A bit serious..

[rockabilly]

You ladies should not have to settle or come to grips w/ anything. Good men are out there , some closer than others. And for "men" who use you as a sexual fetish screw those insecure bastards who are to afraid to embrace sexuality and stay grounded in terms of Gay / Straight. Theres a wide spectrum of human sexuality people.

[Theblindestpilot]

I apologise for being an arsehole, I didn't think about offence until I read that post today and realised how riddled with it is was.

I'm still a teenager, finding myself is a long way away yet.

[Theblindestpilot]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

You ladies should not have to settle or come to grips w/ anything. Good men are out there , some closer than others. And for "men" who use you as a sexual fetish screw those insecure bastards who are to afraid to embrace sexuality and stay grounded in terms of Gay / Straight. Theres a wide spectrum of human sexuality people.

This is completely out of curiosity, don't feel like you have to answer it, but have you ever had a transexual girlfriend/(boyfriend)? And if so how did your family and friends react?

[rockabilly]

My Aunts a lesbian and she knows. Honestly shes a little confused by it but accepts it. I dont have much of a family left. I have went on some dates w/ a tgirl but she and i never became intimate. Just take peoples feelings into account before you say something you regret. Nobody likes feeling used.

[charlietwobeans]

you're growing up (as a teen) in a very transformative time - the social acceptance of transgendered people, despite all the doom and gloom and the social hardships and stigmas they still face, is growing every day. So, this is a time for you to be able to openly explore the possibility of being in a relationship with a Tgirl, not just sexually. As others have said, have you tried a relationship? You're disgust may stem from the fact that you're not putting these people on the same level as you - treating them as people first and sex objects second.

I urge you to try real dating instead of sexual encounters - Tgirls and transgendered people in general are some of the most wonderful people to be with - they're people, in short, but they've taken an unusually bold step in their decisions, and its something to learn from and to laud.

Consider yourself lucky. Make the exploration, and then decide.

I am envious of your position, as I am sure many others are.