both cum, we layed in each others arms, just gently kissing and touching and holding. This was as wonderful as any female that I have been with.
They are female in almost every sense...... with a little extra! A. |
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I think of them as real women, and allways will do, because they are. And i would love a Tgirlfreind!!
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they charge too much per hour to sleep with them. i prefer to have sex with them.
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Ive never slept with a shemale, i have slept with females, for now shemales are just something id like to explore!
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I have a Chinese friend (I'm caucasian) that I take out to dinner on occasion, and we enjoy each others company.
Tonight I broached the subject of Asian Ladyboys..... and she really lit into me about Thailand gays. I think that she tried to take care of me tonight..... so that I would not think of Ladyboys. I think that I'm very fortunate to being able to enjoy the best of both worlds. A. |
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Transwomen are human beings who deserve care and comfort just like everybody else. I hate fetishization of peoples because it gets into dangerous territory of those peoples being on the outskirts of society and civil society simply interacting with them whenever they please which leads to detrimental effects to the people being fetishised.
One such effect is the fact that many women can't find jobs because of the fact that they happen to be Transgendered. This literally forces women into porn and prostitution so they can make ends meet. This happens because many still think of transwomen as just a sex object and not a living caring person who is quite capable of doing "normal" work. We all like certain things about sex more other things, I like Jewish chicks for example, but that doesn't give me the right to think of Jews as simply sex objects for me to use and throw away as I wish. The only thing it means is that I might have a preference towards Jewish chicks rather than other chicks. |
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I guess I could've just agreed with Ila lol.
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not yet....
Not yet but looking forward to it.........
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I've had several wonderful sexual experiences with an adorable Asian shemale over the past several months, to include overnighters and weekends, not on a commercial basis, and we've become close friends. I suppose the only thing unusual about that is the fact that I'm a genetic female.
I also enjoy lesbian and straight sex, BTW. |
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I dunno what your agenda is, my friend, but in my case the number of my cis*gender sexpartners over the last years can be counted easily. I certainly have no intention of pretending my love for trans*women to be a mere fetish - it's a precondition. For me it has absolutely as little to do with "fetish" than a str8 guy screwing cis*girls or a gay*woman going for the dame... Real chicks have dicks, my man :-) I wouldn't settle for any less than a trans*woman. To me she is all I want - she brought me home! She expresses the ultimate degree of femininity and rocks my life...all of them. To me it's now unthinkable to have a cis*lover. Well, I cannot say that I couldn't make an exception to the rule, but surely I seriously doubt I could ever find happiness or even mere sexual gratification with a cis*girl any more. I've grown, I guess... :-) Peace! H
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I think you people are being a little harsh.
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Yes, and I have had some great times. That said I have had some not so good times as well. These have all been paid visits but none the less when she is really into her sexuality you forget that it is an escort and really get into being with her. Unfortunately these types of encounters are the exception not the norm. They are however worth finding and I continue to seek them out.
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Not trying to be harsh at all and your point is completely valid. Only trying to get the terms sorted out here :-)
Fetishism is "objectification", meaning that you get aroused by particular objects, materials or even body parts. Fetishism is not being sexually attracted to a particular gender - that's sexual orientation no matter if in real life or just as a fantasy. If you feel attracted to trans*women that doesn't make you a fetishist at all. Actually, a trans*fetishist is a person who gets aroused by putting on attires of his/her opposite biological gender. Enjoy your fantasies and find the level that's right for you. But also remember that our sexuality is not a static thing. We change over time and maybe some day you will want to bring it from fantasy to reality. And that will be fine too. But a fetishist you're not in this regard. Peace! H
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I sleep* with a trans woman every night.
I also agree with Ila, Hank, and Jdawg. Trans women aren't fetishes and are very REAL women. *Some sleeping happens...some |
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I have never slept with a shemale but wouldn't rule it out, the thought of it turns me on very much.
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You made the twin mistakes of saying "real girls" and "tranny/shemale". If you had said "Do you think you will ever take your transsexual fantasy to the final level and sleep with a trans-woman? Or, do you consider your attraction only a fantasy, that you have no intention of acting on? For myself, I must confess to the latter." you probably wouldn't have gotten as harsh a response.
I, in fact, must confess to the latter. It is nothing personal against the individuals who have made the decisions they felt necessary to be happy - and no doubt, for the most part have succeeded in that goal. Fundamentally, those of us who are casual admirers have decided never to act on our desire because we don't (want to?) consider ourselves "gay" - and that brings up a whole slew of angry questions, of course, but it really does boil down to as simple an answer as that. Fundamentally, whether the origin of the view is societal programming, parentally-induced prejudice, philosophy, theology or w/e, even though we don't have anything against the women who choose this lifestyle, we cannot force ourselves to abandon traditional gender-concepts. Maybe that's the origin of the attraction in the first place. Psychology is a very complex thing; I suspect most of the lovely ladies here are quite familiar with that fact. Whatever the case, I think it is completely possible for us "casual admirers" to stand firm in our refusal to act on our desires (you can read as much about closeting, self-hating or whatever into that as you want, but it is what it is) while at the same time not judging the objects of said desire on their decisions, lifestyle or existence, and certainly without condemning or looking down on said women. For the ladies of the forum, and the devoted, "active admirers", try to think of it as though we "casual admirers" are your racist grand-parents. We don't really hate anyone, deep down inside, but we can't help being offensive now and then because we are products of our era, and if you can understand that, it is easier to not take the occasional offensive slips too seriously. As much as you desire us to accept you for who you are (and rightfully so), try to accept us for who we are as well. We have as much right to torture ourselves because we choose to adhere to (or instinctively adhere to) old-fashioned, out-dated moral codes and world-views as you do to live your life as the person you want to be. |
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insult
Just had breakfast and checking the site, I was stunned, angry, disgusted.
And helas, she came to see why. It made her upset. Like people not understanding, that you can live together just as you are. Now she is crying and very unhappy. I blame you! |
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Never have and I am not sure I ever will. I do have permisson from my girlfriend on one condition. She doesn't want to join in but she does want to watch.
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