Why Have You Not Ever Fucked or Been Fucked By a Shemale?

Well, I have never been with a t-girl but would LOVE to. I am single, I have $120.00 to spend (though when I've looked around on the net I think $250.00 is the lowest rate I've seen). I live in Phoenix, which seems to have a few t-girl escorts according to eros.com but my main problem is that it just seems so awkward and humiliating to hire an escort. And this is no way a moral judgement or "hang up" on my part, just how I feel personally. There's certainly the risk of STDs or worse. I mean, in my fantasies I'd LOVE for a t-girl to cum in my ass, but the reality is I'm NEVER going to allow an escort to do that...common sense, duh. Obviously, I have thought about it long and hard (pun intended) but another thing is I doubt it'd be nearly as satisfying as in my fantasies since the girl would probably be in a hurry to get me "there" and then gone, if you get my drift. But mobiryder does bring up a valid point...you only go once around the ride. I'm still ruminating on the subject, but I'm closer than ever to saying, "The hell with it" and attempting to find an escort near me.

[jedthejew]

if i've ever had the opertunity i surely didnt know. if i did know i wouldnt be able to anser you because there would have been some fucking to account for

[aa2239]

Originally Posted by tgirllovinguy

Well, I have never been with a t-girl but would LOVE to. I am single, I have $120.00 to spend (though when I've looked around on the net I think $250.00 is the lowest rate I've seen). I live in Phoenix, which seems to have a few t-girl escorts according to eros.com but my main problem is that it just seems so awkward and humiliating to hire an escort. And this is no way a moral judgement or "hang up" on my part, just how I feel personally. There's certainly the risk of STDs or worse. I mean, in my fantasies I'd LOVE for a t-girl to cum in my ass, but the reality is I'm NEVER going to allow an escort to do that...common sense, duh. Obviously, I have thought about it long and hard (pun intended) but another thing is I doubt it'd be nearly as satisfying as in my fantasies since the girl would probably be in a hurry to get me "there" and then gone, if you get my drift. But mobiryder does bring up a valid point...you only go once around the ride. I'm still ruminating on the subject, but I'm closer than ever to saying, "The hell with it" and attempting to find an escort near me.

See, this is the main problem for me.... I abhor the idea of paying someone for a sexual service. Fortunately, I've been with several shemales so far, and I hope to meet many more. But I can fully understand why many people are apprehensive about hiring a shemale escort... tgirllovinguy has mentioned the main reasons.

[jedthejew]

ive never had sex with one simply because as far as i know ive never met one

[merelypink]

must guys are just plain scared about the first time.... then once they do it they love it

[rollon]

Why Have You Not Ever Fucked or Been Fucked By a Shemale?

I think mutch of the reason is that many of us men still live in a relationship with a woman.
Im single and allready meet one lb in LOS, but maybe everyone else in here still dreaming.
Someone is satisfied with only dreaming of lb and others ones really want to meet her like this cute girl
http://www.lb-69.com/models.php?search=Amy

Like Mobiryder say:Life is too short, guys. If you died today,
would you be OK with that. Granted if you’re on your death bed the last thing you may be thinking about
is a ladyboy, but you know what I mean. Wouldn’t you want to be lying under the bus that ran you over,
about to see the light, and know, you followed through and had unforgiving, hardcore, crazy sex
with a beautiful ladyboy?

Yes, life is to short, we are waiting for maybe better times, maybe more money to travel or whatever.

Maybe if I cuold get money to buy that escort shemale or if I have guds to go to a shemale-club..
So what do we do??

I also had a tread bout this
http://forum.transladyboy.com/showthread.php?t=859

I meet a lb in los and she was very small, 1,57 high no adams-apple, small feets and hands,
she actually behave like a girl
but she had almost no tits even she was very pretty, about 26-27 I think

I spend some time with her(3 late nights) but we didnt really have the BIG sex, only kissising feeling body
together couse I was little drunk and I felt like some homo couse she didnt have tits..it all felt strange to me.
I wanna meet a pretty girl with tits and everything like Amy from www.ladyboygold.com

We went to resturant eating and some few beer and gave her bout 1000 bath a day/night even we didnt fuck in ass.

I allways treated her with respect.

2 days after I got back to my home she called me in Norway, and she still do that now after 4 month...

I tell her that maybe I go back to the place I meet u but cannot promise anything..couse its expencive
with plane from me to los and hotels..(if I only won a $million)..

