Does liking shemales make you gay?

[transfan85]

I can only speak for myself, and this is something I have given a lot of thought to. I consider myself a gay male, I date men, I love men. I accidentily came across the trans-world and discovered I was insanely attracted to the girls I saw. The wonderful thing about tgirls, is that they are neither women nor men. They are something else entirely. Having said that, perhaps we are a third sexuality all our own, neither gay or straight. No matter what we're called, I love transgirls and won't stop :-)

[ila]

Originally Posted by transfan85

I can only speak for myself, and this is something I have given a lot of thought to. I consider myself a gay male, I date men, I love men. I accidentily came across the trans-world and discovered I was insanely attracted to the girls I saw. The wonderful thing about tgirls, is that they are neither women nor men. They are something else entirely. Having said that, perhaps we are a third sexuality all our own, neither gay or straight. No matter what we're called, I love transgirls and won't stop :-)

I disagree. Transwomen are 100% women and only women.

[ussbwk073]

I've heard this question over and over again. The short answer is no and the deep answer is, "Does it really matter??"

[franalexes]

we are what you define us to be; but your deffinition ends with you.

T-gurls are like a sportscar that came off the assembly line with the wrong transmission. Some parts may not seem right but you may be in for a hellova ride!

[mabedzaqueen]

Originally Posted by transfan85

I can only speak for myself, and this is something I have given a lot of thought to. I consider myself a gay male, I date men, I love men. I accidentily came across the trans-world and discovered I was insanely attracted to the girls I saw. The wonderful thing about tgirls, is that they are neither women nor men. They are something else entirely. Having said that, perhaps we are a third sexuality all our own, neither gay or straight. No matter what we're called, I love transgirls and won't stop :-)

Well transfan85, maybe you spoke "only for yourself", but the path that led you to discover trans-women is surprisingly similar to mine. Five months ago, i wanted to start a thread, "Could a homosexual man get aroused by Tgirls??" (as if i possibly were the only one in this forum), but seeing how this thread got continuously bashed and ridiculed, even by moderators, i quickly dismissed the idea...

Not long ago, i read what wikipedia says about kathoeys (Asian shemales) being considered a third gender in Thailand (and other Buddhist countries) and should you, transfan85, be curious enough to read it too, you'll be amazed how the part of your post that i made in bold makes sense, perhaps even more than you thought while writing it...

Needless to say your post was like a breath of fresh air for me

[cannibal]

Originally Posted by mabedzaqueen

Five months ago, i wanted to start a thread, "Could a homosexual man get aroused by Tgirls??"

Can a homosexual man be aroused by a woman? It happens all the time, some are even married and have children... So, as I said, I don't think it's the attraction to tgirls that makes someone gay or not.

Originally Posted by mabedzaqueen

Not long ago, i read what wikipedia says about kathoeys (Asian shemales) being considered a third gender in Thailand (and other Buddhist countries)

I never really get the 3rd gender label, because I'm not sure this is really possible. From a certain point of view, all the characteristics in the 3rd gender are the same of the already existing genders - male and female. I don't think there are any specific 3rd gender characteristics. It makes more sense to me to consider them by their mental gender than to keep coming up with hybrid stuff.

[transfan85]

I guess it boils down to, you are who you are, you like what you like. People will call you whatever makes them feel comfortable. I'm a transfan, and I like it that way.

[E24th]

Originally Posted by transfan85

I can only speak for myself, and this is something I have given a lot of thought to. I consider myself a gay male, I date men, I love men. I accidentily came across the trans-world and discovered I was insanely attracted to the girls I saw. The wonderful thing about tgirls, is that they are neither women nor men. They are something else entirely. Having said that, perhaps we are a third sexuality all our own, neither gay or straight. No matter what we're called, I love transgirls and won't stop :-)

Despite the part about tgirls not being women or men (I consider them women, although a special, more appreciable kind of woman), it's so good to see I'm not alone on this one! Boy that does actually make me feel a lot better, I'm not a total weirdo!

[BigPhilly]

Hi forum. I'm new here and this has been bugging me for a while. I don't like males but I love Tgirls and Traps and that sort of stuff. I'm only 19 so i've never been with a TSgirl before but I do enjoy Transexual porn and chicks with dicks. I can't help but feel a little gay? I get upset about it sometimes. This is also the first time i've ever opened up about this stuff.

