confused...

[cheersm8]

Originally Posted by fauxreal19

so i have just recently discovered my infatuation with ladyboys. im kinda confused about whether or not im gay or bi. im pretty sure im attracted to females, but i seem to get aroused by the cock...but only when i see it on a ladyboy. i tried looking at gay porn but was completely disgusted by it. help....

Same questions, and expected answers, get posted a zillion times onto forums of this ilk. I don't think a definitive answer will ever be found or given. However, we can not dismiss the question as unimportant, otherwise it would not be repeated with such regularity and sincerety.
If anybody with the same thoughts and/or self doubts is brave enough to actively seek a 'self assessment' on their feelings I recommend trying a couple of things. 1. remove the porn element, as this will undoubtedly cause conflicting feelings, porn is titilating, exciting, and arousing, that is porn's reason d'etre. 2. Go to a gay bar or club, test your own 'comfort zone' 3. If possible, mix, socially with a ladyboy and/or trans, and see how femeninity mixed with the ability to beat you at arm wrestling and sing with the deepest barritone voice you have ever heard, affects your feelings.

now, don't all get upset about that last statement, it is not a disrespectful jibe at transfolk generaly but it is something that many many sex-tourists on a 'mucky week in thailand' have discovered and it is 'never in the brochure'

[GRH]

Let's just say that if you have an infatuation with cock (attached to anything), you're NOT vanilla hetero.

[AmyW]

When will people understand that sexual attraction isn't just a love for someone's genitals, but love for the whole person? I'm attracted to women - to femininity - not to vaginas or penises. It's silly to take one organ of a person's body, as opposed to the rest of them, and say that they are that gender or that you are this orientation.

[GroobyKrissy]

FRESH MEAT!!! Another convert