Like Mobiryder say: Life is to short...

[michneo]

Originally Posted by merelypink

must guys are just plain scared about the first time.... then once they do it they love it

mmmm youre gorgeous

[hankhavelock]

My guess is that to most guys it's merely a jerk-off fantasy... and that's a shame, cuz they should allow themselves the pleasure... as well as allowing themselves the depth of a relationship with a trans*woman. Few things are deeper and more giving.

I'm not saying that genetic girls cannot be nice partners (I've had a bunch) but there is NOTHING compared to the love of a trans*woman. It's just... different... and deeper!

So stop pretending... go do it, guys!

H

[bigjoe]

Originally Posted by merelypink

must guys are just plain scared about the first time.... then once they do it they love it

i fantasise about you soooo much.....

Originally Posted by merelypink

must guys are just plain scared about the first time.... then once they do it they love it

would you like to teach me

Well, I'll probably never meet one 'cause I'm really short, bald, and ugly, and drive a clunker...

(see my udated "profile pic")

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by aw9725

Well, I'll probably never meet one 'cause I'm really short, bald, and ugly, and drive a clunker...

(see my udated "profile pic")

Huh huh huh! That was cool Beavis!

[mrtrebus]

Originally Posted by merelypink

must guys are just plain scared about the first time.... then once they do it they love it

If I was with you my heart would be pounding so fast!

[LBlvr]

I'm with you guys, but im 20 and in a state that borders georgia.

Originally Posted by epj290

well for me its because im a shy guy and im only 19...not old enough to go in a bar( im in new yorkc city)...so there arent many places to find one...unless someone can enlighten me on some place i can go.

Originally Posted by tgirllovinguy

Well, I have never been with a t-girl but would LOVE to. I am single, I have $120.00 to spend (though when I've looked around on the net I think $250.00 is the lowest rate I've seen). I live in Phoenix, which seems to have a few t-girl escorts according to eros.com but my main problem is that it just seems so awkward and humiliating to hire an escort. And this is no way a moral judgement or "hang up" on my part, just how I feel personally. There's certainly the risk of STDs or worse. I mean, in my fantasies I'd LOVE for a t-girl to cum in my ass, but the reality is I'm NEVER going to allow an escort to do that...common sense, duh. Obviously, I have thought about it long and hard (pun intended) but another thing is I doubt it'd be nearly as satisfying as in my fantasies since the girl would probably be in a hurry to get me "there" and then gone, if you get my drift. But mobiryder does bring up a valid point...you only go once around the ride. I'm still ruminating on the subject, but I'm closer than ever to saying, "The hell with it" and attempting to find an escort near me.

[Hourglass]

I feel I must disagree with the notion of, "You have no excuse not to, because shemales are everywhere."

No. They are not.

I've spent most of my life living in small towns, and as anyone who's done so can tell you, it can be hard to do anything that isn't socially preferred by the majority. You're supposed to dress, behave, and date just like everybody else.

Compounding this problem is the fact that, if the town is small enough, everybody always has their noses in everyone else's business. Sure, you can shrug and say, "I don't care what they think." But being judged everywhere you go by everyone around you is not fun. And sadly, there is still a high percentage of the human race that clings to narrow-minded ideals and judgemental notions.

In other words, shemales cannot be everywhere because they are not accepted everywhere. Why do you think so many lead dual lives?

I casually dated a shemale a few years back. We were mostly friends, nothing serious. Good company, I guess you'd call us.
She was originally from NY and found herself down in central NC (talk about culture shock, lol). She was intelligent, articulate, and very attractive...too bad almost nobody in the city she was living in took the time to realize it.
In the end she was so unhappy she moved back to NY. "I'm accepted there," she said.

Not trying to bog down the thread with cynicism or anything.

[new believer]

If I have ever seen a TG(in person), I'm not aware of the fact.
BEING banged by a TG is very near to impossible for two reasons. 1st, I don't ever believe I could accept anyone or anything up my butt(no offense guys and gals). The 2nd reason is also for the reason I won't bang a TG, I'm married.

I will say this, in the event that my wife and I seperate in life or death(with me being the surving one and still able to get it up),I most definitely will seek out the experience.