[transjen]

GUYS GUYS please get over this whole am i gay thing, and stop trying to label and class and group people
I'll fill you in on a few facts, first off when i was pre-op i dressed acted and thought like a girl so even tho i had a penis at the time i was a girl so any guy that dated me at the time was in realitly dating a woman
Know the whole sex thing agian stop labeling sex is a way to pleasure each other is it not? and at that time between my legs was a penis so my boyfriends would play with it not because they were gay but to pleasure me
So just go out and have fun and stop worring about the gay thing
Jerseygirl Jen

[Boner]

Today on Maury Povich they had an episode with ten lovely ladies, some of whom were t-girls, and the audience had to guess which ones weren't born female. Sadly I was at work and couldn't watch the whole thing when this came on but all the women were gorgeous. I'm sure by the end of the show, some "straight" guy was intrigued. So no, liking a girl with something extra doesn't make one gay. But it ain't 100% straight either!

[no1000]

Originally Posted by transjen

GUYS GUYS please get over this whole am i gay thing, and stop trying to label and class and group people
I'll fill you in on a few facts, first off when i was pre-op i dressed acted and thought like a girl so even tho i had a penis at the time i was a girl so any guy that dated me at the time was in realitly dating a woman
Know the whole sex thing agian stop labeling sex is a way to pleasure each other is it not? and at that time between my legs was a penis so my boyfriends would play with it not because they were gay but to pleasure me
So just go out and have fun and stop worring about the gay thing
Jerseygirl Jen

+1 Coming from a straight guy here.

[smc]

Originally Posted by transjen

GUYS GUYS please get over this whole am i gay thing, and stop trying to label and class and group people
I'll fill you in on a few facts, first off when i was pre-op i dressed acted and thought like a girl so even tho i had a penis at the time i was a girl so any guy that dated me at the time was in realitly dating a woman
Know the whole sex thing agian stop labeling sex is a way to pleasure each other is it not? and at that time between my legs was a penis so my boyfriends would play with it not because they were gay but to pleasure me
So just go out and have fun and stop worring about the gay thing
Jerseygirl Jen

Thank you, Jen.

Why people care what others "classify" them as is and always has been beyond my comprehension.

[mr. macaque]

Yes. We're all in denial.

[curiosity69]

This thread just confirmed a lot of what I was already thinking. I'm pretty comfortable in my own skin so I hadn't worried much about labelling what I am, but it's nice to know there are so many other people out there who feel like I do.

Thanks for sharing everyone.

[JodieTs]

I think that if a man plays with a penis,
then he is definitely a latent homosexual;
especially so, ...if it's his own penis.

Sorry guys, but that is a medically proven FACT.

[ila]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

I think that if a man plays with a penis,
then he is definitely a latent homosexual;
especially so, ...if it's his own penis.

Sorry guys, but that is a medically proven FACT.

That would make women lesbians if they play with their own naughty bits.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by ila

That would make women lesbians if they play with their own naughty bits.

Yep.
That's the way it works.

[no1000]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

I think that if a man plays with a penis,
then he is definitely a latent homosexual;
especially so, ...if it's his own penis.

Sorry guys, but that is a medically proven FACT.

This was pretty funny because I know you are not serious.

[smc]

Originally Posted by no1000

This was pretty funny because I know you are not serious.

I would be very careful with what you presume to be serious and unserious coming from Jodie, lest her alter ego get you!

[clt ts lover]

nice to know im not alone....i consider myself straight and am very masculine but there is something about a beautiful shemale that turns me on very much.my friends would never understand and i have no one to talk to about it

[jim4o]

no they are girls

[linflo]

Personally I think does it really matter?

Everyone is so obssessed with labels.

I am a huge shemale admirer (have been for 10 years now when i first saw christy mcnicole). Like a lot of guys I don't find guys attractive, I still like females but really prefer shemales or even convincing TV's if they remain in role.
Shemales are generally much more feminine that real girls nowadays, and I must admit I also love cock both sucking and taking. But would never consider it with a guy.

I love being with femine pretty ladies but having the experience of something more than a female can give me - it's basically the best of both worlds.
I'm not phased by genetailia, it's about the person, and if i like the person i'll do anything with them which is fun for both.

I don't care what people percieve me as being I don't call myself anything - but I would think that the girls on here would not consider guys like me as being gay because they feel and are beautiful women, who should be repected and treated in that manner.

[Sebastian Norah]

Loving Tboys isn't necessarily gay.

Emulating them is, on the other hand..

[gunslinger1985]

I don't think we are gay. The fact that shemales are people who feel like and consider themselves women makes me think that we are attracted to femininity and just like the possibilities that a shemale offers that biological women don't.

[knight]

Originally Posted by gunslinger1985

I don't think we are gay. The fact that shemales are people who feel like and consider themselves women makes me think that we are attracted to femininity and just like the possibilities that a shemale offers that biological women don't.

My thoughts exactly

[CHRIME]

that would interest me. I love Ladyboys more than Girls but I cannot have Sex with a man. This is impossible.

