Married but into shemales?

[sirply28]

Originally Posted by silverback

I'm very grateful to have found this forum, as it has helped me see that I'm not a total freak for loving shemales.

I'm straight, married with a son, but have been into shemales for the last 10 years or so, since long before I met my wife.

She doesn't know, and neither does anyone else....and they never will if I can avoid it.

I fantasize about meeting the TS of my dreams one day, but don't really want to cheat on my wife - in short I'm a bit conflicted. How many other guys are in my situation? Do you have any advice for me?

Fortunately I live in a place where the only shemales around are some not very attractive 'professional girls' so I haven't been tempted to stray and I'm still a virgin (so to speak).

WoW. Im glad I joined as im in the same boat your in. The only difference is im in south cali so theres quite a few ts around. I keep trying to contain it but I also feel like the urge is getting unbearable now. This sucks....

[Mad_Nad]

I'm married, I love my wife... but I fantasize about having sex with a pretty and slutty, big-boobed and big-cocked dominant shemale! And I can't do anything about it!

[Be_my_nude]

Secrecy, Guilt, Lust, Dreams. Do all these have to be realised for you to have a ' complete ' love life ? You think you know the person you are with, but apply the can-opener to their perceptions of you and you risk infecting your relationship with a super-bug.

It's all about maintaining and respecting another person's privacy. If they keep secrets, then it is what they need for their own security. And as for yourself, don't fart in the face of another person's feelings for you - you might presume too much on their good nature !

By all means tell us on the Forum - much safer that way.

[megalops]

I'm married and strongly attracted to T-girls as well as feminine gay men. No, my wife doesn't know. But then, I have yet to have sex with a T-girl and last had sex with a guy 25 - 30 years ago. Because of my job (medical social worker) I've met several pre-op T-girls but have to keep a professional distance. (Which is difficult at times.) Don't know when or even if I'll ever fulfill the fantasy because I tend to put friendship and connection first over sex first. And I have little interest in a professional.