But for now I'll just live in a fantasy world. I have about four absolute favorite ladies from the commercial zone and one very attractive true to life home body type who turns me on with just a PM every now and then. Have to add she has the cutest smile that lights up her whole face. My heart fluttered just thinking of her. Maybe someday will meet for a pleasent non-committal dinner like two old friends.
Reminds me of a movie I once saw where two friends get together after years apart, but one has become a TG. I can't remember how it ended ,the name of it or who starred in it.

[shemaleboy]

Still waiting to meet my first available t-girl...

[EdwardSinclair]

Well, my first ever experience with a really cute "kathoey" happened a few days ago. What encouraged me the most to seek this experience was this site! Now it wasn't face-to-face per se, it was via web cam. It was still an interesting experience and the first ever I had with a t-girl.

As for getting together with a t-girl it would be fun if it were not in reality harder than you seem to describe. Personally I also despise the idea of having to spend roughly 60 pounds to get it on with a random t-girl. In all my life in London, I have only ever come across one t-girl, who was a gorgeous 6 foot tall blonde, with the nicest body ever... I'm sure most people wouldn't even realise she was a t-girl, if not for the huge Adam's apple and the deep voice. This was a person who I met on a train to Stanstead, and was with a guy (apparently her boyfriend), there was nothing I could do to my frustration.

If there were more t-girls around I would agree with you, but it just isn't the case! Call me shallow, but I'm not just gonna go with anyone just because they are a t-girl, they have to have qualities too (And yes good looks is one of those qualities), I think I'm good looking... so I should at least be with someone that is sorta like me.

The thing with t-girls is, too much demand not enough supply (unless you luckily happen to live in Asia, but then their population numbers are also very high over there...). It seems to me the best t-girls out there are taken, and in fact they are spoilt for choice. Take the male to t-girl ratio on this site for example, it's ridiculous... unless you expect us to share t-girls, menage aux trois style, but that's just not a healthy relationship... three is a crowd!!

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by new believer

But for now I'll just live in a fantasy world. I have about four absolute favorite ladies from the commercial zone and one very attractive true to life home body type who turns me on with just a PM every now and then. Have to add she has the cutest smile that lights up her whole face. My heart fluttered just thinking of her. Maybe someday will meet for a pleasent non-committal dinner like two old friends.
.

shhhhhhh.

[rockabilly]

I'm waiting for marriage.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

I'm waiting for marriage.

You're not Al Bundy, are you?

[shooter_2403]

Yeah i live in a very small town of PA, Indiana pa to be exact and there are def not shemales or tgirls here even though its my dream to meet one and have the best sex ever with a tgirl and not the escort way i want a girl that i can see over and over again if anyone knows any close please let me know, would love to meet my first.

[samsson.smith]

I would love to but dont really know where to look for them?

I guess dating sites but I dont know I think that is kind of hacky.

[TheStiffmeister]

The main reasons: I'm scared about the first time, and also theres somewhat of a margin of not liking the experience. I mean, I greatly desire to fuck a TS, to enjoy her feet, and to see her blowing me, but then again, I don't like the idea of looking at a grown adult's cock and ballsack. My motivation about ts is not about their cock or their balls, and I dont even think about me being passive; my atracction to ts is about something else, their feminity, their sexiness, and so on. But facts as their male voice, their penises, their balls, is a scaring thing you know?

Also, Im scared of showing my face, of letting people know (e.g. the motel manager, the couples at the "lobby", the shemale itself) that Im not straight, that Im not heterosexual. And the top of all, I concern about my safety: who knows if the girl wants to rob me? I cant tell a friend "Look, if I dont come home tomorrow is cause I was abducted/robbed by a shemale scort Im planning to fuck tonight".

I got the money. I got the scort. I got the desire. I can find a place (anothern concern). But what about my fears and my safety?
I will certainly thank some "motivational words"

[runround04]

Way to parnoid for an escort, law and STD. But, a chance meeting ect... Im all over it

[snowblood]

Money, area and social Anxiety

Hell I haven't even been fucked by a real girl yet

[British_Steve]

If I'm still single by Christmas, it will be my gift to me.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Hourglass

[COLOR="DarkSlateBlue"][B]I feel I must disagree with the notion of, "You have no excuse not to, because shemales are everywhere."

No. They are not.

yes we are!
{we walk among you}

Those of us who totally "pass"
...well you would never know we are not born female.

[cutelukas]

Hi to all!
In Italy there are many Tgirls, at least in the northern regions. They're mostly brazilians and mexicans but it's possible to find also africans and some asians. You can find them at night in some bigger town's streets.

