A bit serious..

[racquel]

Originally Posted by Theblindestpilot

I would never want to be in an actual relationship with a shemale, it's purely a sexual thing and some times after I've finished the whole idea seems disgusting.

Umm ... well ... since you want to be a bit serious ... then fuck you, too.

I think a lot of people have similar feelings, but it's a dangerous place to be ... at least for other people. I think a lot of hate crimes start with this kind of self-loathing.

And self-loathing is what it is. It's something you need to deal with. It's no different than if you were a 12-year-old Catholic boy masturbating constantly and thinking you're going to go to hell for it, but you can't stop masturbating. You're going to have to find a way to be comfortable with yourself or it's going to be a miserable life.

Why does it have to be purely sexual? You must think it's gay on some level if you would never consider a relationship with a TS girl. What's wrong with being with a girl you're attracted to and maybe adopting a kid together?

To be fair I know the answer to that. The whole reason many TS people (in the US at least) don't transition until they're middle-aged is because there's so much social pressure. The hardest thing I've ever done in life is try to just be myself and not worry about all the judgment. I can't expect a guy to have that kind of confidence. After all, it's probably just a fetish.

(btw, I'm not really angry ... just kinda giving my perspective ... well, the perspective of a barely-sentient fuck hole that you would never be seen in public with ... OK, a little more sarcasm there ... sorry)