Why do we learn to like being penetrated?

[hankhavelock]

I guess my point is, that once I was reeled in by my transsexual lovers and friends I learned and felt that a penis is no longer a masculine thing. Yes, if placed on myself or Barack, but most certainly SO not when on Bionca, Fey, Gina and them all... then her penis becomes one of her most feminine attributes.

I remember a funny story, when I was with the sweet Natz... she was in a rather short skirt and I was in a restaurant with her lovingly carressing her... "Hank, don't make me embarrassed with a hard on when I have to go to the ladies' room" :-)

Those were, of course, wise words, but they also made it SO clear that NOTHING is hotter and more real and more feminine than your girl with a hard on! Because THEN you know, that you have it all and are with a true woman!

;-)

H

[aa2239]

That's a really interesting take on femininity and how the penis is perceived... I haven't thought about it that way, but it does make sense... although normally it's the definitive sign of masculinity, when attached to a female/shemale form the penis simply becomes a symbol of sexuality in general, and even femininity.

Lol, I love the idea of a shemale becoming visibly aroused in public, how sexy is that?! You're right, that's something that most women can't do

In fairness, although I initially said that your comments have brought me closer to becoming a "versatile" partner, I'll amend that statement a bit... your comments have increased my anticipation of the experience, but they have also encouraged me to share that first experience in the right way and with the right person.... almost like a young GG would with her virginity lol. I've always said that if I was in a good relationship with a TG, where trust and love had been built up, THEN I would experiment with being a bottom. The way you talk about the intimacy and closeness of the experience makes me feel even more sure about waiting to find the right TG to share it with.

Still looking forward to it though lol

[Reslemock]

Now it make more senses why I like shemales so much!