Even though I'm hetero I've had several experiences with t-girls. I had always been curious and, about ten years ago I started to stop and chat with them. Some were really wonderful and, I confess, I liked the idea to have their bones in my hand, so I decided to try. In the years I passed from the simply masturbation to the complete active intercourse but the thing which made me crazy was to masturbate or give them bjs (have you ever sucked a bone? It's non so simply as it appears. But I must have learnt my lesson quite well, look at their faces when I'm on my knees!).

Last summer I dated a 26 y/o brazilian beauty with which I tried my first passive experience. God, it has been a bit painful but she knew her job. After the first difficult moment I admit I was foolish feeling her bone inside me. And I'm not afraid to say that... I assure that my sexual hetero life goes on as ever.

Because I wanting on Bionca or Tslust to take my v-a from me but there is one other on here I would let have my v-a

Originally Posted by LeeIII

Because I wanting on Bionca or Tslust to take my v-a from me but there is one other on here I would let have my v-a

And that would be Merelypink

[michael39]

Originally Posted by tgirllovinguy

Well, I have never been with a t-girl but would LOVE to. I am single, I have $120.00 to spend (though when I've looked around on the net I think $250.00 is the lowest rate I've seen). I live in Phoenix, which seems to have a few t-girl escorts according to eros.com but my main problem is that it just seems so awkward and humiliating to hire an escort. And this is no way a moral judgement or "hang up" on my part, just how I feel personally. There's certainly the risk of STDs or worse. I mean, in my fantasies I'd LOVE for a t-girl to cum in my ass, but the reality is I'm NEVER going to allow an escort to do that...common sense, duh. Obviously, I have thought about it long and hard (pun intended) but another thing is I doubt it'd be nearly as satisfying as in my fantasies since the girl would probably be in a hurry to get me "there" and then gone, if you get my drift. But mobiryder does bring up a valid point...you only go once around the ride. I'm still ruminating on the subject, but I'm closer than ever to saying, "The hell with it" and attempting to find an escort near me.

Same here. Never been comfortable with the escort thing, but life is short and I think it may be the best way to find out if the experience is what I've imagined it would be. Would prefer to find some one local and to just meet and get to know. But, that doesn't look like it's going to happen.

[Kakariko]

Originally Posted by michael39

Same here. Never been comfortable with the escort thing, but life is short and I think it may be the best way to find out if the experience is what I've imagined it would be. Would prefer to find some one local and to just meet and get to know. But, that doesn't look like it's going to happen.

I feel the same way. I wouldn't want to pay money for sex, I don't think it'd feel right. I sometimes notice transsexual ads in the papers, but even if I didn't have a girlfriend, I would never call one of the numbers. I would prefer to meet a tgirl and get to know her first, rather than call some number and give someone money for something they probably don't really want to do. An escort doesn't know you and doesn't care about you emotionally, to them you're just another customer. I don't mean to offend anyone who hires escorts, this is just the way I feel. I don't mind if other people do this as it doesn't bother me at all, it's just not something I'd do myself.

[ROYGES]

Originally Posted by tgirllovinguy

Well, I have never been with a t-girl but would LOVE to. I am single, I have $120.00 to spend (though when I've looked around on the net I think $250.00 is the lowest rate I've seen). I live in Phoenix, which seems to have a few t-girl escorts according to eros.com but my main problem is that it just seems so awkward and humiliating to hire an escort. And this is no way a moral judgement or "hang up" on my part, just how I feel personally. There's certainly the risk of STDs or worse. I mean, in my fantasies I'd LOVE for a t-girl to cum in my ass, but the reality is I'm NEVER going to allow an escort to do that...common sense, duh. Obviously, I have thought about it long and hard (pun intended) but another thing is I doubt it'd be nearly as satisfying as in my fantasies since the girl would probably be in a hurry to get me "there" and then gone, if you get my drift. But mobiryder does bring up a valid point...you only go once around the ride. I'm still ruminating on the subject, but I'm closer than ever to saying, "The hell with it" and attempting to find an escort near me.

I'll just add to that, that i have girlfriend (like married),

[owen]

if i met a cute tgirl in a club and we hit it off, then i'd go for it. but the idea of being the tenth guy in a row that day for some apathetic escort with cum on her breath ain't that appealing.