[SweetCharmer]

no its perfectly arlright that you like shemales but don't like men in the end all you really like is a WOMAN with a cock is just that nothing to do with men coz you still this of them as women

[kimypbr]

Yes.. for me too.

For me, ladyboys are female

[malan]

it is good to see I am not alone in these thoughts. I to see them as females.

[SweetCharmer]

i think that nearly everyone here has that same thought nearly everyone thinks of ladyboys as women

[andrewtricolor]

No, i am straight and i like to have sex with shemales, but not with men

[CHRIME]

For me Ladyboys are also female. I am very satisfied that I am not alone with this meaning.

[djse7en2000]

same as me guys..

for me LB's are also female

[twfs21]

i was talking to a gay friend of mine and he said if u like shemales or ladboys ur not gay. there is no gay man who likes shemales. this was his opinion.

[cocklover]

Originally Posted by djse7en2000

same as me guys..

for me LB's are also female

Ditto..........

[TSBBG]

Originally Posted by andrewtricolor

No, i am straight and i like to have sex with shemales, but not with men

I feel the same.

[horizontal]

i am not confused
i am what i am and what i am is me
i dont need a label
i like what i like and he she it doesnt need a label
you dont have to climb into any particular box and i recommend nobody climbs into any box at all
do what you want to who you want if they want it too

and live your one short life to the max

[warblade]

I love ladyboys and I also love girls but I have never see ladyboys as men. I know I would not even think about having sex with another man. I like girls and ladyboys.

[vibesfan]

Shemales and gg's only. I have viewed gay porno and it didn't do anything for me. I do think however that there is a gay element in being attracted to penises. If we were all totally striaight we would not be attracted to anyone with a penis. A decidedly male face is not a turn on for me . A beautiful shemale with a large cock drives me crazy and all I can think of is to give her head. I have no such desire with a man.

[Lucy6]

I hate this whole gay or straight thing, to me its just sex, doesn't matter if its with a guy, a girl or a shemale, its there for 1 thing and thats to have fun

[LadyBoys-Lover]

i think it's quite possible when u love women and ladyboys and don't love men

[tslust]

Originally Posted by Lucy6

I hate this whole gay or straight thing, to me its just sex, doesn't matter if its with a guy, a girl or a shemale, its there for 1 thing and thats to have fun

I prefer shemales, but would be willing to play with a cute gay (a big cock is a plus).

[Kittyuk]

Originally Posted by Lucy6

I hate this whole gay or straight thing, to me its just sex, doesn't matter if its with a guy, a girl or a shemale, its there for 1 thing and thats to have fun

Lucy I can't agree with this statement more, you are so right. If I have a preference it would be for a sweet ladyboy but the most important thing is that ones partner should have a tender loving disposition no matter what gender.

Kitty

[Skeggjold]

Originally Posted by vibesfan

Shemales and gg's only. I have viewed gay porno and it didn't do anything for me. I do think however that there is a gay element in being attracted to penises. If we were all totally striaight we would not be attracted to anyone with a penis. A decidedly male face is not a turn on for me . A beautiful shemale with a large cock drives me crazy and all I can think of is to give her head. I have no such desire with a man.

Exactly what I think. I have wondered if looking at shemales makes me gay, but looking at guy on guy does absolutely nothing for me.

[TheSkronkDonkey]

Like what you like, transcend all labels, beat the system.

Or something.

Seriously, I don't think there's a label that could describe me. Nor would I wish for one!

[twistedone]

The age old and ongoing question. Kinda tires me to see it all the time.

Just be yourself and enjoy whether your hetro, bi, or gay.

[russellwu]

I think the segregation of gender into heterosexual, homosexual, transsexual, etc... is flawed. Case in point, the originator of this thread. I think a more appropriate classification would be something like "attracted to the male form", "attracted to the female form", etc... with subgroups pertaining to the extent or criteria of the person: and this is probably where hetero and homo come in.

For example, I would be "attracted to the female form" and "bisexual". Meaning, as long as the person looks like a girl (and has the looks, mind you), i don't really care what i find down there. :P

[belfagar]

I don't think liking or loving she-males is a gay thing. human sexuality is to complex to sum up. I have never touched a penis that wasn't my own. I have no desire to have any kind of sexual relations with a man. But i would play with Barbie Woods. no conflict here.

[sesame]

Sometimes shemales are more feminine than females in their mannerism. Those who learn to become like a girl attain feminine traits and idiosyncrasies so much that they surpass natural girls. Plus you get the bonus feature hidden between her legs! A real "all in one" package. So I guess Ladyboys are really intrigueing, and thus they catch our attention. So my friend, fear not. One third of the world is behind you!