Questions for everyone.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by cunnilingus

Question for the shemales:

we all know you were born males, sooner or later you discovered you liked men and I suppouse that at any part of your lives you decided to stop wearing male clothes and started wearing dresses, covering your faces with make up, walking with the most delicate and femenine steps you could perform, having breasts, having your hair long, talking with the most femenine tone of voice, having the hips and shapes of a femenine body, having surgeries...etc..etc..etc..now... when you see the images reflected of yourselves in the mirrors you see nothing but females and we are agree with it...it seems your goal is done, you are females with penises...but.. what makes some shemales to have their penises removed?..is having a vagina the goal of every shemale?

Not all trans* women like men and the attraction to men has nothing to do with being trans*. I, personally don't have mush love for "women's clothes" or makeup. I wear both, but that, also, had nothing to do with being trans*. In fact I made sure I could blend without using much make up. I also wish I could look in a mirror and just see a woman looking back. The reality is, I just see me and part of who I am is having a past with a fully male body.

Trans* women, as the other gals have said, don't always want/need to have surgery on the penis. Some hate having it so much it is either reconstruct it or die (literally). The desires of men or women who date us doen't (shouldn't) factor into that decision.


Question for the gays: (if there is any)

Is getting the transformation into a shemale the goal of every gay?

Not even remotely close

I answered what I could. I understand that English s not your primary language, so probably some of your comments and questions came across a little harsher than you intended. It is important to note that for many of us being trans* is simply how we understand ourselves and our lives. It has nothing at all to do with having sex. Given the sketchy nature of 'chasers if that is indeed a gal's goal she will be painfully surprised.